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She got ultra religious. Like only wear dresses, no make up, etc. She was fun partied with me would do stuff was very social. Now it's just her wierd church friends and the Bible all the time. The things I need from her she won't do cause of here new religeon. Sucks cause I love her and I know she loves me. I'm super unhappy.

The Bible says if she does not make things right with you, her prayers will not be answered, and vice versa.

You should join her, but at the same time study the Bible your self, then you can understand where she is inconsistent. Her duty is NOT to her church friends but to her husband. Neglecting your companionship is not Biblical. You all need to compromise on the things you do together but you MUST do things together, MORE than her with her church friends.
 

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Getting a divorce was the best thing I ever did

Probably won't work like that for most

I guess I'm lucky :yeshrug:
 

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This is why your culture and society is crumbling. The developing world that holds on too their ancient traditions are watching the collapse.

Well yea I agree. But we let go of to many other ancient "traditions" surrounding marriage in the first place to the point where it doesn't make sense anymore.
 

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No fukking way!!!

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Yes, Way. These were her own words

She was also staying at her gay married brother's house (he's owns a coupla properties....and he has a whole wife to boot).

They kicked her out as soon as they found out that she was bussin' it open at their place. This happened with 5-6 days ago. I believe she's at a hotel for the time being 🏨.

I'm not making any of this up.
 

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this is the thing, people have no clue what love is. Love is NOT a fleeting emotion. Love is an action word, Love is a state of mind, it's committment, it's sacrifice, it's putting the family and other person first. BOTH people have to do it. It's patience and perseverence. It's a determined force, not a fleeting emotion. Infatuation and obession are fleeting and what people mistake for love.

This is why I say love is enough, because it's all encompassing, it's not the bullsh*t people see in Hollywood movies.

love covers a multitude of sins
 

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of course

Happy I’m single at the moment. Ppl nowadays have zero resilience when it comes to this shyt and i don’t wanna waste anymore you time with someone who don’t wanna put the work in

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Yeah, I’ve noticed that even the church girls be getting divorced. I’m wondering if they’re leaving these dudes for no reason, or if they actually did something egregious. It seems like most women I know personally, left their husband because they were just bored.
This is exactly whats happening. With Social media some feel like they are missing out. What they dont is those bytches cry their self to sleep at night. Only a small % leave because of legit reasons.
 

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This is exactly whats happening. With Social media some feel like they are missing out. What they dont is those bytches cry their self to sleep at night. Only a small % leave because of legit reasons.
. this why men need to stop falling for the juug lmfao let these hoes suffer, if evolutionary adaptation doesn't kick in then this shyt was supposed to crumble anyways
 

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It's crazy the older I get it seems like every other week close friends of mine, family members, or past friends are getting divorced.

I keep getting calls to be the shoulder to lean on and I try and listen but the stories I hear are so depressing.

Anyone else seeing this or is it society as a whole?

100% what i'm seeing.

I look around at my friends and I tell them... ya'll probably wont make it :yeshrug:
 

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Why you say this?
Just the space im in and priorities… i don’t think I got it in me to find a whole new person, go through the ups and downs of dating, etc.

Then finding someone I can trust and would love me unconditionally.. I think I’m past that at my age.

Last relationship i put in legit effort too… damn near broke me. Not doing it again
 
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Just the space im in and priorities… i don’t think I got it in me to find a whole new person, go through the ups and downs of dating, etc.

Then finding someone I can trust and would love me unconditionally.. I think I’m past that at my age.

Last relationship i put in legit effort too… damn near broke me. Not doing it again

You have a good mindset. Too many people get bitter and start hating the opposite sex
 
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