You conveniently skipped over Kimberly Crenshaw and black feminists shutting down my brothers keeper. Showing up to a school board does nothing if BW sue you alleging that your program violates the constitution.And I’m not a black woman who says that we don’t need a school for black boys. Black men (and women) need to go at those broads directly.
I attended private schools and am an advocate for private and single sex education.
And I’ve spoken VERY HIGHLY of all the black men in my life and circle. Divestor where?
My POINT was and always will be that we need a cultural shift for BOTH SEXES.
Everything isn’t “all these black girls are hos just having sex” OR “all these black men are shiftless dropping their seed wherever they turn”. It’s a little from column A and a little from column B creating a huge mess.
The same way we have a number of young women who don’t value themselves and share their bodies because they aren’t raised in homes/neighborhoods where they are taught the proper order, we have a number of young men who think it’s cool to have fun a little too long or aren’t on the road to being somewhat established by 30.
You got brehs on here who have said how many positions are open in the trades, etc and they can’t find enough young brehs who are willing to step into those jobs. And yea, of course everyone in the hood ain’t bad or destitute, but if we had more young women and men who valued themselves we wouldn’t be on here talking about the state of our neighborhoods.
Ask these college aged Black girls what’s going on on campus. How many young black men are on campus compared to the women? And I know there are more women than men in college in all racial groups, but we’re talking about US. Go to these HBCUs and the young men will tell you how many girls there are per 1 guy.
YES YES YES- We need more young women who value themselves and more young men who are ready to lead households by 30.
Our ppl have been through hell in this country, but we are the only ones who are going to turn it around.
And I still say hiphop culture was one the worst thing to happen to us because it really influenced and F’d up the last couple generations. Black youth culture is centered around hiphop and it doesn’t lead to progression.
We are too entertainment driven.
The previous generations had The Cosby Show, Different World, Fresh Prince, all those Black family sitcoms and more balance in hiphop. We don’t have any of those external influences that obviously did a lot for us.
We don’t have anything to counterbalance the stripclub/hiphop influence that is everywhere.
I mean, 2 young mainstream black stars are knocked up out of wedlock by rappers. Not even an athlete or actor or son of someone famous or something. Lol Everything is centered around “hiphop culture” and it’s a terrible influence on the young.
FTB; the ppl in charge of these programs need to put her in her place!You conveniently skipped over Kimberly Crenshaw and black feminists shutting down my brothers keeper. Showing up to a school board does nothing if BW sue you alleging that your program violates the constitution.
It's not just her. It's a whole group of black women suig black boys programs. Yall like to act oblivious.FTB; the ppl in charge of these programs need to put her in her place!
I ain’t focus on her because I don’t know any groups of blank women purposely trying to block black boys from getting ahead
What a weird way to bring pawgs into itThis fool done left one of the richest black women in the world as a baby mama and wasted her time, but some random dude getting with a white girl is what brings out the vitriol from a lot of dudes on this board.
Yep. This is largely a class issue. Men just dropping their seed wherever they feel and women popping out kids OOW…you aren’t uniting families, establishing a real, solid bond recognized in society. Dedicating yourself to the creation and upward mobility of a family unit.
THAT’S ALL I’VE BEEN SAYING.Start a family with a woman that you aren’t even willing to give your last name to brehs
Y’all actually thought this shyt was going to last? It never does. I have never seen an unmarried couple have a child and that relationship last more than 5 years after birth. Getting a woman pregnant without wifing her up is clown shyt, IDC what nobody says.
Calling it like I see it.What a weird way to bring pawgs into it
And this was the point of the other thread about Osaka and the thread about Hallie Bailey.
These attitudes are why babymommas persist in our community.
People keep blaming women when BOTH SEXES are to blame.
Got men in here saying having kids out of wedlock is ok, and now this chick is a SINGLE BABYMOMMA 3 months after birth.
This is a COMMUNITY PROBLEM.
This is EXAAAAACTLY what I was talking about.
@ThrobbingHood, @RennisDeynolds, @Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr @Chrishaune @King Poetic @At30wecashout Thanks for calling out the BS months ago!
You are completely right about that.Both sides are to blame but it's ultimately in a woman's hands whether a child is born.
Aye, I was scared to get sent to the principal’s office growing up because I knew my parents would be on my ass. Getting a girl pregnant oow was out of the question for me. I was taught that marriage comes first before anything. My parents were married before they had me, so I gotta be married before I have kids of my own. My cousins skipped the marriage step and them dudes got kids by multiple different women.THAT’S ALL I’VE BEEN SAYING.
YES- These girls are silly as hell, but these dudes are purposely moving reckless, too. Men know how to not have a kid out of wedlock.
We have men who don’t get women pregnant because they don’t want kids out of wedlock. WHAT IS SO DIFFERENT ABOUT YOU AND YOUR MENTALITY, @JasoRockStar , COMPARED TO THESE OTHER GUYS MAKING EXCUSES? How do we get more young men with your mentality? What were you taught that makes you value not getting a woman pregnant out of wedlock?