"Don't Date Women With Kids"...

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

There's gonna be some issues with the upbringing of our shared daughter, but I'm mentally prepared for that and gonna make sure I'm physically prepared for it when those issues arise...

Don't do anything stupid breh

 

[PHamm]

The single Dads I know are mature responsible adults. Most single moms I know are the opposite. The contrast is interesting

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

....I never ascribed to this mantra because I have kids, so it always sounded hypocritical. Like how does it sound for me to say that, when women could say the same thing about me? It doesn't make me a less viable man because I have kids...

But there was a hidden issue I never considered that I know all too well now. The problem with dating women with kids, I'm sure doesn't apply to all women, but a potential issue you run into is the inability or unwillingness to budge on balance in parenting...

I just broke up with my girlfriend of 14 months. She has her complaints for sure, I wasn't perfect these 14 months, but I've let her slide and get away with some dumb shyt for too long, and at this point of my life (I'll be 33 in June), as the saying goes, "when you know better, you do better"...

I know better, and finally acting like I do so I'm doing better. She brought two kids into the relationship, I brought two, then she insisted on having another. But I feel fukking liberated as fukk, I finally did the responsible thing and ended shyt before it gets worse!

Fellas, the biggest danger in dating a woman with kids is if her parenting views don't align with yours---->especially if you already have kids yourself! Have these conversations early early early in the dating process!

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

If you're a single father of course that mantra doesn't count. It only counts for those of us who don't have kids

 

[Killigraphy]

I've been over this countless times; pump and dump, but don't make her your wife. Don't take on any dad-like responsibilities, and don't meet her kids. If you do, just continue to pump and dump. Women with children are just cumdumps at this point. If you're not smart enough to know that your life will be a stay at home parent, with no goals of your own till the drooler is 18, then you're not worth anything more than a good fukk. Even worse if she's pretty and a mom...you fumbled the bag with good genetics and a p*ssy?

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

 

[murksiderock]

You and yours will always be second place in her mind.

And once he gets bigger/older he gonna try that shyt with you just because his mother is raising him to be like that and always defending his negative actions


Seen it before. I’ve dated single mothers in the past (My ex was the first one I had been in a relationship with but her son didn’t live with us or was he violent in any way), but I don’t recommend it to anyone.


I guess women don’t realize this when they have kids with certain people and he leaves, she puts him out, etc. Unless he’s abusive in any way, you make that work or you gonna be dealing with this type of shyt forever

I can't deal with it anymore. She's gonna have her opportunities to correct stuff because we all get chances, so for his sake, I hope she does. Otherwise She's raising boys who don't know that there are real consequences to actions, and by the time they realize it it'll be from life and the consequences will be more severe. I'm gonna have to rescue my daughter that I have with her, unless something changes with her, because she's growing up in that home under the same atmosphere that bred her brothers...

I TOLD this chick we didn't need to have a child together...

Damn bro this is serious on so many levels

1) the fact that the severance of the relationship could emotionally scar your daughters who have developed an actual relationship with their step brothers

2) the idea that you can’t be the one to discipline your step done despite the need to do so. If the father isn’t in the picture i would think Yall need to simply consolidate and treat the situation as a mine is yours and yours is

3) the son of course being held in regard over you, the man of the house in conjunction with the woman not heading to your guidance /opinion

4) the young breh putting hands on women. All my sisters were older but even as a kid i never ever thought to put hands on classmates who were females and shyt

Fcked up on so many levels. At least you got out breh i hope the situation dont mess with your bread. Lil nikka need his ass beat

Yeah I'm gonna have to finesse the explanation to my daughters, especially because they enjoy seeing their little sister when they are with me...

I thought about going the "mine are mine, yours are yours" route, but emotionally i aint big enough for that. When her kids cut up, sitting by and waiting for her to reprimand them works on me, because she doesnt discipline the way I do. Its better to be apart. I cant do the yours are yours thing with her...

The boy needs a serious ass whipping, he'll get one for putting his hands on the wrong kid at some point, but hopefully it isnt too late in life im regards to his other behaviors...

I understand your kids always having sway over who you date; I think something i recently realized within the last two months is that there is a HUGE gap in how I view her and my kids in comparison. When I started noticing this shift, is when I started contemplating an exit, shyt has been building for awhile...

Don't do anything stupid breh

Nah negative, I mean I'm gonna put myself on papers and try to work out custody. I'll have the physical shyt necessary...

 

[DaRealness]

Raising Kanan shows dudes without kids a very good reason as to why you should leave single mothers alone. Anyone who has watched it knows what I'm talking about.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

more reason for me to push this vasectomy appointment to sooner

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

I've been over this countless times; pump and dump, but don't make her your wife. Don't take on any dad-like responsibilities, and don't meet her kids. If you do, just continue to pump and dump. Women with children are just cumdumps at this point. If you're not smart enough to know that your life will be a stay at home parent, with no goals of your own till the drooler is 18, then you're not worth anything more than a good fukk. Even worse if she's pretty and a mom...you fumbled the bag with good genetics and a p*ssy?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Don’t care. Don’t date women with kids, fellas. Let the dude that knocked her up do that.

 

[DreadBrown]

We need a relationship/parenting section on here

 

[Mordith]

OP needs to grow the fukk up. This nikka who already has 2 kids, impregnates a woman who he had no intention of being in a relationship with and he expects us to believe that she is the problem.

 

[Diyhai]

I almost negged you

you know that statement stopped applying to you once you had the first kid

You can want whatever u want
I have seen the opposite as well
There are definitely single mothers who won’t date men with kids

 

[semicko82]

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