DOUBLE FAULT: Naomi Osaka is now officially a single baby mama.

[Formerly Black Trash]

So all people in stable commited relationships married? No.

Are more ppl who married in stable relationships than ppl who just have kids out of wedlock?

Yes

 

[Gloxina]

Wish folks took pride in marriage then a baby

But we’ll see how long this last….

He seems like a good dude

Put a ring on it and it’s a win. Until then , baby mama situations aint cute.

Lol mfers can’t even set aside corny jokes even as a black child comes into this world



A baby is a bigger accomplishment/asset than a marriage ever will be.

I think it’s more important to have a stable and committed relationship when having a child instead of forcing marriage. Idk y’all got it though. They’ll be rocking for a minute. Congrats to both parents I wish them the best.

This mentality is why children being born OOW will continue.

I wish the best for them but I expected better from her. She seems to have a good head on her shoulders but this ain’t it.

I’d be disappointed if my daughter became a baby mother, especially to a rapper. I still can’t fathom how people still think it’s better to have a baby before getting married.

“I’m not sure if this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. But I’ll happily be connected to them for life through our child!”

Spoken like a product of a single parent home. And y’all wonder why black folks still progressing like the Titanic…

Having a child with someone is irreversible and tethers you to that person for life. That’s a way bigger commitment than marriage.

Explain the logic behind that because at least you can divorce and start fresh. You’re not afforded that same luxury when you bring life into this world.

You probably lying and was likely an unwanted orphan. If you did have 2Ps, that couple failed like a mf. How are you going to just advocate for unwed folks to have b*stards first before committing to make a long term relationship work? These two could easily separate in a year (which is likely since celebrity marriage only works rarely) and what are you left with….another split household.

Stable and committed relationship is usually marriage . Do yall think before you post

Lies. People in this thread stated that having a child OOW would bring them together.

Another statistic. Should be married with a baby, but now a baby mama. Companies can't use her the same now.

And this was the point of the other thread about Osaka and the thread about Hallie Bailey.

These attitudes are why babymommas persist in our community.

People keep blaming women when BOTH SEXES are to blame.



Got men in here saying having kids out of wedlock is ok, and now this chick is a SINGLE BABYMOMMA 3 months after birth.

This is a COMMUNITY PROBLEM.
This is EXAAAAACTLY what I was talking about.

@ThrobbingHood, @RennisDeynolds, @Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr @Chrishaune @King Poetic @At30wecashout Thanks for calling out the BS months ago!

 

[ThrobbingHood]

@ThrobbingHood, @RennisDeynolds, @Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr @Chrishaune @King Poetic @At30wecashout Thanks for calling out the BS months ago!

I may be a tough pill to swallow but you can never say that I’m not consistent.

 

[Gloxina]

N

I may be a tough pill to swallow but you can never say that I’m not consistent.

Naw, thank you!

I just want ppl to keep it real.

Everyone keeps blaming young Black girls alone for why babymommas exist but Black men are in here openly advocating for this foolishness! This is an issue with both sexes. Dudes think that because he’s a rapper with a little money that that was a sign that this would potentially last.

 

[JLova]

And this was the point of the other thread about Osaka and the thread about Hallie Bailey.

These attitudes are why babymommas persist in our community.

People keep blaming women when BOTH SEXES are to blame.



Got men in here saying having kids out of wedlock is ok, and now this chick is a SINGLE BABYMOMMA 3 months after birth.

This is a COMMUNITY PROBLEM.
This is EXAAAAACTLY what I was talking about.

@ThrobbingHood, @RennisDeynolds, @Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr @Chrishaune @King Poetic @At30wecashout Thanks for calling out the BS months ago!

It’s pretty sad. I always took that shyt seriously. Told my wife (girlfriend at the time) I’m not having any babies outside of marriage. It’s important to raise a child in a stable household. He’s 4 now and sees positive images of black relationships every damn day.

I understand shyt happens but I feel folk don’t even think..they don’t try…they don’t care. Hate how baby mama has become a black term.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Wish folks took pride in marriage then a baby

But we’ll see how long this last….

He seems like a good dude

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Another statistic. Should be married with a baby, but now a baby mama. Companies can't use her the same now.

Ok bro

 

[Germms]

Are more ppl who married in stable relationships than ppl who just have kids out of wedlock?

Yes

Did I say they weren’t or something?

 

[Germms]

How do yall even know they broke up? I haven’t even seen anything verifying that.

 

[Gloxina]

Hate to say it but a white women of similar levels to Osaka and that other chick wouldn't find herself in such a situation

No- take it ALL THE WAY THERE.


White women AND White men.


See the Britney Spears abortion thread someone posted yesterday??

Britney Spears had an abortion because JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE told her that they were not ready to be parents.
And he was right.


THE WHITE MAN tells his young girlfriend to get an abortion so that neither of their lives are thrown off track.

BREHS ain’t telling these girls to get abortions. They selling dreams and then ol girl is a babymomma while the white girl cries, moves on and has kids WITHIN WEDLOCK with a man who actually marries her first.


This is a CULTURAL PROBLEM.
Other communities do the same shyt we do. Young people are dumb, reckless, and fall in and out of love everyday. The difference is in those communities both sexes aren’t encouraging babies out of wedlock.

You either have enough sense to use protection and not put yourself in this situation OR you make the tough decision to get an abortion so society doesn’t label you a babymomma.


The Black community will call girls out for being babymommas but no one wants to call out the dudes who are in relationships who encourage it. Dudes are selling dreams to these young girls while other guys are telling their girls NOT to have the kid.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Did I say they weren’t or something?

Why are you arguing stupid shyt then?

You know what people mean but you're arguing just to argue

 

[Gloxina]

It’s pretty sad. I always took that shyt seriously. Told my wife (girlfriend at the time) I’m not having any babies outside of marriage. It’s important to raise a child in a stable household. He’s 4 now and sees positive images of black relationships every damn day.

I understand shyt happens but I feel folk don’t even think..they don’t try…they don’t care. Hate how baby mama has become a black term.

It’s a black term because we are the ones doing this is the greatest numbers. Sad to say- It’s a Black thing.

 

[Germms]

Why are you arguing stupid shyt then?

You know what people mean but you're arguing just to argue

I didn’t argue to argue I said they were going to be fine. Just because they turned out not fine doesn’t make my point bad. It seems like if they even got married ASAP after pregnancy they “broke up” which hasn’t even been proven yet.

 

[Gloxina]

I didn’t argue to argue I said they were going to be fine. Just because they turned out not fine doesn’t make my point bad. It seems like if they even got married ASAP after pregnancy they “broke up” which hasn’t even been proven yet.

The point is to have enough control and foresight to NOT get pregnant before marriage. It’s in the best interest of the woman AND child.

He can go marry some younger chick a few years down the line when he’s “ready” to commit while she’ll have a baby on her hip hoping another man will still want her. The shyt is ass backwards.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I didn’t argue to argue I said they were going to be fine. Just because they turned out not fine doesn’t make my point bad. It seems like if they even got married ASAP after pregnancy they “broke up” which hasn’t even been proven yet.

Bruh, the original post you were like I think it's more important to be in a stable relationship than be married

If you compare the amount of people that are in stable relationships that are married, versus the people in stable relationships that are not, married people are going to win out

Coparenting sounds nice and shytz but most people have babies just because and are not planning shyt out