I accept this challenge
Handsome gang can definitely pull off being or looking broke I was getting baddies in a car where the other door didn't open and a half a grille
Earning less than 30k is a deal breaker for a 3rd of Daters
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Handsome gang can definitely pull off being or looking broke I was getting baddies in a car where the other door didn't open and a half a grille
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Screwed up... till tha casket drops!!
talk about burying the lede, this seems insane to me
Yes but that’s if she wasn’t trying do better. I’d date her if she was in school or wanted to advance her career. We can come up together baby
Right. this seems like such a silly thing to be black and white on. I just broke up with a fantastic lady who was going to school to get into med school but had no fam here so yeah she wasn't banking but she was feminine, cute, and just a solid chick. It only didnt' work out because she definitely wants kids and I told nah I'm not the one. But she gon make some nikka very happy regardless if she make 30k or 100k and I'm sure its the same for a lot of solid brehs out there.
Right. You don’t want kids at all?
I’m getting older but I still don’t think I want kids. I like the idea of kids but I can’t imagine it unless I have a nanny
Right. You don’t want kids at all?
I’m getting older but I still don’t think I want kids. I like the idea of kids but I can’t imagine it unless I have a nanny
its complicated. I wouldn't want to have kids until I've done basically everything I ever wanted without them because I refuse to bring my seeds into a situation that ain perfect for them. As that is an almost impossible situation I can't see it happening any time soon so I just let chicks no its not for me. Plus I'm terrified of me saying some inane thing in passing and it giving my kid a complex for their life because I've experienced and seen it happen
Me too. I guess I’ll wait till 40its complicated. I wouldn't want to have kids until I've done basically everything I ever wanted without them because I refuse to bring my seeds into a situation that ain perfect for them. As that is an almost impossible situation I can't see it happening any time soon so I just let chicks no its not for me. Plus I'm terrified of me saying some inane thing in passing and it giving my kid a complex for their life because I've experienced and seen it happen
Me too. I guess I’ll wait till 40
It can get annoying some times. I detest white women and most black ladies are bible thumpers and also want kids before they should be having them. Not too many fellow heathens out here
It's a deal breaker for me. I don't expect someone to make 6 figures, but I do believe that someone who has enough work experience and some base level credentials can make at least 50K.
Anything floating around the poverty level is a no go for me!
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*shrugs*
Anything floating around the poverty level is a no go for me!
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*shrugs*
Concerned Citizen
HxH, LoSH 5YG, WW, DS9, IYKYK
I mean 30k is low wage af but if both parties are making that then it’s 60k which is a lot better
This is 2023. It is not the time to have a grown person living with you that isn't bringing in any income and helping with the bills.Under 75k for me
I don’t need a chicks money. But I’m not trying have a woman fully dependent on me, that can’t also pay shyt here and there.
Plus if she’s making at 75k she probably has a salaried job with benefits like healthcare, maternal leave, and matching retirement contribution.
Everything being solely on me is just too much at my age, for where I live.
your lifestyle should not be dependent on another person.