Dump a nikka for being broke not realizing he's actually rich Brehettes

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

No she wasn't. She was trying to keep him on the roster as a just in case negro. "You're cool to chill with but I don't want to be official and I'm keeping my options open for other dudes" type of deal.

So you don't think if he was like I"'m sorry baby come back" she wouldn't have went

 

[Scientific Playa]

And you're the father of a rotten fetus. get of my nuts bytch.

that chit was funny

 

[Rockstar Mom]

With his own whip and his own house? You know how many nikkas live with their moms? She sounded like she fell to the peer pressure and nothing more. If you read the OP she talks more about what "She needs" or "her age" or "her friends" than she does about HIM. This was a selfish move that backfired. Nothing more .

Its not peer pressure tho, its society. Hell, on here ya'll act like a woman over 21 is grandma status.

She's 26. Thats the normal age to start seriously thinking about family, house, kids, and stable careers. Why ya'll acting like those aren't legitimate concerns at that age.

 

[kevm3]

You pushing it. You're ok with not doing anything? Having no type of fun in a relationship? The shyt sounded boring. No matter how frugal u are, u need some type of fun and excitement in a relationship. So stop acting like u wouldn't get tired of her after a while.........

if he was such this boring, unfun bum, why does she want to go back? Why wasn't that part of her initial reason for wanting to leave, as opposed to her saying, "Personalitywise, we didn't click. He was so boring!"

If I couldn't stand this girl and I thought her cooking sucked, she was lazy, she watched tv all day, she was so boring, I wouldn't be trying to get back with her, even after finding out she had money. If the basic idea of this guy is so repulsive, why was she trying to keep tabs on him and why does she want to continue the relationship.

It was her perception that 'making websites' is a low paid job. Web developers can make into the six figures. I don't know how much he personally was making off of it, but web development is far from some bum job. I personally see her assessing the 'bum status' from him pushing an old whip and untrendy clothes and his generally frugal lifestyle.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

To you...some woman out there just won't mind, and may even like that Will is like that.
I'm just saying, you and I don't want a partner like Will necessarily...but that doesn't mean that Will ain't got no soulmate out there. It's just wrong that finding out he had money upset the author, when Will owes her nothing. That's the side of the story.

I agree that she shouldn't go back to him tho. No point, cuz he's still going to stay the same.

 

[MikelArteta]

The words of a single mom Thot.

Are you off welfare yet thottie?

Still leaving you'd seed with your new boyfriend harlot?

All of that rah rah on my own ish when you sucked up government benefits for ya b*stard

Eff outta here.

Atleast my child wasn't flushed down the toilet.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Yeah @No_bammer_weed not going with all the namecalling and typical back and forth bullshyt, but I don't think he was dishonest with her due to him essentially being the same person at the end of the relationship that she chose at the beginning of the relationship. As many others have said, if she communicated on a thorough level with him regarding what issues manifested internally with her and he lied regarding his financial health then I'd understand where you are coming from. Maybe you're perspective of relationship is to essentially disclose things about yourself voluntarily, which is your right but most people feel as though certain things about themselves requires trust and that's something hard to come by these days.

When you enter into a relationship with someone the expectation is that you are honest and forthright with that person. This guy could have simply told her that while he does possess financial means, he eschews material and prefers a simple life. If that didnt appeal to her, then she would have been free to move on with all the facts available to her.

If he felt like he couldnt "trust" her with that kind of information, then he had no business getting into a relationship with her and wasting her time. Hes the one who doesnt value real "trust" and honesty, and I guarantee that his bullsht will come back around to him. Life always has a way of evening itself out.

 

[onelastdeath]

Its not peer pressure tho, its society. Hell, on here ya'll act like a woman over 21 is grandma status.

She's 26. Thats the normal age to start seriously thinking about family, house, kids, and stable careers. Why ya'll acting like those aren't legitimate concerns at that age.

And now she can do that

She's on the internet complaining. There's NO WIN for her in this situation. Some of y'all are really trying to squeeze the tiniest W out of this story for her

. But this is one of the few, where its just not happening

Instead of talking about to him about family, house, kids, and stable careers, and her worrying about his perceived "brokeness" she decided to break up with him, and then found out he was rich

 

[Joe Budden]

@Louisiana Fisher a challenger appears :wutdawg:

 

[kevm3]

So you don't think if he was like I"'m sorry baby come back" she wouldn't have went

before she learned he had money? Most likely not. probably would have slept with him a couple more times before throwing him into the void of past relationships before moving on to the next guy... which is the same thing she did with her previous exes.

 

[The Mad Titan]

This chick played herself. She wanted what everyone else seem to have and ended a relationship with someone because she thought she would be living the lifestyle she had currently forever.

Its nothing wrong to want someone with ambitions but you better be the same way.

Its clear to me this dude was just a option, a placeholder. She liked him enough, but not enough to live a simple lifestyle.

Dude did the right thing, if she knew he had cash you can bet she would have been ride or die and that sinple lifestyle would have been fine all of a sudden.

Money makes people go way extra.

She should feel played, but i dont think neither did anything wrong.

She was the one that lost out trying to upgrade. She rolled the dice and got snake eyes.

 

[onelastdeath]

This whole thing reminds me of this scene from Head Of State. She broke up with him because he was BROKE, nikka started running for President and she started popping up everywhere

SECURITY!!!!

 

[MikelArteta]

Coffee dates walks and hikes and going to bars or relaxing is boring?


I mean your excitement couldn't keep your baby dad around :sad1:

You pushing it. You're ok with not doing anything? Having no type of fun in a relationship? The shyt sounded boring. No matter how frugal u are, u need some type of fun and excitement in a relationship. So stop acting like u wouldn't get tired of her after a while.........

 

[Rockstar Mom]

The words of a single mom Thot.

Are you off welfare yet thottie?

Still leaving you'd seed with your new boyfriend harlot?

All of that rah rah on my own ish when you sucked up government benefits for ya b*stard

Eff outta here.

The words of the father of a decaying fetus. bytch tossed your kid in the bushes with no fukks givenbytch saw that positive pregnancy test and said "oh hell no". bytch was probably talking to her belly the night b4 like "Nah son, I'm saving u from a lifetime of having a bitter, vagina hating, bytch for a father".

Be bitter brehs.

Watch your kids swirl around a toilet bowl brehs.

 

[HiphopRelated]

What can a career orientated woman offer me ?

I don't need a woman's money or status. I've already dated doctors and lawyers in my psst so its not unachievable to me

My life is about travelling and mog spending my money on materialistic deprecriating items

OK breh, but if she's not career oriented, what exactly are you building towards? Do you plan on her living off of you?

My girl makes more than me. She wants to go to the Spa , do her hair . Never seen a bill. But what she does know is that she doesn't have to support me or vice versa, but in a pinch we can assist each other.

I'm not about to pick up some brawd who I have to now upgrade, which is why I said the female Will would never get my interest in the 1st place, and even if she was rich, it still wouldn't because I have no interest in that lifestyle.

We all have requirements breh, and if I'm attending certain functions, it's implicit that my lady will be of a certain standard, so her turning up next to me with a potato soup stained dress ain't even in the discussion so that "plain jane" shyt isn't everybody's cup of tea. And I know the flip side is true for her. Some shyt doesn't even require wealth, just class.

The girl in this story wasn't even thinking on that level, she was on some simple ass life is passing me by shyt while the dude I'm with is still 16 in a garage band. The FB dreams was marriage, kids and a house, not weekend shopping sprees in Beverly Hills

What works for you, doesn't work for everybody