It's crazy that as a man you can see the value in a college educated working woman, but not comprehend her doing the same.
Why do college educated black women seemingly, immediately write off blue collar black men?
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It's not a very small community. This been an existence within our culture for 20 years now if not 30.
Women are not stupid. They know what the numbers are and the rarity of what they open their mouths to ask for. Them understanding that a blue collar man is who they can realistically get to lock in with them =/= what they actually desire. Men have been speaking on the dynamic of how this relationship plays out for a quarter century now.
If Black men from all over the country are telling you the same thing for 2+ generations it isn't niche. And yes a few thousand people is absolutely enough. Otherwise no survey or statistically study recorded would hold validity, it is not statistically necessary to collect every individual to form a conclusion.
You and most women have made plenty of conclusions on (black) men without asking all 20M+ of us. Come on now.
On top of the fact that just 25% of BW are married anyway which is held up by Boomer women.
We really think 80-85% of Millennial/Zoomer women are sitting around manless/dìckless/no affection/no attention?
Trying to use marriage as the "what's what" on couples is outdated because the institution of marriage itself is outdated.
I'm confused. You're mad I said BW are the breadwinner of their households but then agree with me.
Then YOU use the word "tricks for dikk" but then admit the majority of BW aren't married.
I mean it sounds like you agree you're just mad that I said it.
I love how you pretend to defend BW but can't help but to shade them at the end.
Yes BW are desperate for men. That’s why they are the least married. Men know they can take advantage of that desperation and get whatever they want without having to commit to said woman. Just the concept of the idea for marriage will have these chicks dropping kids and paying bills. We see it ALL THE TIME.
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I do defend Black women but not at the expense of Black Men so if you say Black woman are most head of household based on tax reciepts I’d agree with you since there’s more Black women and most Black people are single.I'm confused. You're mad I said BW are the breadwinner of their households but then agree with me.
Then YOU use the word "tricks for dikk" but then admit the majority of BW aren't married.
I mean it sounds like you agree you're just mad that I said it.
I love how you pretend to defend BW but can't help to shade them at the end.
Yes BW are desperate for men. That’s why they are the least married. Men know they can take advantage of that desperation and get whatever they want without having to commit to said woman. Just the concept of the idea for marriage will have these chicks dropping kids and paying bills. We see it ALL THE TIME.
But if you’re saying that Black couples usually the women is the head of the Household that’s not true because Black Men make more money than Black women and Black women when they do marry Black Men usually marry Men that make more.
So we’re both right on that.
Your second point is the conundrum I see Black women are desparate for Men yet at the same time pretty picky when it comes to them.
I read a book about the first Black Detective on what is now known as NYPD and the brotha was a big dude who used to be a bouncer and it said that Black women were choosing him heavy because in 1903 Manhattan there was less Black Men than Black women so he quickly married.
Now a Mike Lowery nikka on the force is piping several girls.
I guess the difference is now women wait till a nikka becomes a first grade Detective gets tons of Overtime and has ten chicks in his roster.
in 1903 bytches peeped his country ass fresh off the boat in his first bouncing job.
So I would say if you’re one of those desparate to be married girls find a nikka that’s down to marry before all the other girls learn about him or do like you and decenter Men and chill.
Say what they want about you on the board I never heard you crying about not having a Man. Frankly I never heard none of the Coli brehettes do this nor to they expose the DM’s that dudes send y'all
So I salute you on that front.
Here’s the deal and it plays out on the Kendra G show all the time. Women call up saying they want the same nikka as all the other ones want. Some are halfway cute some not so much some with kids some with none.
Just like a woman who’s super used to getting dikk and attention at the drop of a hate ain’t settling neither is handsome gang.
Loser or not Mid gang Nate Andrews is still smashing again Corey Holcolms Mid ass admits to power tricking on the regular and he aint complaining
So I really don’t see the issue here everyone gets in where they fit in.
That Lightskin nikka from Good Morning America married a Not Tamron Hall good enough girl and was fukking half the staff and the wife bushed him when he started fukking the co anchor and he lost his job behind it.
Again Fine as May wine Tamron used to get around back in the day and was drunk texting donnie trying to get moved up from unacknowleged side chick to kept women or seeded dumped baby momma status and he ignored her
So she married a fat old ass small hat that she makes way more money that so super fine Tamron ending paying for old fat ass small hat dikk.
Again she made her choice and generally Black Men have said nothing.
Just like a woman who’s super used to getting dikk and attention at the drop of a hate ain’t settling neither is handsome gang.
Loser or not Mid gang Nate Andrews is still smashing again Corey Holcolms Mid ass admits to power tricking on the regular and he aint complaining
So I really don’t see the issue here everyone gets in where they fit in.
That Lightskin nikka from Good Morning America married a Not Tamron Hall good enough girl and was fukking half the staff and the wife bushed him when he started fukking the co anchor and he lost his job behind it.
Again Fine as May wine Tamron used to get around back in the day and was drunk texting donnie trying to get moved up from unacknowleged side chick to kept women or seeded dumped baby momma status and he ignored her
So she married a fat old ass small hat that she makes way more money that so super fine Tamron ending paying for old fat ass small hat dikk.
Again she made her choice and generally Black Men have said nothing.
Just put the fries in the bag lil bytch
Who? Name nikkas crushes that would change if she was a elevator repairwoman or OTR lol...
Another dose of real life for some of y'all. A significant number of these white collar black women are broker than the blue collar black men.
1. Like I've said in my previous posts, a lot of these men are making far more than y'all assume
2. A significant number of these women with these jobs are under significant student debt. Nikkas love posting the "black women are more educated" stats but it's crickets when nikkas ask for them Student Loan debt statistics
Not to mention those same women, with those boujie aspirations are living an unsustainable lifestyle. So yea Keisha is making $110k, but has $75k in student debt, a $1200 car note, lives in a big ass house alone with no assisting income, and can't stop eating out and shopping. All to keep up appearances. So it's a wash
Again nikkas gotta get off social media and stop believing these Tyler Perry written ass scenarios
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
Most in debt too
Can’t be evicted if you ain’t got a shytload of debt.
fly ass broad walking around with a 270 credit score is a major red flag she’s gonna need immediate help on the bills.
OnlyOneBoss
Superstar
Breh I didn't even mean to
I'm not even a blue collar breh myself, I was just commenting on something I've been seeing online
heavenlywings77
Pro
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