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I have no problem with their accomplishments and would actually encourage it.
My only beef with a lot of them (and I'm talking from experience) is that they seem to think that having a degree and a high paying job is somehow a prerequisite to being a 'good woman' ie a suitable candidate for a relationship. I don't know why they think that way.
Most brothas would rather have a 'good woman' who works as a cashier in a supermarket than some wannabe sex in the city type chick who thinks she's god's gift to the world.
Alright, since some of you in this thread like High Society don't wanna call out names, what exactly was wrong with what I said?
I mentioned I'd ENCOURAGE a woman's success. I was talking about a certain type of woman with certain bad qualities and that obviously doesn't apply to all which I think I made pretty clear. I already have a good career myself and hold my own in all aspects of my life, so I've got nothing to be "jealous" or "insecure" of.
Maybe I should have expanded on what I was saying, but my whole point was that I like a good/interesting woman WHATEVER HER CAREER/WORKING BACKGROUND. If she happens to have degrees up to the eyeballs and earn a salary in the six figures then great.
I said a woman's professional background has nothing to do with her being a good partner in a relationship just like a brotha who has a platinum card but behaves like what many of you women refer to as a "dog".
I'm not "bytching" any more than chicks do about men all day everyday, just stating my own personal views.