Eboni K Williams defends her comments about Black men being collectively mediocre. “Black men need to know the truth about themselves”

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

And what do you think the root of this is?

You do know up until the late 60s Black women were the most married. I’ll take it easy with you for now…bit I can go into that details. And you want like that.

"1970 Black Women & Men Debate Their Relationships On TV - Pre Oprah Winfrey"



"CBS Reports: The Vanishing Family - Crisis In Black America (1986)".




"Lesbian mothers helped create a foundation of single parent families which challenged the gendered stereotypes of motherhood and hood. They helped single mothers liberate themselves from the constrictions of the traditional nuclear family with its built-in heteronormativity. […] In Separate Roads to Feminism: Black, Chicana and White Feminist Movements in America’s Second Wave, Benita Roth explains how the history of racism in the U.S. played an important part in creating this divide. Instead of arguing about a woman’s right NOT to bear a child, these minority women focused on how to combine motherhood with feminism and equality. They wanted to change the assumption that single motherhood was a pathology and/or a punishment. Single mothers of all ethnicities could relate to this conversation. […]."
(Elizabeth Ryan, "Transforming Motherhood: Single Parents' Liberation,Transforming Motherhood: Single Parents' Liberation In The 1970s, (2015), Wayne State University Dissertations.1409)

If the men were there, and being providers, this wouldn’t have happened.

Black women did not decide to be single mothers one day. If the fathers of their children wanted to marry them, they would marry those men. Too many black women chose the wrong man, who probably wasn’t responsible before she got pregnant, but she thought a baby would change him. This is where black women lack accountability.

In current times, there is no excuse for the high numbers of out of wedlock births. This isn’t to say the men aren’t still involved, but a two parent household is ideal. I do not co-sign the belief that black people are children who are told how to live, and can’t figure out the difference between right and wrong. We keep blaming everyone else for our problems, when we are most influenced by what is happening in our own homes, and surroundings, which are dominated by other black people.

 

[ajnapoleon]

Why is her book called bet on black when her fiance was white brehs

I need answers and feel bamboozled to the highest degree

That’s the part that gets buried

Go to white zaddy

But even they don’t want her or up to her “standards”

That tell you a lot and she already on the “freezing my eggs” game

I hate to say it

But I hope it’s a girl


I said it before I will say it again


A lot of black woman hate black men so much they will say “all black men not shyt”


While holding they own son in their hands

Like you don’t see what your saying in front of your son?

He don’t hear you?



And before you call me a incel


Can you even imagine a black man chilling with his black daughter saying


“All black woman are terrible and not shyt”




Nah you can’t right?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Y’all can blame the system all you want. That isn’t going to change the situation. You have to be responsible for creating your own life. If you didn’t have a productive day, it’s nobody’s fault but your own. Life requires money, and nobody should be content with a low income. Building a life together isn’t just about feelings, and character. Your feelings and character aren’t paying a mortgage. Your feelings and character aren’t buying cars. Relationships are difficult regardless of income.

 

[Squirrel from Meteor Man]

Wait she’s not licensed?

Eboni K. Williams’ North Carolina law license was suspended due to unpaid fees

The “RHONY” star currently cannot practice law in her home state.

pagesix.com

 

[Back&4th]

I never looked into the history of who she is, but the way her book is laid out, its very pro black

very pro fukk these crackers,

She mean that, literally

 

[spliz]

There is no ALL,only the men. The position of women in society is based on what the men build,the education the men have. So if black womens businesses failing doesnt matter,as black women shouldnt even have businesses. If black women are going to college more,but not getting good jobs out of it? Doesnt matter,black women arent supposed to go to college and have jobs. But if they do,it doesnt matter,it only ultimately matters what the men do. As women can not uplift a community. So there is no "we are in this together".


How uplifting the community looks is a different story. If black men dont want to start businesses and dont want to go to college. We dont need to defend that to women. But you should have a plan and be too unmoved to engage in gender wars. Black women are frustrated with the lack of vision overall. And the rest have been genetically modified as weapons against the black man

No nikka. Yes there is ALL. All of this in fighting is goofy as fukk and sets us back. But by and large. The narrative that's being spinned that black men are poor and uneducated while the women are lapping us is all false. All of that other shyt u talking has nothing to do with the main point in the first place.

 

[King Poetic]

1. I like how she avoided her dating white men

2. She just need to keep it real and say u wouldn’t date a bus driver… however I find it funny that some of these women especially a lot of single mothers who agree with her have kids with a ex con, in jail, broke drug dealer living on your couch .. can’t make this shyt up

3. Not every man or woman can be business owners or have time to get multiple incomes or some men are good with making 50,55,60,65,70 k a year..

4. How many white, Asian , Hispanic women are married to regular 9-5 bus drivers type of men…. Majority are…when it comes to them they grow together as one with both their salaries and not try to shyt on each other….. my white female boss in insurance she’s married to a regular electrician and make more money than him, but she loves him for him not a title

The eboni K type of sistas get with men because of their job titles and not the man himself

 

[Ohene]

I've heard the name, but I have no idea who she is. Regardless, I don't see anything wrong with what she said tbh

Me neither
Need to hold our ppl accountable

I think a bus driver a decent job but agree with the rest

 

[Ohene]

Because men are supposed to be the providers. Every other group of men knows this, and operates this way. We’re the only group of men who constantly expect the standards to be lowered for us.

