"Don't Date Women With Kids"...

[Zandía]

OP needs to grow the fukk up. This nikka who already has 2 kids, impregnates a woman who he had no intention of being in a relationship with and he expects us to believe that she is the problem.

I don’t mean to be rude but… THANK YOU!

3 YOUNG DAUGHTERS

5, 3, 4 months

How many BMs total OP?

 

[Astroslik]

LA nikkas ain’t hearing none of that Chicago ra ra drill shyt…these are facts …

 

[murksiderock]

I don’t mean to be rude but… THANK YOU!

3 YOUNG DAUGHTERS

5, 3, 4 months

How many BMs total OP?

Two BMs.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

OP needs to grow the fukk up. This nikka who already has 2 kids, impregnates a woman who he had no intention of being in a relationship with and he expects us to believe that she is the problem.

This. Dude with 2 or 3 BMs wants a single women with no children to come take in his baby momma drama.



The irony of someone with no pull out game scolding others on how to be responsible is wild to me.

 

[360dagod]

Homegirl won as soon as she got pregnant

I dunno if you have some unresolved issues within yourself that you need to figure out, but I can easily see you 2 years from now in the same situation...

 

[Thingsfallapart]

OP needs to grow the fukk up. This nikka who already has 2 kids, impregnates a woman who he had no intention of being in a relationship with and he expects us to believe that she is the problem.

Exactly. Plus, he said they were together 14 months but have a 4 month old daughter. 9 months plus 4 months = 13 months. So he got her pregnant within a month or 2 of them being together but she’s the only problem?

Get a vasectomy nikka and stop leaving all these broken homes and kids for @Another Man to raise.

 

[murksiderock]

This. Dude with 2 or 3 BMs wants a single women with no children to come take in his baby momma drama.



The irony of someone with no pull out game scolding others on how to be responsible is wild to me.

You always get this wrong and love throwing stones from that glass house of yours. You have personal accounts floating around on here too but I never choose to judge or criticize any aspect of your life that's been publicized...

I aint any less perfect than anyone else on here, I have a flaw with picking the wrong women. Other people have different flaws, you have different flaws, but trust its all good on this side. Don't let that house of cards cave in on your judgemental ass...

Exactly. Plus, he said they were together 14 months but have a 4 month old daughter. 9 months plus 4 months = 13 months. So he got her pregnant within a month or 2 of them being together but she’s the only problem?

Get a vasectomy nikka and stop leaving all these broken homes and kids for @Another Man to raise.

No other man is raising my daughters, you nikkas always run to the extremes.

And I never said only she was the problem, but the topic at hand was her allowing her son to bully my daughter. She IS the problem in that very specific scenario, stop projecting...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You always get this wrong and love throwing stones from that glass house of yours. You have personal accounts floating around on here too but I never choose to judge or criticize any aspect of your life that's been publicized...

I aint any less perfect than anyone else on here, I have a flaw with picking the wrong women. Other people have different flaws, you have different flaws, but trust its all good on this side. Don't let that house of cards cave in on your judgemental ass...



No other man is raising my daughters, you nikkas always run to the extremes.

And I never said only she was the problem, but the topic at hand was her allowing her son to bully my daughter. She IS the problem in that very specific scenario, stop projecting...

Ya'll hate when a woman has an opinion about your irresponsible behavior.

My miss givings which are over a decade old btw don't involve children nor do I except other people to take on drama and baggage. I grew and you are still creating baby mothers and broken homes because you aren't responsible.

And you obviously judged me and kept mental notes because I don't know a thing about you outside of this thread.

My house is fine. I know what I did. You're out here making excuses. That's the difference between you and I.

 

[murksiderock]

Ya'll hate when a woman has an opinion about your irresponsible behavior.

My miss givings which are over a decade old btw don't involve children nor do I except other people to take on drama and baggage. I grew and you are still creating baby mothers and broken homes because you aren't responsible.

And you obviously judged me and kept mental notes because I don't know a thing about you outside of this thread.

My house is fine. I know what I did. You're out here making excuses. That's the difference between you and I.

Haha man I'm sure the last mistake you made was a decade ago, beat it...

You can't point to a single example on here of me having an issue with a woman, save that shyt for someone who'll buy it. I get that sharing personal details of my life open me up to criticism, so thats cool, and clearly you knew something about me before this thread because you didn't hesitate running in here with your opinions...

I can't break a home that's already broken when I found it, in regards to the first woman in question. In regards to my oldest daughters' mother, very stereotypical of you to lay blame of a relationship's demise at the man's feet...

You ain't gotta lie to kick it, you've been here for years and so have I and the receipts are online here, we've had plenty of dialogue on here...

Whatever you think about my irresponsibility is cool on you, we good over here. My kids are fine and I'm good, ain't no excuses in this thread, sister...

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I get the message, but many of these messengers in here need to stop it. OP is the exception because he's in his early 30s, but we can't forget most of the Coli posters are old as hell where the average is around their 40s. On here talking about they couldn't raise another man's child, that's a grown-ass man, bro. You're a a 40-year-old trying to date another 40-year-old who has kids in their 20s talking about parenting styles.


