Do SOCIALLY conservative blk women make the best wives/GFs?

[skylove4]

I think you mistake social conservative for political conservative. Those are two different things. That couple you are talking about that is politically liberal can still be socially conservative when it comes to relationships and marriage.

I think that is the misunderstanding with much of this thread. Being Socially Conservative is not the same as being Politically Conservative.

I didn’t at all, but thanks for the non-lesson

I don’t agree with the phrase socially conservative being a good thing because it’s a lie fed to my people by lying cacs who want to keep the status quo. The term now has evolved to be synonymous with American life decades ago, a time that wasn’t good for my people or me as a man. Social liberalism is all about progress and that can happen with nuclear families and family values without calling it a term like socially conservative which in my opinion all black people should shun.

 

[Savvir]

people on this forum parade the phrase "2 parent home" like they're free of abuse or other toxic elements that single parent homes have been stigmatized with.


plenty of people on raisedbynarcissists can tell you about their two parent household experiences.

Statistically speaking.

2 parent households are VASTLY better for kids

Trying to point to outlier situations is disingenuous as fukk. Stop with the false arguments.

Like saying graduating high-school isn't important because some graduates ain't shyt.

 

[perfectblack999]

THIS GOT EVERYTHING TO DO WITH VOTING

The answer: depends on the kind of man you are. I would say no for me unless her social conservatism begins and ends with her behavior. If its a holier than thou mouthy trick who puts people down for how they live, bushes. My girl is someone conservative in her personal behaviors and but judges no one else for theirs.

This is the correct answer. Let people live, but keep some traditional values in our house

 

[Mowgli]

I swear y'all dudes watch way too much Fox News and show your asses in these "socially conservative" threads. It's like y'all really been brainwashed with sahllow 4cac stereotypes that all "liberals" are cross dressing protestors with blue hair dye and glasses. You think just because they don't share your bigotry towards homosexuals that a "liberal" family is incapable of raising children together in a healthy household? You believe being "conservative" is synonymous with having a family and a home, and all liberals are transgendered crossdressers?

Both sides dudes like this guy, @saturn7 and @Mowgli believe a bunch of white power conservatives that think black lives matter is a terrorist hate group and willing to burn down Capitol Hill in the name of Donald Trump hold the authority on family values and morals just because they share their ignorance towards others (and because they agree with their right wing politics, as much as they like to put on some black power front). But the ideology that just got millions of kids student loans slashed are the ones I'm suppose to believe despise families. Sure, okay. Y'all go ahead and be on the wrong side of history if it makes you feel like you belong to some moral superiority.

That's slander. You need to watch your mouth. You're critiquing someone on your aunties Facebook page. Sit down somewhere.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

The dude you're replying too doesn't. He's so mindfukked that he can only apply that word in the context of American politics.

Conservatism is a politically ideology. Period.

It's you simple minded super idiots who want to be Republicans so bad trying to take the most universal shyt like "family values," "wife raising children at home," and "God" and associate it exclusively with conservatives.

And why? Because the white conservatives told you they are the arbiters of family values and all these protesters and civil rights people are trying to destroy our perfect way of life. And you fall for it thinking these right wing cacs are serious about that shyt after they done elected and worshipped Donald Trump?

And yall call yourselves pro black and free thinkers. Yall nikkas lost as fukk. White folks brainwashed yall hard.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

Not twerking on tik tok for likes, not thirst trapping, not going crazy to clubs every week smoking hookah, not on the “nikkas ain’t shyt” independent woman bullshyt. That’s

Absolutely none of things you listed speaks to either liberalism or conservatism in America.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

You trying too hard. He means do women who arent all into posting on social media, dressing provocatively in public, speaking suggestively and obnoxious at every interaction, life revolves around "turning up" and trying to build a billboard of herself in social settings make better wives than women who thirst trap, party and want to be on everyones feed.

that isn't conservatism, that is being a dignified person. dont conflate tradition with dignity and tact.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

So how come every time Social Conservatism comes up the talking point of working husband and stay at home wife is included?

Because conservatives want to control women's civil rights, civil freedoms and social status including their ability to be more than mothers and wives in their lifetimes.

Liberals believe woman should have the CHOICE and FREEDOM to either be a wife at home, a career business woman with no kids, or whatever she wants to be.

That's the only reason these issues come up. Liberals are not against or incapable of whatever family structure you want, we just don't insist on taking away people's freedom to live however they want.

Yall nikkas watch way too much Tucker Carlson Ronight and believe whatever you're told about liberals. This "socially conservative" game of semantics yall play cus you to cowardly to come out and admit you're a Republican.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Marriage and stay at home wives isn't conservativism. Don't get fooled by the Right's word salads lol.
Social conservativism is upholding white supremacy.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

Thats what these "back in day we...." dudes arent getting. Going back to those days requires stripping people of their rights.

