TO DAYMOND'S DEFENSE, I also wanted to add this.
Believe it or not, I actually believe there's a possibility that he was actually sincere with the advice he was giving me
Here's the thing.
There's a false perception out there that the reason why these Millionaire and Billionaire Entrepreneurs are in the position they in is because they are somehow smarter in business then everyone else.
That is not necessarily true. They where merely luckier then everybody else.
They benefited from certain circumstances in history, and they were at the right place at the right time, and they were just smart enough to capitalize on it.
For example, here's the way you got to look at things.
Mark Zuckerberg came up with the idea of facebook when he went to a particular prep school that had a student directory that was somewhat similar to what we know as Facebook today.
So what if Mark Zuckerberg never went to that particular school? Chances are, we would've never had a facebook.
Or even using Dayme as an example. All the forces in the universe also collided in his favor with Fubu.
He was lucky in the fact that he started his company in Queens at a time when Queens rappers where becoming very popular in hip hop.
He used to have Queens rappers wear his shirt.
He was a roadie for popular rappers and even had LL COOL J LIVING in his neighborhood! See how success is really circumstantial??
So he just walked up to LL and LL decided to give him an opportunity and the rest is history.
I believe there's a book called Outliers that speaks on this.
So allot of times when we watch interviews or seminars with successfull people, we look towards them to give us some magical beans, or some great advice that we can implement.
But like 99% of the time, we can't, because its not necessarily implementable in our OWN lives, our own LIFE TRAJECTORY.
You cant put somebody else's number in your own equation.
So there's a good chance that the reason why he gave me generic advice is because THAT'S ALL HE COULD GIVE.
BUT ON THE FLIPSIDE, I do look at the meeting as a rip off because if you KNOW that you are going to be giving out generic advice, dont charge a struggling entrepreneur thousands of dollars for it.