What's the confusion about? I just described to you what a Jabao looks like. If you're a Jabao yourself then that basically means you're just a lightskin nikka. That's how people will perceive you. You have the right to call yourself whatever the fukk you want, but that doesn't change how people will perceive you.
And what does calling yourself "mixed" have to do with being in America? Most Dominicans are "ligao" with different races, so that's what you are. I thought you only had a problem with people seeing you as "black", but now you don't even wanna be called "mixed"? You guys really make yourselves easy targets for ridicule.
the only thing i have a problem with is anybody trying to dictate to me how i should identify myself to the generic "what are u?" question. this is what its basically all about. i say again,
"what are u?"
"dominican"
"c00n u black"
only in the US does that make sense.