The one of the rights we got from back then was the ability to choose. So if your traditional, link up with those who think same instead of wishing for everybody to be in the same environment as you

These dudes need to stop posting here and go hang out with their socially conservative buddies. After their done exchanging their white power propaganda about the moral inferiority of these liberals and protestors, they should try talking to them about black people and black issues. Watch how fast they find out they don't fit in with, or are even welcomed by "socially conservative people" at all. Watch how fast they find out, no, you can't seperate conservatism from a racist political ideology.

But then after that they'll be like "well...welll....Im a BLACK social conservative. Yeah."

nikkas think all that bytching and shytting on liberals gonna get them a nice pat on the head from good white folks.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Absolutely none of things you listed speaks to either liberalism or conservatism in America.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

These dudes need to stop posting here and go hang out with their socially conservative buddies. After their done exchanging their white power propaganda about the moral inferiority of these liberals and protestors, they should try talking to them about black people and black issues. Watch how fast they find out they don't fit in with, or are even welcomed by "socially conservative people" at all. Watch how fast they find out, no, you can't seperate conservatism from a racist political ideology.

But then after that they'll be like "well...welll....Im a BLACK social conservative. Yeah."

nikkas think all that bytching and shytting on liberals gonna get them a nice pat on the head from good white folks.

Why are you bringing up politics? Being socially conservative has nothing to do with liberals or conservatives

 

[Unfiltered]

Because conservatives want to control women's civil rights, civil freedoms and social status including their ability to be more than mothers and wives in their lifetimes.

Liberals believe woman should have the CHOICE and FREEDOM to either be a wife at home, a career business woman with no kids, or whatever she wants to be.

That's the only reason these issues come up. Liberals are not against or incapable of whatever family structure you want, we just don't insist on taking away people's freedom to live however they want.

Yall nikkas watch way too much Tucker Carlson Ronight and believe whatever you're told about liberals. This "socially conservative" game of semantics yall play cus you to cowardly to come out and admit you're a Republican.

Which leads to men trying to find more ways to attract women, currently we have 50+ year old dudes with tats acting like children trying to impress chicks by being cool. I go to the bar often to watch the game and drink a few beers, you wouldn't beleive the amount of old dudes there harrassing women half their age. Your comment sounds great on paper but the problem is it leads to more ideas and creation of how to attract and keep and we both knows dudes will shoot if they feelings get hurt.

You can hate conservatives all you want but capitalist ideas are needed to create income and to move forth the economy but traditional values are needed for social interaction and to attait a certain level of comfort. White folks know the world wants what they have and it's not just money, it's the whole "values" they created to keep broke cacs happy forcing a woman to lay up with them all night.

So is it "controlling" women or is it needed to "level the playing field and keep social issues to a minimun? If all men had p*ssy in the bed as they please it would be a lot less crime out there, that's a fact.

So the more you change the system and demand be greater, the more they go forward trying to "prove" themselves. We can probably both agree most crime is from a lack of some type of need whether sexual attraction or just men getting to feel no one respects them.

Conservatives are cruel and foul and racist but the system was created for a reason, women are second fiddle to men and always will be, until she's working on skyscrappers doing manual labor and building airplares and bombs and weapons she's not gonna be seen as a man no matter how much education she has.

Honestly keeping men happy is important, cacs get mad people die, we see this all the time.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

That's what I'm saying. Usually the conservative type has the "take her to meet the family" vibe...

For the longest, it was always said to head south for a good country girl. IDK how accurate that is though but still... that Ideal woman is from the south

So now taking a girl you've been dating to meet your family is a "socially conservative" thing that "liberals" are against.



In fact now it's a "country" thing.

This thread is hilarious. It's like yall have some admiration for MAGA southerner cacs you desperately want to conflate with being pro-black. Yall can't even contain it.

 

[Piff Perkins]

These nonstop fantasies about returning to past eras where women were subservient - or "socially conservative" - are corny as fukk coming from guys who don't meet any requirements that the men of those era were meeting. Are you capable of making enough money for your submissive wife to stay home and stay pregnant? No? Then miss me with this talk.

I want to marry someone who aligns with me on basic household issues like finances and raising children, sure. But I mainly want someone who I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. If that happens to be a woman who works outside the home, that's fine with me, however I actually make enough money to give her the choice to work or stay home. And whether she stays home or not, I have zero interest in some gendered relationship where she's cleaning and cooking while I do nothing but work. The odds of me finding a woman who cooks better than me are low, unless she's a professional chef. And I've lived along long enough to know how to clean up after myself, like a normal human being. So all that stuff doesn't matter to me. What matters is compatibility and, again, whether I want to spend the rest of my life with her.