A bus driver makes a decent salary, gets a great pension and likely has medical benefits

It’s a solid occupation

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

No other race has proud c00n opps like this. We have no consequences for snakes in our grass that matter. So they slither around freely

Let the universe steer a runaway bus into her future for some poetic justice

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

A bus driver makes a decent salary, gets a great pension and likely has medical benefits

It’s a solid occupation

Yes it is. But I wouldn’t expect a lawyer to date one. If she was a teacher, retail manager, worked at the DMV, post office etc, I would say she’s a hypocrite. People usually date within their own educational, socio economic background, and appearance level.

 

[vino]

Y’all can blame the system all you want. That isn’t going to change the situation. You have to be responsible for creating your own life. If you didn’t have a productive day, it’s nobody’s fault but your own. Life requires money, and nobody should be content with a low income. Building a life together isn’t just about feelings, and character. Your feelings and character aren’t paying a mortgage. Your feelings and character aren’t buying cars. Relationships are difficult regardless of income.

That’s not what everyone is doing. I actually live a very productive life, married, children and people within my network or adjacent to it are doing the same. I know blue collar Black men as well who are married with Black wives as well. What I will say, is what you are saying is just not accurate. Not all Black communities are the same and people keep painting with a broad brush on national televised spaces.

Are you married? What do you have a degree in? Or if no degree what’s your profession? Do you own a home?

 

[LDC]

The main reason why she and women like her can't get or keep what they want (rich man, black man, white man, any man) is because they don't know how to STFU. And over time the shyt wears on everyone. I read that's basically why she got kicked off that housewives show cause they got tired of her always stirring shyt up trying to school them on white supremacy everywhere. And that's probably really why the white cat(s) left her. White men don't want to hear how bad they are all the time IN THEIR HOUSE. If that's how you feel, then get on.

She got the acceptance into rich white folk spaces she wanted and the white man she really wanted and fumbled it cause she don't STFU. So now she's pivoted back to making it black men's fault cause we're all mediocre with no drive. People picked up on it, called her out and instead of admitting she was wrong (like her type never does), she trying to mask it as love and concern for the community.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Because men are supposed to be the providers. Every other group of men knows this, and operates this way. We’re the only group of men who constantly expect the standards to be lowered for us.

Men will provide for women that are worth it
Ain’t no sane nikka on this earth providing for a bytch with a nasty attitude
Second most women of other cultures(excluding Asian and middle eastern women because they be on shallow time too)
Have no problem getting with a blue collar man
Because themselves came from blue collar working homes and saw what their fathers did everyday
Somehow, somewhere nikkas and bytches like you are out here shaming men who are making a decent, hard earning wage
nikkas and bytches like you have no concept of seniority pay
Nor do you have a concept on how some of the benefits work at these jobs
you have no concept of how many brehs are independent with their own businesses
Which they set their own hours
May have a fleet of busses, trucks and other forms of mass transportation
You don’t know what kinds of contracts they getting as construction managers
No, nikkas and bytches like you are brainless gumps that only believe in one version of what manhood is
You never stepped off the front porch but you can confidently fix your fingers behind a screen that was made off poor children in undeveloped nations with so much bravado
Who the fukk gets your power on after a storm
Who the fukk trouble shoots your electronic devices
Who the fukk fixes your roof if it’s damaged
Who the fukk fixes your plumbing
Who the fukk fixes your vehicles
Who the fukk coming to your house when it’s on fire
I could go on and on
But you are a simple bytch ass nikka I have not one iota of respect for
So I will close it with this
That raggedy bytch own mother was a bus driver
So to shyt on blue collar workers is to shyt on her own existence
None of these so called educated hoes would be where they are today without blue collar men/women
They wouldn’t dare say this to their big mommas and pop pops
They don’t even see how they are throwing their own uncles and brothers under the bus(no pun intended) for 5 minutes of fame
Women like her are in for a rude awakening and have no concept of history in this country or the atrocities white men put their own ancestors through
They ain’t gon protect them if this shyt ever really pops off and they running away young nikkas and older nikkas away with their foot in mouth disease
fukk you and have a blessed day beloved

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

That’s not what everyone is doing. I actually live a very productive life, married, children and people within my network or adjacent to it are doing the same. I know blue collar Black men as well who are married with Black wives as well. What I will say, is what you are saying is just not accurate. Not all Black communities are the same and people keep painting with a broad brush on national televised spaces.

Are you married? What do you have a degree in? Or if no degree what’s your profession? Do you own a home?

I am married, own a home, have a full time job in marketing, and a side business. If I fail at something, I don’t blame the system. I used to have a mostly white social circle until Trayvon, and social media. Once social media exposed the racism, I started severing ties with most of my white friends. I was raised by divorced parents, and a stepfather. We went to private school until high school. My mom kept us in extra curricular activities, we went to camp every summer, and we were never allowed to give the bare minimum. We were raised in the black church, which I have some issues with, but I’m not going into that.