and then they try to shame you for thinking this is wrong. A REAL man would take care of his woman.
But you start growing up, you pay bills when you're old enough or you get out.
You get your own place, you pay bills.
You get a room mate, they pay on bills
You have kids, you expect them to get jobs and pay bills when they're old enough or you kick them out
You get married... you don't expect to pay bills!?