DOUBLE FAULT: Naomi Osaka is now officially a single baby mama.

Germms

All Star
Joined
Dec 11, 2015
Messages
2,354
Reputation
702
Daps
9,918
Reppin
∞ 216 ∞
Bruh, the original post you were like I think it's more important to be in a stable relationship than be married

If you compare the amount of people that are in stable relationships that are married, versus the people in stable relationships that are not, married people are going to win out

Coparenting sounds nice and shytz but most people have babies just because and are not planning shyt out
Slow down. In my original post I said they should focus on their relationship and pregnancy instead of worrying and rushing into marriage because the general public wants that. I want them to get married too but on their time. We don’t know them and what they discussed. What if she just wanted a baby? What if she doesn’t want to get married? We don’t know much about the relationship at all so idk. But I’m not anti marriage. Again, I AM MARRIED MYSELF. Y’all coming at me like I said fukk marriage or something.
 
Last edited:

Germms

All Star
Joined
Dec 11, 2015
Messages
2,354
Reputation
702
Daps
9,918
Reppin
∞ 216 ∞
The point is to have enough control and foresight to NOT get pregnant before marriage. It’s in the best interest of the woman AND child.

He can go marry some younger chick a few years down the line when he’s “ready” to commit while she’ll have a baby on her hip hoping another man will still want her. The shyt is ass backwards.
How do you know they didn’t get pregnant by accident? How do you know any of this shyt was even planned. It could’ve been a complete accident of a pregnancy and she didn’t want to abort it. Marriage or not. I don’t even know if they broke up. Nobody still verified this shyt to me.
 

Gloxina

Veteran
Joined
Mar 11, 2022
Messages
18,927
Reputation
6,415
Daps
68,370
:russ: Because birth control is too easy to use and neither of them are idiots.
YO!
You see this?! Lmao

It’s the dudes who think like this who knock these chicks up! Then 5 years later “You know, I want to do things the right way” and they go marry some younger woman whose parents told her to stay away from guys who were the younger version of him. And the first girl is left a “bitter baby momma” because she got pregnant “accidentally” and now she’s left holding the bag.


THIIIIIIIIIIIS IS WHY THE COMMUNITY IS THE WAY IT IS!

Got pregnant by accident. Gtfoh

OK, COLI: This is why I’m so passionate about these discussions. THIS IS THE SHYT knuckleheads are saying to your 23 YO daughters while “Chad” is telling “Amy” to get that abortion so neither of their lives are fukked up down the line.


Young black girls get sold dreams and when it’s time to wake up our girls are left holding the bag while the other girls are literally acting like wh0res in HS and undergrad but look like they have a clean slate because they don’t have kids out of wedlock.


GAME GOOFY
 

Germms

All Star
Joined
Dec 11, 2015
Messages
2,354
Reputation
702
Daps
9,918
Reppin
∞ 216 ∞
I think you nikkas are dramatic.

Not once did I say:
fukk marriage
Have kids out of wedlock

Dramatic with terrible reading comprehension. Overreacting to a post and delete tweet. This is why celebs don’t talk about they relationships and shouldn’t cus yall think pieces are absolutely terrible.
 

Art Barr

INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
64,852
Reputation
12,715
Daps
90,898
Reppin
CHICAGO
They're rich. it's hardly the same.


No matter how much money you have.

Factually if you have a child out of wedlock.
you are factually a poverty maker.

I am a poverty maker and until I get married.

After having a child out of wedlock.

I am factually poor. Regardless of how much liquid or assets I have.



Art Barr

You can not dispute a fact.

Having children out of wedlock. Factually means you are in poverty.

You have a child out of wedlock like me.

You are a poor.

Like I am a poor.
 

Gloxina

Veteran
Joined
Mar 11, 2022
Messages
18,927
Reputation
6,415
Daps
68,370
No matter how much money you have.

Factually if you have a child out of wedlock.
you are factually a poverty maker.

I am a poverty maker and until I get married.

After having a child out of wedlock.

I am factually poor. Regardless of how much liquid or assets I have.



Art Barr

You can not dispute a fact.

Having children out of wedlock. Factually means you are in poverty.

You have a child out of wedlock like me.

You are a poor.

Like I am a poor.
Yep. This is largely a class issue. Men just dropping their seed wherever they feel and women popping out kids OOW…you aren’t uniting families, establishing a real, solid bond recognized in society. Dedicating yourself to the creation and upward mobility of a family unit.
 

yung Herbie Hancock

Funkadelic Parliament
Bushed
Joined
Dec 27, 2014
Messages
7,168
Reputation
-2,451
Daps
21,579
Reppin
California
YO!
You see this?! Lmao

It’s the dudes who think like this who knock these chicks up! Then 5 years later “You know, I want to do things the right way” and they go marry some younger woman whose parents told her to stay away from guys who were the younger version of him. And the first girl is left a “bitter baby momma” because she got pregnant “accidentally” and now she’s left holding the bag.


THIIIIIIIIIIIS IS WHY THE COMMUNITY IS THE WAY IT IS!

Got pregnant by accident. Gtfoh

OK, COLI: This is why I’m so passionate about these discussions. THIS IS THE SHYT knuckleheads are saying to your 23 YO daughters while “Chad” is telling “Amy” to get that abortion so neither of their lives are fukked up down the line.


