Dr c00nmar says black men are to blame for the BBL epidemic.

[The Devil's Advocate]

All the rappers rap about wanting thick women with fat asses. I’m sure that has influenced some women to want to get BBLs.

Influenced young males to act like lil wayne and chief keef but we can't imagine women following the same shyt

 

[Schadenfreude]

Where the fukk is the school at breh? Until that shyt opens he needs to shut the fukk up

 

[HARLEM AL]

Who's to blame for why black men like big booty and big breasted women? Is it that we gotta like small booties and small tiddies to make women feel for more appreciative for what they have? So essentially black men are responsible for black women self-esteem? Does this work the other way around and if so, what are women doing to help?

You might be on to something….

 

[Womb Raider]

BBLs? I'm not sure what that is.....maybe someone could illustrate what that is

 

[HiphopRelated]

No one should be that impressionable. Especially so called adults.

then the whole advertisement industry is a hoax

 

[RealCrownHeights]

I know black women that agree and believe it's black men' fault. It's not just him saying it. Accountability is their weakness once again.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

nikka wtf that gotta do with a BBL? Honestly. What ur talking about is a whole different argument. Not to mention. Now that more women are in the game and taking over. The ratchetness went up x a trillion. bytches is twerking at the Grammys. Talking about WAP is empowerment. I guess that's our fault too huh?

In the clip he says BBL, then goes into numerous other beauty standards that are put out by the media, that lead to women thinking "this is what men want."

Yes.. Women say it's not for us. And we say going to the gym and making bank and getting fly cars ain't for women.. And we both lying. Cause when man/woman wants to court the opposite sex, we know what to use to get them, because we tend to see what they like through forms of media. What do the men who are popular with women tend to have in common? Tell me that a regular man isn't trying to obtain all those things. Is it FOR women? No.. But we damn sure know it'll help being fit, smelling good, having some balls, certain hair style, certain fashion, etc etc

Again, this all STILL boils down to individual choices and a sense of discernment.

I am not responsible for what rappers and entertainers promote through their music and the media.

If black women actually paid attention to men who don’t fit that mold, they’d realize that the average black man does not find that look to be attractive at all.

But because they’re judging black male masculinity through the eyes of sambo ass entertainers, this is what we get.

Ain’t no “we” or “us” in this my guy.

I never said it was on black men either breh. Even in the clip, he says he can't even put it all on men or black men totally. But we got a click bait society now so it's "BBLs." Forget BBLs and think about the long eyelashes, the nails, the weave, less clothing everyone is wearing, the pics they posting, the other surgery's they getting like lip fillers.. Just a little botox.. All that shyt he was talking about

It ain't a bunch of women following these hoes on IG. It ain't a bunch of women following the top porn stars and keeping it a billion dollar industry. Women ain't putting 100k a month in some hoe's only fans.. It ain't a bunch of women at the strip club keeping them open. If you go see some beautiful wholesome woman with a degree on IG with 100k followers and 100 pretty exotical bytches with nothing going on but a fat ass, but they got 1.5 million and making 100k a month on only fans.... Which one would you think men want? When you see it DAILY. fukk, hourly.

Again.. That didn't materialize out of thin air. But if you had to take a wild guess at which group PROMOTED that image to the masses... Which group would you say that was?

 

[The Burger King]

In the clip he says BBL, then goes into numerous other beauty standards that are put out by the media, that lead to women thinking "this is what men want."

