Eboni K Williams defends her comments about Black men being collectively mediocre. “Black men need to know the truth about themselves”

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Not only wealthy white men have wives who stay home. Depending on your state, you can live on one income, if you budget properly.
That is because in some of these (mostly red states) these white folks have inherited land from a criminal land grab, Homestead Act or Headright system. That is how they have gotten these assets backed into generational wealth.
 
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Is there any quantified evidence for this with absolutely numbers?


That’s because they didn’t go through the Man In The House Rule act. And secondly, they don’t choose the “I am bad by myself” lifestyle.

Look how they treated Kevin Samuels for suggesting that BM and BW should marry and combine their income to create generational wealth.
The black community has a difficult time with relationships, and trust. It’s very much an “everyone is out to get me” and a constant need to fight, play or get played.
 

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Are you serious? Our women work the most out of any race of women. Everyone else has much larger amounts of women who stay home while the husband works. This is why you see these average looking white men with attractive women. Most of those men have money.

You live fantasy world called the amazing white man. That is not the case, what you just stated. A lot of them rubbing 2 nickels together, get help from mom and dad, have a below average woman as a stay at home wife. You clearly only know what you see on movies/tv or something. That shyt you saying is false. I mean completely false.

Also, every racial group has a large percentage of their women working now.
 

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The problem is. The talking points she's bringing are categorically false if u actually did any sort of deep research. Black women ARENT earning more than black men. As a whole. They ARENT more successful at business than black men. They have more "businesses" but failed businesses that don't really make money. Average income is below the poverty line with black female businesses. The most glaring point is. We black people are ALL at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to business in this country. Of basically any minority. Alot of lies are being fed out there and we black men are always the brunt of the fukking attacks so people can step on us to try to get where they need to be. I'm getting completely SICK of this gender war shyt. It's fueled by a bunch of lies. Half truths and bullshyt. And our women are publicly perpetuating this shyt in every form of media they can find.


There is no ALL,only the men. The position of women in society is based on what the men build,the education the men have. So if black womens businesses failing doesnt matter,as black women shouldnt even have businesses. If black women are going to college more,but not getting good jobs out of it? Doesnt matter,black women arent supposed to go to college and have jobs. But if they do,it doesnt matter,it only ultimately matters what the men do. As women can not uplift a community. So there is no "we are in this together".


How uplifting the community looks is a different story. If black men dont want to start businesses and dont want to go to college. We dont need to defend that to women. But you should have a plan and be too unmoved to engage in gender wars. Black women are frustrated with the lack of vision overall. And the rest have been genetically modified as weapons against the black man:respect:
 
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You live fantasy world called the amazing white man. That is not the case, what you just stated. A lot of them rubbing 2 nickels together, get help from mom and dad, have a below average woman as a stay at home wife. You clearly only know what you see on movies/tv or something. That shyt you saying is false. I mean completely false.

Also, every racial group has a large percentage of their women working now.
At no point, have I ever stated white men are living perfect lives with beautiful women. I constantly remind brehs on here how they are not living these fantasy lives we see on tv. I was raised in predominantly white environments, and I know firsthand how much they suffer. However, they are much more willing to pay for dates, and be a provider. You don’t see a large portion white blue collar men expecting white women earning 6 figures expecting to date them. And blue collar white men marry more often than black blue collar men, regardless of income. We do not value marriage in the black community, so we don’t have as many two income households, or women who start off working, but stop working after having kids.

The amount of out of wedlock kids isn’t helping the situation either.
 

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The black community has a difficult time with relationships, and trust. It’s very much an “everyone is out to get me” and a constant need to fight, play or get played.
And what do you think the root of this is?

You do know up until the late 60s Black women were the most married. I’ll take it easy with you for now…bit I can go into that details. And you want like that.

"1970 Black Women & Men Debate Their Relationships On TV - Pre Oprah Winfrey"



"CBS Reports: The Vanishing Family - Crisis In Black America (1986)".




"Lesbian mothers helped create a foundation of single parent families which challenged the gendered stereotypes of motherhood and hood. They helped single mothers liberate themselves from the constrictions of the traditional nuclear family with its built-in heteronormativity. […] In Separate Roads to Feminism: Black, Chicana and White Feminist Movements in America’s Second Wave, Benita Roth explains how the history of racism in the U.S. played an important part in creating this divide. Instead of arguing about a woman’s right NOT to bear a child, these minority women focused on how to combine motherhood with feminism and equality. They wanted to change the assumption that single motherhood was a pathology and/or a punishment. Single mothers of all ethnicities could relate to this conversation. […]."
(Elizabeth Ryan, "Transforming Motherhood: Single Parents' Liberation,Transforming Motherhood: Single Parents' Liberation In The 1970s, (2015), Wayne State University Dissertations.1409)
 

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Doesn’t the coli say the same shyt she said in the video?
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I do think it’s a difference between black men speaking amongst themselves telling each other to step up VS a woman going on the biggest black radio show there is and downing black men

So a person shouldn’t be able to take a potential mates career choice into consideration? I mean I’m not trying to get with a low income woman either:yeshrug:

Does she blame white supremacy for it though, or does she blame black men and attribute such things to them being shiftless and lazy?

