IMO it's ultimately up to the older men to teach the younger men and older women to teach the younger women the perils of having a child with someone you're not truly committed to. Otherwise it turns into gender blaming. To be fair, older black men in my experience have warned myself and other young black dudes about baby mama drama and child support. I think more women need to stress to younger women truly how hard it is to raise children alone, even without the financial difficulties. Too many people today seem to think it's cool as long as there's financial stability, ignoring the emotional benefits of having two actively involved parents.
DOUBLE FAULT: Naomi Osaka is now officially a single baby mama.
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Yeah even educators who work in poor areas have said students from two-parent households usually perform better.
With all the forms of BC, it's hard to view a lot of these pregnancies as accidents. But to be fair, BC could negatively impact how she performs on the tennis court.
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
It's facts
I'm illegitimate born but I didn't really think about it till I started hanging out at my childhood homie's house and saw that he had both of his parents. So at 11 years old I promised myself I wouldn't be a dead beat or father b*stard kids.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
We talembout poverty.
What the fukk.
a discussion on poverty is long.
Ain't no character tweet level limit interaction going to solve anything.
Tha fukk.
You no reading idiots.
You gon get yo issue.
Art Barr
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JasoRockStar
Superstar
Salute to you brother and I hope you find a queen soon. It takes a lot of discipline to look at where your parents went wrong and take a different route.
Well said
Tbh though it doesn’t matter
Many Women too selfish to care about the child and if they want one they will have one my any means - even if they got to go the sperm donor route
JasoRockStar
Superstar
Yeah, but we gotta start EARLY. Far too often we‘re trying to have these conversations when these young folks are in their late teens, early 20s, etc. It’s too late at that point.
Yall take one point I make and exhaust it. All I was trying to do was we don’t know how the baby came about. So it’s it’s not safe to just assume anything at the moment.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
@GloxinaFTB; the ppl in charge of these programs need to put her in her place!
I ain’t focus on her because I don’t know any groups of blank women purposely trying to block black boys from getting ahead
Stop putting commercial pop prison industrial based rap on to hiphop.
This is a hiphop culture pillar based board. So know the facts about hiphop culture. Plus how it is completely juxtaposed from the prison industrial economy.
Hiphop in the new achool way of thought is.
Anti violent
Anti gang
Anti androgynous pagan
All the shyt people have wrongly let the prison industrial econ9my graft onto the rap business. Is completely against every more and norm in hiphop.
So please stop blaming hiphop for the prison industrial economy system. b*stardizing and making a mockery of the business of rap. Derived from the pillars of hiphop in emcee'n, and dj'n.
Hiphop has four pillars and a rich history. With mores and norms to be prescient.
against all the bullshyt from the prison industrial economy.
Grafted wrongly on to the industry of the rap business. The most profitable business model in music history.
Art Barr
@Gloxina
I know you skim.
After you skimmed my prolific posting.
based on oprah, terri mcmillan and Stella got her groove back slash passport bros reply the other day. Which was bogus. You cone across as educated. Yet you looked funny in the light.
after you did that yesterday tho.
You can not pick and choose facts.
Facts can not be disputed.
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Facts and the convos don't even have to be that serious. Parents have tons of day-to-day news and social media debates to pull from and give advice. Shaderoom post or radio talk about Future having baby mama #10, viral debates about man buying his son McDonald's and whether he should've bought some for his babymama's other kids. Men and women have so much material today to use and explain why to avoid bringing children into the world under non-ideal circumstances.
A huge problem in our community is pride, most older people don't want to admit how they messed up when they were young even if it means helping the youth avoid the same life-altering mistakes.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
Back in the day before Crack.
After children were given rights.
Then more rights.
children would be disciplined by their village.
The streets were Strict.
So if you did some shyt outside.
To not be slick enough to not get caught.
Another adult could beat your ass and give you a spanking. Then take you to your parents. Where you would have gotten spanked too.
The more they set in the prison industrial econ9my and the udc ruining scholastic. It created the very declining whirlpool effect. That brings us all down in the undertow.
Which we have not escaped from.
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Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
Well the idea of the trick baby or mother mademoiselle matriarch.
In Chicago is now actually reaching.
making economic duality equality and sense.
So at least law wise in Chicago.
The idea of preying on a man as a father is now criminal. So hopefully that can change thing.
where I am from in the long process.
need to establish this level and type of needed change.
Art Barr
