"Don't Date Women With Kids"...
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richaveli83
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Only way I would date a woman with a child is if she only had one child and she's willing to give me children. I don't have any children and would prefer to date a woman who is also childless.
Personally I think single mothers should date single fathers and vice versa.
Personally I think single mothers should date single fathers and vice versa.
A lot of the single mothers ive fukked ironically had their kids in other countries being raised by the grandmas or sumn. I can only think of two at the moment but that was the case both times@Ohene would you canoodle and cavort with a single mom
Only way I would date a woman with a child is if she only had one child and she's willing to give me children. I don't have any children and would prefer to date a woman who is also childless.
Personally I think single mothers should date single fathers and vice versa.
I could only date a single mom who was married and her husband died of an accident or a disease .
murksiderock
Superstar
Damn, imagine having three mouths to feed and being a single father?
I look at my income each week and think of all the disposable income I have being child free and go:
Alot of dudes say this but as a brother in this situation, having kid-related expenses isn't nearly as dire as nikkas think. It fits into your budget the same way anything else does, and okay, would I have more money if I didn't have kids? Possibly, probably, but I dont really look at my children as expenses. I'm great at managing my paper and am sitting right even with having these kids, it really ain't a big deal...
Eeeeh. Yeah. She’s the problem based off what you said. An IEP isn’t an excuse to reinforce or ignore dangerous behavior. And her having no firm consequences gives this child the red light to believe that hitting those weaker than him is an acceptable way to fulfill the function of his behavior which seems to be attention.
She’s creating a monster.
Instead, there should be a systematic knowledge of everything that child adores….and it should be taken away from him as SOON as he displays that behavior. It should feel like baby hell. Next, there should be a meeting with the entire family with him at the center of it. He should feel the gravity of that meeting and his behavior should be addressed explicitly. He should be questioned and damn near interrogated on why he thinks that’s okay. And he should know there will be very serious consequences if he continues engaging in that behavior including physical consequences. Lastly he should be taught alternative ways to communicate and heavily reinforced with rewards when he behaves in those appropriate ways.
I tried having this conversation with her but she wasn't feeling it, because she has blinders on with her son. The Thursday before New Year's he hit her and I grabbed him up and took him to her, he kicked me so I held his leg with my other arm and told him not to kick me. She got upset, and still is, that I "put my hands on him for something I didn't like", and I told her then, for the umpteenth time, that she needed to stop him from hitting my child. It went nowhere the same way it's gone nowhere for a year...
There are so many things I could say, but ultimately we are too far apart on parenting issues for the relationship to make it. And my heart goes out to him, to both her sons; the older boy has issues too, just different ones. Their dad isn't around and by her words he never has been. They are encircled by mostly women who enable a lot of risky behavior, and they are 5 and 6, they don't know any better. They only know what they're allowed to do, and I agree she's creating some monsters. My daughter is now in that same environment and I'm gonna line everything up I need for the eventual custody of her...
Just curious, how do you feel about dating people with kids, from both the male and female perspective? The lesson I've learned is for ME, if the parenting ideology can't align, it can't work...
@murksiderock
Did you get a DNA test to confirm that the child is legitimately yours?
Also, why did you keep kicking it with this chick & form a relationship with her when you alluded in your other thread she had various issues?
Did you get a DNA test to confirm that the child is legitimately yours?
Also, why did you keep kicking it with this chick & form a relationship with her when you alluded in your other thread she had various issues?
etrofllenrod504
All Star
Real shyt. I didn't ever have issue with single women when I only had my son. Before I met my wife I didn't have issue with single women even after having my daughter. As long as you are a good father(which is actually a plus), have your shyt together, and don't look washed. You can still have your pickings. shyt I would have women(23-30+) trynna convince me, they would be good step moms, or how much they love kids blah blah even tho they didn't have any lol.
Voice of Reason
Veteran
No childless man under 35 should even think about dating a woman with kids.
At 33 you still can find a 25-30 year old woman without kids to date/wife.
At 33 you still can find a 25-30 year old woman without kids to date/wife.
Action Mike
All praise..
I'd say only after 40 consider it
Voice of Reason
Veteran
Right if you are desirable man in his 30s you should be able to find a childless woman
fukk what u nikkas tombout... multiple women with kids on the roster...DATE WOMEN WITH KIDS...
fukk them kids daddy...
its a difference between dating women with kids vs dating bytches with kids...that step daddy stimulus is coming when them w2s get sent
cake ass nikkas need to learn to differentiate a woman from a bytch....
u nikkas sound like hoes when they be on that nikkas ain't shyt shyt...quit dating nikkas n fukk with men...
quit fukkin with bytches n fukk with women...
I got gators custom made str8 from lake placid..fukkin with me comes with a fee....I'm talking income taxes..
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I'm that nikka when it comes to a hoe paying her tithers...
u either a legend or a peasant...
go on trips with the kids... hoes always ask me why I never pack luggage... bytch I'm packing dikk.. u got the paper...
if the thigh is cute I got a shot to shoot...got damn me...
cupcake a bytch to break a bytch-
ican turn shyt2 sugar... pick a hooka like a booger....under pressure I become a pressure cooka!
bytches in the 20s call me daddy...their kids call me unc...my cougars who got kids that are grown... facetime me when they want this elephant trunk...fukk u nikkas tombout...
nikkas get grown ... n forget they momma always had em when Mr reggie came over ...u think Mr reggie gave a fukk about what ya daddy did or didn't?
get grown n get uppity...
sassy logic ass nikkas...
fukk them kids daddy...
its a difference between dating women with kids vs dating bytches with kids...that step daddy stimulus is coming when them w2s get sent
cake ass nikkas need to learn to differentiate a woman from a bytch....
u nikkas sound like hoes when they be on that nikkas ain't shyt shyt...quit dating nikkas n fukk with men...
quit fukkin with bytches n fukk with women...
I got gators custom made str8 from lake placid..fukkin with me comes with a fee....I'm talking income taxes..
=
I'm that nikka when it comes to a hoe paying her tithers...
u either a legend or a peasant...
go on trips with the kids... hoes always ask me why I never pack luggage... bytch I'm packing dikk.. u got the paper...
if the thigh is cute I got a shot to shoot...got damn me...
cupcake a bytch to break a bytch-
ican turn shyt2 sugar... pick a hooka like a booger....under pressure I become a pressure cooka!
bytches in the 20s call me daddy...their kids call me unc...my cougars who got kids that are grown... facetime me when they want this elephant trunk...fukk u nikkas tombout...
nikkas get grown ... n forget they momma always had em when Mr reggie came over ...u think Mr reggie gave a fukk about what ya daddy did or didn't?
get grown n get uppity...
sassy logic ass nikkas...
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