Yes.. Women say it's not for us. And we say going to the gym and making bank and getting fly cars ain't for women.. And we both lying. Cause when man/woman wants to court the opposite sex, we know what to use to get them, because we tend to see what they like through forms of media. What do the men who are popular with women tend to have in common? Tell me that a regular man isn't trying to obtain all those things. Is it FOR women? No.. But we damn sure know it'll help being fit, smelling good, having some balls, certain hair style, certain fashion, etc etc


I never said it was on black men either breh. Even in the clip, he says he can't even put it all on men or black men totally. But we got a click bait society now so it's "BBLs." Forget BBLs and think about the long eyelashes, the nails, the weave, less clothing everyone is wearing, the pics they posting, the other surgery's they getting like lip fillers.. Just a little botox.. All that shyt he was talking about

It ain't a bunch of women following these hoes on IG. It ain't a bunch of women following the top porn stars and keeping it a billion dollar industry. Women ain't putting 100k a month in some hoe's only fans.. It ain't a bunch of women at the strip club keeping them open. If you go see some beautiful wholesome woman with a degree on IG with 100k followers and 100 pretty exotical bytches with nothing going on but a fat ass, but they got 1.5 million and making 100k a month on only fans.... Which one would you think men want? When you see it DAILY. fukk, hourly.

Again.. That didn't materialize out of thin air. But if you had to take a wild guess at which group PROMOTED that image to the masses... Which group would you say that was?

Well, I don’t know a single man that lies and says that women aren’t a motivator for us to be successful. Not to the extent that women do.

Most dudes I know are honest and have no issue admitting that women are a motivator for why we pursue certain things, but that’s neither here nor there.

Black men have been saying for the LONGEST that we don’t like the weaves, long fingernails, exaggerated lashes, etc.

And black women would respond by saying one of two things (or both):

1. “You ain’t my Daddy. I’m a grown woman, don’t worry about what I choose to do!”

2. “You must be gay, always up in a woman’s business. I don’t know a straight man that’s always worried about what women got going on!”

If women actually listened to men, they would understand that what we find to be fukkable and what we find to be wifeable are often two very different things.

And most men WILL prioritize a woman with wifely qualities over a woman who would be good for a quick nut.

I would MAYBE understand what you’re saying if you were saying that women without all of the extra cosmetics were struggling to find mates, but a lot of what you’re saying boils down to women wanting attention.

And what women need to understand is that not everything is for everybody. Men have to come to that conclusion very early in life.

Short men have to come to terms with the fact that, unless they can compensate for their height in other areas, they will not receive the same amount of attention from women that taller men will.

You won’t see me making excuses for men who get leg lengthening surgery because it’s dumb and dangerous.

And in response to the bolded, it was “influencers” and celebrities like the Kardashians, Paris Hilton, Nicki Minaj, etc. who popularized this plastic surgery/BBL culture we’re living in right now.

I remember when I was in high school (I graduated in 2015) plastic surgery and cosmetic procedures were considered “white people shyt”.

It wasn’t until the aforementioned women I just mentioned made it a “status symbol” to have these procedures done that women started getting them en masse.

Like others have stated, a lot of women do things to keep up with the trends and to compete with other women. Not to appeal to men.

 

[pete clemenza]

That wasn't black men, that was social media that made the BBL and theses other current beauty standards hot.

 

[Rekkapryde]

But if you ask women why they alter themselves they swear it's not for men.

and if you believe that shyt duke, you mind playing tricks on you too

 

[RickyDiBiase]

and if you believe that shyt duke, you mind playing tricks on you too

Its a bytch by bytch basis

 

[Rekkapryde]

That wasn't black men, that was social media that made the BBL and theses other current beauty standards hot.

It was both, but it's a lot of monkey see monkey do with people on social media. Add in a lot of women insecurity and there you have it.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

There's a reason every other group of women tries to be thin as possible.

BM have never had the power to dictate beauty standards to BW. If we did, then there would be no smelly weaves and relaxers in the community.

we only like these cartoon proportion big buts because they said they could loose weight and be fit like other women.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Its a bytch by bytch basis

this whole GMO Butt shyt is beyond corny.

all these low self esteem broads who stay on Social Media go with the same goofy IG Thot BBL look:

dumbass eyelashes
lace fronts
tats
BBL
Pounds of Makeup
Lips

Blame Kim K

 

[pete clemenza]

Technically Latinas are getting them way more than black women