That's a given, I mean the people fight. You are female so i give you a pass but, the males should not be docile. You fight for your family, and want better for them, even if it means you die or hurt. You are thinking about the bigger picture, and don't want it to be an easy capture of your people.
I understand what you are saying and I am telling you these men were killed off...there are a few but not enough to fight...the rest are concerned with how to get ahead in life by any means necessary as in personal goals instead of a national one.