InDePickWest
Im Not American
I can only speak for me but maybe shes just trynna get you to talk first? My grandmother said only whores approach men first, I remember her saying that. at 7 years old. Its actually common. Alot of us dont wanna speak first because of social ramifications guys didnt have to grow up with.@InDePickWest This is my first post after lurking for a few weeks. I'm in college, and I've been eyeing this girl since the beginning of the semester, but only from a distance because she was always with a guy (assuming her man). Well now, it's been about 2 weeks and he's nowhere to be found when I see her. Last week I was in the library's quiet study hall and in my peripheral I see someone stop ten feet to my side. I look up and it was her staring RIGHT at me lmao. I stared her down until she turned and left with her friend (female). I don't even need any clearer sign than that. Next time I see her ima talk to her. I'm thinking she's looking for a rebound, which I'm not about to be, but now's my time to get in there feel me? I know she's seen me check her out a few times, so now she wants to give a kid play. As a lady, what is going through her my mind?
The best thing to say to her is "I see you always ignoring me"..in a joking but serious way. 8/10 she'll smile and deny that shes ignoring you. Take it from there. That'll prompt her to speak when she sees you next time cuz she knows you notice her when shes around. Thats a great way to make a girl feel special but at the same time make her do her own part in the getting together because when you dont speak to her now, she will get super jealous. Kinda a I see you but you better act like you see me type of way.