Yeah I was one of the girls who said no. But that's because I'm a heterosexual woman. There is no straight guy on this earth who would go to a club that was 90% men and most men get NO PLAY when they're in the club.Nothing wrong with going to the club, however I made a thread asking women if I opened a club that was strictly for women would they patronize it and over 90% of the women on this board said no. So I take that as being a small sample size of my theory that women in relationships also go to clubs to seek attention from men.
My bish don't go to the club and I don't see how men in relationships allow it. I couldn't keep the dimes out the club which is why I wouldn't try to wife another dime in her 20's.
It sounds like you're a controlling boyfriend. I'm single now, but I went out to the club with and without my boyfriend and it was never a problem for us.