Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

[CrimsonTider]

I think it's only a small percentage of men who marry whores. It's usually those young, hood nikkas like Tyga or Wiz Khalifa. The regular, everyday joe doesn't want a woman who has been around the block a couple times. They want a respectable woman whom they can walk down the street with and not have dudes laughing at them cracking jokes. The dudes that I used as examples are mocked as being 'simps' or 'lames'.

wtf

who told you this shyt.

 

[mcdivit85]

I honestly don't think I'd get mad at him especially since we've already talked about the possibilities of feelings coming up but if I get my feelings hurt, I get them hurt and can only blame myself.

I feel you.

I'm just saying that its easy to "talk about the possibilities of feelings coming up" when there's no feelings involved yet. That's like talking about what you would do if you woke up and your house is on fire. Yea, you may have talked about staying calm and executing a plan. But when that sh#t really happens, you jumping out of windows.

Not to stereotype, but EVERY woman seems to say the same thing when going into a "casual" relationship. And soon enough, after he's slid inside a few times, feelings develop. You start feeling that burning sensation in your chest when you see him flirting with some other chick on campus. You start to notice how often his phone beeps when before it never crossed your mind. You start to wander what he's doing when he's not with you. You start to want him to take you out in public. So on and so forth.

And then, BOOM! You get upset when he doesn't want to spend the night and then an argument happens....a BIG argument...out of nowhere.

At the end of the day, your mind and heart can soon be departed. Unless you're just an abnormally mentally disciplined woman.

Peace

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I somewhat feel this way but now I'm thinking what will happen if a catch feelings and he doesn't? I mean I can't get mad at him because we had a mutual understanding, plus I don't want to ruin my chances if I want to get serious with a guy in the future.



Yeah this is what I'm afraid of, but how will I know what will happen if I don't try. That's the dilemma I'm facing. I wish I was a man, ish wouldn't be so complicated/complex.

It's not really all that complicated. You're either going to fukk him or not and catch feelings or not; depending upon your actions, you'll have to deal with any consequences, good or bad. Asking random men if "easy" girls make it harder for "good" girls will always depend upon their frame of reference, which is a crap shoot. What's good to one man may not be good to another, so all you'll get is a mosh of varying opinions that don't really answer anything.

Ultimately, you'll be the one fukking ol boy (or not); any future relationship(s) will be dependent upon how you proceed with the current dude, whether or not your experiences with said dude color your opinions on future relationships, and the individual guy.

I know you asked for men's opinions, but common sense is common sense, regardless of gender.

 

[Arishok]

I feel you.

I'm just saying that its easy to "talk about the possibilities of feelings coming up" when there's no feelings involved yet. That's like talking about what you would do if you woke up and your house is on fire. Yea, you may have talked about staying calm and executing a plan. But when that sh#t really happens, you jumping out of windows.

Not to stereotype, but EVERY woman seems to say the same thing when going into a "casual" relationship. And soon enough, after he's slid inside a few times, feelings develop. You start feeling that burning sensation in your chest when you see him flirting with some other chick on campus. You start to notice how often his phone beeps when before it never crossed your mind. You start to wander what he's doing when he's not with you. You start to want him to take you out in public. So on and so forth.

And then, BOOM! You get upset when he doesn't want to spend the night and then an argument happens....a BIG argument...out of nowhere.

At the end of the day, your mind and heart can soon be departed. Unless you're just an abnormally mentally disciplined woman.

Peace

Spend the night? This dude was talking about cuddling and kissing the next morning and we haven't done anything but I feel you, you speaking truth right now and I'm listening.

 

[LebronsHairline]

I don't do that, I date all kinds of men, as long as they're attractive. What's with the coli and interracial dating? Y'all ain't into it?

You have no idea

oh and easy girls making it harder for "good" girls is complete bullshyt

 

[MBwithadream]

You're going to regret this when you're getting ghetto gagged.

 

[Majestyx]

That's what they all say, feelings are usually caught, this dude must be the bees knees for you to make a post about him. You will catch feelings when you see him on campus with some bytch you hate a day after you let him fukk and he says "But you ain't my girl though"

The Realness.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

This is so very false.

However I agree that OP might want to strongly consider not doing it. Because if she was this easily convinced by a stranger on the internet that she can't handle what she was sure she could handle minutes before, she can be easily manipulated. And I say that with no shade at all OP. I don't think you're alone anyway, socialization ensures girls are ripe for this sadly

Nah. It aint.......For real.. Give me your reason on why you think its false,,,,And what part of the post is false.....This should be interesting

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I wasn't easily convinced, I initiated it.

You can believe that bullshyt if you wanna? But do you boo....

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

But simps wife whores every day though. At the end of the day, nobody wants a used up partner, and that includes women. It doesn't mean that that's what they'll get.

Corrected for accuracy

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Yes, but again, what they want and what they get are often very different. The same men telling you they don't want a hoe are often the same ones talking about sleeping around until they are 35+. The women who aren't hoes won't be available when they want to settle down. And even if they were they wouldn't want them either. So what do those men have left?

And I don't think the percentage is small at all, but everybody's experience will be different depending on their circles.

The bolded is categorically untrue




This does not apply to men who have options.......

 

[King Poetic]

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

 

[Arishok]

Believe what you want man. Lost my virginity at 19 and haven't done anything since I ain't got no reason to lie on the internet

You can believe that bullshyt if you wanna? But do you boo....

Right because basically starting sexually charged convos means I didn't initiate it.

Y'all need to leave y'all little bubbles and realize not all girls act or think exactly the same.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

At the end of the day, more power to you, you gotta have your own set of standards. If you wanna have sex and get straight into it, why the fukk not? You only have to face yourself at the end of the day who the fukk cares about a whore label? And these girls saying you're making it harder for them are obviously insecure as it is. It's a lot of men out there that wife up girls who've had so damn partners, I mean who really cares at the end of the day? As a woman, being in tune with your sexuality and your body is grossly misunderstood and never talked about, women are afraid of their own anatomy. There's a lot more you can do than sex, that's just me personally though. I've always been of the opinion that you need to learn about your own body before you let someone else venture into it, and for us women it's hella hard to separate sex from emotions. As much as we try to front, we can't have sex without feeling attached later (unless you're some kind of sociopath).

The bolded is so true,...But will that so called union bare good fruit or produce a long lasting legacy?

Simps\Lames and reformed Hoes get married everyday, but there is nothing noteworthy produced from these unions.....

 

[Arishok]

I guess it's a good thing I don't have a long body count