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I didn't buy it because of marketing

I saw it because I was in the bookstore and it looked like a good afro centric book

and so far it is.. I can vouch for this but my purchase had nothing to do with recent headlines
All of you are right.


This is honestly a case of bad delivery and falling for the okey-doke.



Lemme tell you something—

Porsha Williams would never get caught with a bus driver
Brittany Renner would never get caught with a bus driver
Ashanti would never get caught with a bus driver
Etc

You know what though? Those women have enough common sense to know when someone is putting them in a trickbag and will answer a question in such a way to avoid some shyt like this.

Eboni is a case of book smart, but not street smart.

You have men on The Coli with no where near her profile or net worth who will tell you they wouldn’t be seen with a female bus driver, but I bet you none of y’all are dumb enough to get on tv/online and word it in such an offensive way. Shyt, the men in MY FAMILY would scoff at the idea of dating a female bus driver but no one is going to say that shyt publicly.

I hate to say it, but she lacked feminine grace in the way she answered the question.
Iyanla set her up, and she was too in her ego to see WTF was going on.

The BEST image you can have as a woman is to be beautiful and soft/understanding. It shields you from so much. Her abrasive/brash response to Iyanla is what brought the backlash.

Those high earning men would’ve seen her as a woman who puts character, not finances, first if she had the sense to approach the topic with nuance.

Like I said in the other thread— Angela rubbed ppl the wrong way not to long ago because she was taking like Eboni and turned ppl off! But now her ass is able to redeem herself because Eboni made this gaffe.

This is the actual reason why a lot of Black women lose with men.

Other cultures teach their young women to lie/fake the funk when put on the spot and just go for what they want with their mouths closed.

Again- reason why women like Marjorie Harvey can have no real career to their name but always seen to find a successful man willing to take care of them.

Eboni hasn’t mastered the personality part of the game, which is way more crucial as a woman ages. White and Asian women will lie through their teeth about subjects like this and turn around and marry some old wealthy man in a blink of an eye and say they fell in love with his personality 🤣
 

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The rare triple down:ohhh:

No c00n but I'm kind of hoping she goes mask off, full divestor, and say how pathetic nikkas are. She damn near there. Eboni maybe the first non Rightwing Black woman to crash out on her people.

Go all the way.:lolbron:
She almost there, but she isn’t that dumb.


She just sounded like a fukking idiot. You have regular women getting approached by successful white collar brehs :sas2:, and here her ass is showing the world why such brehs might have an issue with her.
 

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This. She's in her feelings because she took a public L. Then again, this reaction is par for the course for people like her. Instead of keeping it moving or taking the L, she'd rather burn the whole world down. If anything, she's exposing herself as a narcissist and we're witnessing narcissistic rage.

Let's be reality this woman basically shyt on working Black men and is catching heat for it and instead of saying she fukked up she's trying to double down and defend herself.
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I just didn’t think her ass was dumb enough to spew this shyt.

Angela Rye was the one who came off as a bit insufferable, but it’s really Eboni who isn’t down :mjpls:

Chick can’t read the room.
 

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This. She's in her feelings because she took a public L. Then again, this reaction is par for the course for people like her. Instead of keeping it moving or taking the L, she'd rather burn the whole world down. If anything, she's exposing herself as a narcissist and we're witnessing narcissistic rage.
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The hurt in Charlemagne’s voice talking about addressing the system, she straight shut that brotha down lol. I guess we are past addressing the system now. That was ok a couple years ago. This woman just went on there with a bullhorn just going off. What’s gotten into her? I mean this is giving pound cake speech vibes.
 

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You live fantasy world called the amazing white man. That is not the case, what you just stated. A lot of them rubbing 2 nickels together, get help from mom and dad, have a below average woman as a stay at home wife. You clearly only know what you see on movies/tv or something. That shyt you saying is false. I mean completely false.

Also, every racial group has a large percentage of their women working now.
Yeah, this person (probably female) is just saying stuff.
 
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