Young black girls get sold dreams and when it’s time to wake up our girls are left holding the bag while the other girls are literally acting like wh0res in HS and undergrad but look like they have a clean slate because they don’t have kids out of wedlock.


GAME GOOFY
Like I said before, you a lowkey divestor. Go back to lipstick alley please. The comunity is the way it is because black women intentionally raise their black boys to be a certain way and the black men who dont stick around almost always come from those single mom households. It's a cycle. Black men tried to break the cycle by building black boys only schools but black women SUED those schools twice. Kimberly Crenshaw is currently trying to scap my brothers keeper. Stop acting like yall care about the community lol. Here's what black women doing in real life:

edit: keep in mind that there are MULTIPLE programs for black girls only that no one complains about like black girls code.

Just last week black women protested a school being built for black boys in order to give them something to do instead of gang banging:

Bush tried to set up a school for all black boys to bascailly rehabilitate the hood. Black women sued and the program got scraped:

Obama set up my brothers keeper, black women been trying to get rid of it and many of the proigrams got scraped. Here's kimberly crenshaw just a few months ago:
 

Gloxina

Veteran
Joined
Mar 11, 2022
Messages
18,927
Reputation
6,415
Daps
68,370
Like I said before, you a lowkey divestor. Go back to lipstick alley please. The comunity is the way it is because black women intentionally raise their black boys to be a certain way and the black men who dont stick around almost always come from those single mom households. It's a cycle. Black men tried to break the cycle by building black boys only schools but black women SUED those schools twice. Kimberly Crenshaw is currently trying to scap my brothers keeper. Stop acting like yall care about the community lol. Here's what black women doing in real life:

edit: keep in mind that there are MULTIPLE programs for black girls only that no one complains about like black girls code.

Just last week black women protested a school being built for black boys in order to give them something to do instead of gang banging:

Bush tried to set up a school for all black boys to bascailly rehabilitate the hood. Black women sued and the program got scraped:

Obama set up my brothers keeper, black women been trying to get rid of it and many of the proigrams got scraped. Here's kimberly crenshaw just a few months ago:
And I’m not a black woman who says that we don’t need a school for black boys. Black men (and women) need to go at those broads directly.

I attended private schools and am an advocate for private and single sex education.


And I’ve spoken VERY HIGHLY of all the black men in my life and circle. Divestor where?


My POINT was and always will be that we need a cultural shift for BOTH SEXES.

Everything isn’t “all these black girls are hos just having sex” OR “all these black men are shiftless dropping their seed wherever they turn”. It’s a little from column A and a little from column B creating a huge mess.


The same way we have a number of young women who don’t value themselves and share their bodies because they aren’t raised in homes/neighborhoods where they are taught the proper order, we have a number of young men who think it’s cool to have fun a little too long or aren’t on the road to being somewhat established by 30.


You got brehs on here who have said how many positions are open in the trades, etc and they can’t find enough young brehs who are willing to step into those jobs. And yea, of course everyone in the hood ain’t bad or destitute, but if we had more young women and men who valued themselves we wouldn’t be on here talking about the state of our neighborhoods.

Ask these college aged Black girls what’s going on on campus. How many young black men are on campus compared to the women? And I know there are more women than men in college in all racial groups, but we’re talking about US. Go to these HBCUs and the young men will tell you how many girls there are per 1 guy.

YES YES YES- We need more young women who value themselves and more young men who are ready to lead households by 30.

Our ppl have been through hell in this country, but we are the only ones who are going to turn it around.


And I still say hiphop culture was one the worst thing to happen to us because it really influenced and F’d up the last couple generations. Black youth culture is centered around hiphop and it doesn’t lead to progression.
We are too entertainment driven.

The previous generations had The Cosby Show, Different World, Fresh Prince, all those Black family sitcoms and more balance in hiphop. We don’t have any of those external influences that obviously did a lot for us.

We don’t have anything to counterbalance the stripclub/hiphop influence that is everywhere.

I mean, 2 young mainstream black stars are knocked up out of wedlock by rappers. Not even an athlete or actor or son of someone famous or something. Lol Everything is centered around “hiphop culture” and it’s a terrible influence on the young.
 

4-Rin

Superstar
Joined
Nov 19, 2016
Messages
5,685
Reputation
1,831
Daps
22,284
How do you know they didn’t get pregnant by accident? How do you know any of this shyt was even planned. It could’ve been a complete accident of a pregnancy and she didn’t want to abort it. Marriage or not. I don’t even know if they broke up. Nobody still verified this shyt to me.

It's 2023. There's no excuse to get pregnant by "accident"
 

Bolzmark

Superstar
Joined
May 23, 2012
Messages
8,094
Reputation
1,144
Daps
26,143
Reppin
ATL
I can understand older women who decide to be baby mommas. The drive to be a mother is very strong with most women, and when they get to their mid/late 30's and don't have any marriage prospects, is it right for us to say well you should just give up the idea of being a Mom? And I mean older women who are financially secure.

But in the cases of Hallie Bailey and Naomi Osaka, what the fukk are they doing?? Osaka is only 26 and Bailey was just at her high school prom 6 years ago (23). You have time. Yet the both of them decide to get knocked up by knucklehead rappers? WTF man :snoop:
 
Top