Y'all hyper focused on BBLS, but ignore the other 3-5 things he named that we as men promote
If the white beauty standards had black women trying to be skinny, straightening their hair, going blond and trying to downplay their black features, then the celebration of those black features and black beauty standards they copy now ain't much different. They stopped worrying about white standards and looked for ours.. And in the MEDIUMS (like he said) that they would see from us are all thick, big butt, big titty, IG hoe looks
We can't deny that. Who's fault? The women for following or the men for promoting.. Who gives a fukk.. WE brought this upon ourselves.
At what point do we start allowing adults to be adults and own it when they make adult decisions?
Why do we keep taking this “it takes a village” ass approach when it comes to grown folks?
There’s a thread on here about a breh who had leg lengthening surgery because he was insecure about his height and wanted to be six feet tall.
Let’s be real, in comparison to other groups of women black women put way more significance on height when looking for a mate.
I don’t remember seeing anyone in that thread blaming black women or the black community as a whole for a grown ass man choosing to undergo a life changing procedure.
If a dumb ass adult wants to make dumb ass decisions for vanity’s sake, that’s on them.
It’s not my place or my responsibility as an adult to try and dictate what other adults do with their bodies, so as long as it doesn’t affect me.
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