so dude really is an abuser… now I feel like a piece of shyt for giving him the benefit of the doubt to my lady when she was firm on her “where there’s smoke there is fire” stance
The thing that makes this fuzzy to me is it's so vaguely claimed.
Is he physically abusive? He slaps around the production/film staff?
Because people will call gaslighting mental abuse when twenty years ago nikkas just called it lying.
Or call someone who's unfriendly and caustic verbally abusive.
There's so many labels that people apply to ish in this era that many wouldn't subscribe to irl.
Hence the labeling of this era as the soft nikka era.
If he's out here slapping people around and choking them, get rid of him, but if dudes just an otherwise harmless a-hole, this ish is looking like a witchhunt.