Busted_Toes
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The father is there to smack the kid when that happens. Some mothers might want the poor boy to pose, fast forward twenty years and his face is buried in a pillow. Parents should stop that shyt as soon as possible.
Eight Year Old Boy takes medication to delay puberty as he ponders his gender
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The father is there to smack the kid when that happens. Some mothers might want the poor boy to pose, fast forward twenty years and his face is buried in a pillow. Parents should stop that shyt as soon as possible.
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I understand your viewpoints, but that doesn't change the valdiity of my point. Lot of kids who have done these childish things turn out to be what you would consider "normal" in everyway.
ExpensiveThrillz
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Please learn how to conduct proper flow of conversation by not bending my words to suit your point...not that you made one....additionally, please refrain from questioning my intellect when you're the one displaying the lack thereof....trying to force your words on others and name call isn't going to get you far...we don't have to agree but you can keep all the name calling slick shyt and pissing contest nonsense to the other penis-havers in on this site...im not trying to win an argument...just here to post my thoughts on topics of interest
moving along to get to the meat of whatever it was i think you were trying to say
i really didn't infuse much of my personal feelings into my original post....however, reading the article let me know two things that aren't opinion oriented....the boy does associate girl clothing with being "right for him" ...so yes, he does want to be a girl and wearing girl clothing supports that...DUH....additionally his mutilation attempt stems from his childs brain associating his sex organ with not being on the "proper" body that he believes he should have....therefore deducing he needed to get it off him....that doesn't automatically mean he's been abused
what you failed to realize in your hasty attempt to say something smart back is that there are plenty of holes in the back story that aren't fully supported by fact...so my assumption could be right or wrong just like yours can...deal with it
Im not disagreeing but kids do alot of other shyt than "dressing up".
sohh you're a female? 
You are yapping and nothing is coming out to get to a real point. Unfortunately your lack of comprehending the definition of self-harm is the reason you can't and will not address the issue of abuse. No need to write a book on it, It proves you can't accept the fact of the real problem in this article, the real issue in this debate. What logical sense does it make for him to attack his penis in self harm if it doesn't associate with abuse?
PartyHeart
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Where did the child learn that his penis is a characteristic of his maleness for him to want to mutilate it to become like a girl??
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Which is my point. If we start assigning some deep biological/philosophical to everything a kid does, there is going to be some fukked up kids later on life.
These people may very well be born this way, but I take issue with taking what a 5, 6, 7, or 8 year old says as literal. Their minds are not capable of understanding such things yet. There may very well be opposite cases of this, where a child is born a gender, feels like he belongs to that gender, but decides to pretend to be something else because their children. Some fukking parent pounces on that in order to be tolerant, and the kid suffers.
@thekingsmen, do you think these parents should be charged with a crime or punished?
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Are you a parent? They learn that shyt on their own.
PartyHeart
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I'm not a parent. And I do agree that kids learn this on their own, but it says he was 7 when he threatened this. I just simply find it hard to believe its possible for a child to have that type of understanding at that age without priming.
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I understand, but from self experience being a parent and being around other parents, they come to realize differences in sexual organs at very young ages. It honestly took me by surprise.
PartyHeart
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How though? I could understand if there was another female child in the house around the same age (perhaps they would have taken baths together). But it is just him and his adopted lesbian parents.
Also, even recognizing the differences does not explain how the child made the logical leap to cutting his penis off to become like a girl. I respect your opinion in this because you're a parent, but it just doesn't sit right with me to think the story is being told entirely how it played out.
When children are of a certain age that they want to be a "Rock", "turtle", "Parrot", "dog" or something fantasy like ..we laugh. When we address what they want to be growing up we hear "doctor", "firemen", "police", etc. Not once has there been a direction of growing up to be a "Male or Female". This is where neutral role becomes distorted and focused on. The MSM shows the audience of parents who are confused about their kids but the articles show a small piece of the real story going on. The big story isn't shown about what is taught in the household where these kids want to change their whole physical self.
We can give out examples of why dark skin children believe light skin is better based off the environment they grow up in and how their mind is settled in that stage based off the situations given. Same goes with any scenario of kids wanting to be different( examples goth kids dress in black to hide their emotional state about themselves). According to the supporters of this....is there is nothing wrong with the kid, there is only something wrong with his body and people who don't accept it.
hold up.... unless someone explains it to them kids have no clue until they are much older that girls have a vagina and boys have a penis. gender id starts at around 2-3 years old, but even then it takes them a few years to figure out that's what defines the difference between boys and girls. this is not something they figure out on their own.
if that boy has known from a very young age that having a penis would make him a boy and he hated it so much that he wanted to mutilate himself, something else was going on. i'm not saying they molested that boy, but they definitely didn't do his developmental process any favors.