Unless you guys are hollering at girls in their 20s, which you all claim to hate as well, I'm not trying to hear it. There's some unique perspective in here, such as OP's experience, but I know a lot of dudes in here just juelzing.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Haha man I'm sure the last mistake you made was a decade ago, beat it...

You can't point to a single example on here of me having an issue with a woman, save that shyt for someone who'll buy it. I get that sharing personal details of my life open me up to criticism, so thats cool, and clearly you knew something about me before this thread because you didn't hesitate running in here with your opinions...

I can't break a home that's already broken when I found it, in regards to the first woman in question. In regards to my oldest daughters' mother, very stereotypical of you to lay blame of a relationship's demise at the man's feet...

You ain't gotta lie to kick it, you've been here for years and so have I and the receipts are online here, we've had plenty of dialogue on here...

Whatever you think about my irresponsibility is cool on you, we good over here. My kids are fine and I'm good, ain't no excuses in this thread, sister...

I don't keep up with you and I have no idea how you talk or don't talk. Ya'll mostly sound the same. You can pull up whatever receipt you keep track of. I don’t remember having a single conversation with you.

Anyway never had a child out of wedlock, I have never been a baby mother nor would I ever. There are mistakes and there are people moving reckless. You're reckless.

You don't agree. I don't expect you to. You're the same person talking about putting your baggage on more responsible people.

 

[Thingsfallapart]

You always get this wrong and love throwing stones from that glass house of yours. You have personal accounts floating around on here too but I never choose to judge or criticize any aspect of your life that's been publicized...

I aint any less perfect than anyone else on here, I have a flaw with picking the wrong women. Other people have different flaws, you have different flaws, but trust its all good on this side. Don't let that house of cards cave in on your judgemental ass...



No other man is raising my daughters, you nikkas always run to the extremes.

And I never said only she was the problem, but the topic at hand was her allowing her son to bully my daughter. She IS the problem in that very specific scenario, stop projecting...

Nah, nikka YOU are just as much of the problem as her. You don’t like her parenting style, but if you would have been more responsible and gotten to know her/her parenting style before you got her pregnant 1 month into the relationship you could have deaded this before you had ANOTHER out of wedlock child.

You threw your 2 (now 3) kids into this situation because you were thinking with your dikk not your head.

and the fact that you haven’t acknowledged your part in this at all tells me it won’t be long before you make the same mistake. I give it 2 years before you have created yet another broken home and then found a reason to run off.

And if you think a chick that let you impregnate her after less than 2 months together is not going to have another nikka all in the kitchen eating your baby daughter’s fruit snacks by Valentine’s Day, you’re delusional.

 

[Swirv]

....I never ascribed to this mantra because I have kids, so it always sounded hypocritical. Like how does it sound for me to say that, when women could say the same thing about me? It doesn't make me a less viable man because I have kids...

But there was a hidden issue I never considered that I know all too well now. The problem with dating women with kids, I'm sure doesn't apply to all women, but a potential issue you run into is the inability or unwillingness to budge on balance in parenting...

I just broke up with my girlfriend of 14 months. She has her complaints for sure, I wasn't perfect these 14 months, but I've let her slide and get away with some dumb shyt for too long, and at this point of my life (I'll be 33 in June), as the saying goes, "when you know better, you do better"...

I know better, and finally acting like I do so I'm doing better. She brought two kids into the relationship, I brought two, then she insisted on having another. But I feel fukking liberated as fukk, I finally did the responsible thing and ended shyt before it gets worse!

Fellas, the biggest danger in dating a woman with kids is if her parenting views don't align with yours---->especially if you already have kids yourself! Have these conversations early early early in the dating process!

Never let em box you in. You’re gonna find the right one for you breh.

 

[murksiderock]

Nah, nikka YOU are just as much of the problem as her. You don’t like her parenting style, but if you would have been more responsible and gotten to know her/her parenting style before you got her pregnant 1 month into the relationship you could have deaded this before you had ANOTHER out of wedlock child.

You threw your 2 (now 3) kids into this situation because you were thinking with your dikk not your head.

and the fact that you haven’t acknowledged your part in this at all tells me it won’t be long before you make the same mistake. I give it 2 years before you have created yet another broken home and then found a reason to run off.

And if you think a chick that let you impregnate her after less than 2 months together is not going to have another nikka all in the kitchen eating your baby daughter’s fruit snacks by Valentine’s Day, you’re delusional.

Bruh you sound silly. You do realize everyone doesn't have the same views on marriage, right? I don't really subscribe to European family ideology...

"Found a reason to run off", you're doing a whole lot of projecting with no info to base that on. Good luck to you though g, me and my daughters gone be fine regardless...

 

[Dad]

Are her sons father in the picture?

I dated a single mother once and in the back of my mind it always felt like she was schemin.

I salute you, breh. You have the patience of Job. I may have overlooked it but, would you date another single mom?