I’m a dirtbag always, but it wasn’t that, she thought a nikka was outchea but i think that was her own bs, (we all have our triggers) i tries to show her but again it’s never enough when a person decides you ain’t their person anymore, the fights became more frequent and more bad feelings were harboring, to me when you say i do that means above it all it’s us, it stop being about that, she stopped being gentle with me, i tried my hardest to still show her hey it’s me and you, 24 was rough for me, but i literally found a girl at the end of 24 early December, we have not left each others space for more than a day (outside of work) it’s nice to have some one value you, i hope it last forever. I think we tend to movie divorce and love, that shyt is very gray, i enjoy this new woman a lot but I’d die if i could hug my ex one good time, i still have our pics, but like i said i let that die because it serves me no purpose, i just enjoy what life brings me, and it’s brought me joy in a new woman who values me
The one thing i can say fight every day for your love, and wife, because you can say atleast you tried, talk to a counselor if you need to (a man) it won’t solve things but sometimes hearing each other from a neutral party can help. Check in with each other have the tough conversations and don’t separate and sleep in separate spaces that closeness makes it harder to keep the negativity up, holding the person you love makes it harder to be mad, don’t fukk around and get it poppin, then you realize I’m trippin over nothing always ask yourself is this a hill I’m willing to die on before any disagreement it can save you issues