Do SOCIALLY conservative blk women make the best wives/GFs?

[CrimsonTider]

Husband pays all the bills, wife raises the kids. Is it racist for wanting that? Is that not a conservative talking point?

No it’s not

conservative talking points are pushing racism and classism

and this thread is classist thread

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

the immediate difference in a two parent household in some cases is a dual-income which just means more resources for the household. two-parent household doesn't automatically mean equate to moral guidance and "good" values which some people are trying to ascribe to it on here.

Of course is doesn't mean automatic success, but is that not the case for a majority of two parent households?

I guess living apart and having the kids over 1 week at a time works. I find it rather weird.

 

[LadyJ2]

Really? You think that is all that is needed to make the best wife? What you have said depends on really her feelings, and those are mercurial at worst. The best wife in my opinion understands the concepts of Honor, Responsibility, Respect, Duty, and that Love is an action and not just a feeling, among other attributes. A man depending on a woman's feelings about him for her to remain a good wife, is a man pretty much doomed to have a failed marriage in my opinion.

This idea that a big heart + high libido is all you need to be a good wife is a recipe for failure.

Yes, that is what I think.

Big heart = caring, loving, willing to sacrifice, dotes on man and children, optimistic, tries to see the silver lining, family-oriented, good to her friends, etc.

High libido = has strong sexual desires, places sex at apex of connection to her spouse, understands lover versus friend, can still desire sex when hurt, angry, disappointed, etc.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

No it’s not

conservative talking points are pushing racism and classism

and this thread is classist thread

So how come every time Social Conservatism comes up the talking point of working husband and stay at home wife is included?

 

[JuvenileHell]

Conservatives are the opps, so no

 

[bnew]

Of course is doesn't mean automatic success, but is that not the case for a majority of two parent households?

I guess living apart and having the kids over 1 week at a time works. I find it rather weird.

some parents are nesting.

 

[Uachet]

Yes, that is what I think.

Big heart = caring, loving, willing to sacrifice, dotes on man and children, optimistic, tries to see the silver lining, family-oriented, good to her friends, etc.

High libido = has strong sexual desires, places sex at apex of connection to her spouse, understands lover versus friend, can still desire sex when hurt, angry, disappointed, etc.

It would be very naïve for a man to believe as you do. With out the Respect, Responsibility, Honor, & Duty components, all of what you have written can be easily furnished on a new man as soon things are not going so well for a period with her old one. Good hearted people do cheat. People madly in love do betray each other all of the time, or grow cold towards each other when all that was keeping them together was essentially Like and Lust.

What you are placing the success of a marriage on is essentially Like (people do things for people they like) and Lust (willingness to have sex on request). Neither of those are any foundation for a marriage to thrive for the long run. Both of those ebb and flow throughout a marriage, while the other attributes I have mentioned remain constant in a person with good character.

 

[Bushmaster69]

Yes. Period. Couldn't be happier.

 

[Bushmaster69]

Wtf is SOCIALLY conservative?

Are you serious?

 

[bnew]

No, they parade "2 parent homes" because all of the data points towards children coming form those homes having significantly better outcomes than single parent children.

do you have a more credible study instead of one written by some extreme christian-conspiracy nut?

Robert Maginnis: Christians Will Be Jailed and Killed if Trump Loses Reelection | Right Wing Watch

Retired Army Col. and right-wing conspiracy theorist Robert Maginnis appeared on the "Up Front In The Prophetic" radio program last month, where he warned

www.rightwingwatch.org

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Values family, religion, not into the "no such thing as gender". or anyone can be a woman.. believes in traditional gender roles. This doesn't mean she has no say but understands each person has a duty and responsibility. It's not mostly based on "I ain't happy". You are not happy for 1 day and think that it's time to break up.

To me, a liberal family is like Will Smith, Dwayne Wade. Just be free. Do whatever you feel. Your kids are your friends and you taking orders from them.

Fair enough. To answer your question......yes.

 

[Ski Mask]

You aren't that's why i try to distinguish to me the word ''conservatism'' especially in current america and society is almost synonymous with racism and racist beliefs. I get your point about ''traditional conservative family'' i guess i would frame it better. Its just conservatism and racism are too intertwined, the very word is toxic in it of itself. Furthermore what i am saying is that conservative family unit and marriage harkens back to a time in the 50s and 40s where black folks didnt have basic rights.
Please don't pretend to be dumb to get this, the era you are longing for where men went to work, women stayed home and raised families in the 40s and 50s and 60s, went hand in hand with systematic oppresion of black people and denial of basic human rights.

Thats what these "back in day we...." dudes arent getting. Going back to those days requires stripping people of their rights.

The one of the rights we got from back then was the ability to choose. So if your traditional, link up with those who think same instead of wishing for everybody to be in the same environment as you

 

[Uachet]

do you have a more credible study instead of one written by some extreme christian-conspiracy nut?

Robert Maginnis: Christians Will Be Jailed and Killed if Trump Loses Reelection | Right Wing Watch

Retired Army Col. and right-wing conspiracy theorist Robert Maginnis appeared on the "Up Front In The Prophetic" radio program last month, where he warned

www.rightwingwatch.org

Are you serious? Did you not go to the site and just assumed it was just written and pushed by Christians? The source I used was the U.S. Department of Justice. Let me clue you in on something, if the end of the link has .gov on it, it is a link to an actual government site.

Single-Parent Families Cause Juvenile Crime (From Juvenile Crime: Opposing Viewpoints, P 62-66, 1997, A E Sadler, ed. -- See NCJ-167319) | Office of Justice Programs

www.ojp.gov

Here is one example from Britain that shows the same poorer outcomes.

The Rise in Single-Mother Families and Children’s Cognitive Development: Evidence From Three British Birth Cohorts​

https://srcd.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/cdev.13342

Or, how about this study that explains it too?

Why Single Parenthood Affects Children

https://www.purdue.edu/hhs/hdfs/fii/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/s_wifis02c04.pdf

Here is an online social science encyclopedia site that compiles this information for easy access.

Effects of Family Structure on Children's Education​

Effects of Family Structure on Children's Education [Marripedia]

marripedia.org

Another study, this time by Tennessee State University

The Effects of Family Structure on Juvenile Delinquency

https://dc.etsu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=3380&context=etd#:~:text=The%20results%20indicated%20that%20children,the%20exception%20of%20alcohol%20use.

Last one, though there are plenty more. This again from Marripedia with charts for easy understanding.

Effects of Family Structure on Crime​

Effects of Family Structure on Crime [Marripedia]

marripedia.org

 

[bnew]

Are you serious? Did you not go to the site and just assumed it was written by Christians? The source I used was the U.S. Department of Justice. Let me clue you in on something, if the end of the link has .gov on it, it is a link to an actual government site.

big whoop, the zealot managed to get government hosting in an attempt for some credibility. it doesn't fool me.

 

[Uachet]

big whoop, the zealot managed to get government hosting in an attempt for some credibility. it doesn't fool me.

Ok, well I've placed up more information not from that person. So go back and try to ignore other data concerning this issue.