Dear Single, Black, Female Professional
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louis_mayne
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There's cultural/socioeconomic barriers with dating black too, and in 2012 the perceived racism for interracial dating is overstated. There are obstacles to dating any woman and in certain situations dating outside your race maybe easier. But its a lot of generalities in this whole thread bcuz I know some real good black women and I know some horrible black women and I can say the same for women of other races.
Why do they think of them as enemies?
Maybe out of the pool of females in a guys life, they find someone of another race who he truly enjoys and loves being with. Granted the OP needs to pull his skirt down, but why does everyone dating outside their race have to be looked upon as if they hate themselves or "their women". In this fukk up world can't we all just be happy someone found someone that makes them happy.
but honestly black people that describe themselves as young professionals, you know the type, are some of the most annoying delusional people out there. I know as a people where we came from might cause some of us to boast and show of a bit but most of these people only boast or try to style on other black people. i'm not saying there aren't people of other races like that but for the most it seems that we perpetrate this shyt the most.
Sierra Mist
Banned
Black men that graduate college are only arrogant because of black women saying that all black men are in jail and degenerates. You make those men feel like unicorns. Just saying.
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
There's cultural/socioeconomic barriers with dating black too, and in 2012 the perceived racism for interracial dating is overstated. There are obstacles to dating any woman and in certain situations dating outside your race maybe easier. But its a lot of generalities in this whole thread bcuz I know some real good black women and I know some horrible black women and I can say the same for women of other races.
Why do they think of them as enemies?
Maybe out of the pool of females in a guys life, they find someone of another race who he truly enjoys and loves being with. Granted the OP needs to pull his skirt down, but why does everyone dating outside their race have to be looked upon as if they hate themselves or "their women". In this fukk up world can't we all just be happy someone found someone that makes them happy.
You are absolutely right, but let this happiness be for the RIGHT reasons. Because you love this person as an individual, which should surpass their race in all aspects. If this what a black man wants to do, cool, but don't take the opportunity to shyt on your own race because of this decision.
"Black woman don't say thank you when I hold the door open for them."
"This is the reason why I like and date White or Asian Women!"
Stop being so gotdamn superficial, which, in my eyesight, makes you worse than a bytch
Mountain
All Star
Right, but the source you quoted doesnt state that:
Statistically if you were to marry a non black woman it will fail in a matter of 5 yrs tops
Does it...
Right, but the source you quoted doesnt state that:
Does it...
I was basically estimating but I was right though.
are u married to a non black woman? Do you love her? Are u with her for her and not because of a grudge u holding against black women?
If u answered yes to these questions.....yall gone last B.
Stop finger pointing and blaming others for them acting like a$$holes. You dont see me blaming black men for the reasons some black women have horrible attitudes so don't blame women for them acting like arrogant a$$holes and feeling because they have a college degree and didnt end up in jail (which is WHAT A GROWN ASS MAN SUPPOSE TO DO) is entitled to shyt.
Sierra Mist
Banned
Finally a black woman admits that black women have fukked up attitudes. Here's the thing. You can blame the men for that. I know that that's what men are supposed to do, but black women have made it a culture to say "nikkas ain't shyt". Every movie, ABC Special, NBC Special. Every book. Every mother raising her daughter to think black men are evil. Yadda Yadda. Do you HONESTLY think that men coming from those environments and actually prove their own women wrong.. yes their OWN WOMEN who have no respect for them wrong.. aren't going to feel rare? It's no different than a black woman being over the age of 30 without kids out of wedlock. Some things are supposed to be done, but when you keep putting out this notion that "everyone in this group is fukked up" of course the people who become the exception to the notion will feel arrogant.Stop finger pointing and blaming others for the acting like an a$$hole. You dont see me blaming black men for the reasons some black women have horrible attitudes so don't blame women for them acting like arrogant a$$holes and feeling because they have a college degree and didnt end up in jail (which is WHAT A GROWN ASS MAN SUPPOSE TO DO) is entitled to shyt.
Is it right? No. I'm not saying it is. But that's the way it is and black women made it that way. And yea I will give black men some blame for black women having messed up attitudes. It's not finger pointing when it's true.
The Nigerian
The Realest Member of TheColi
Wait a second, let me clear up a few things.
First of all, this wasn't a date situation. She texted me to come thru to some lounge she and her people were chillin at. Me and my people were just out and about a block away so it was what ever.
Secondly, I didn't know what she did exactly until that conversation. I assumed she was on point for all these accounts that she was dealing with. I didn't roast her until she started trying to ace me on some "oh, ONLY" type bullshyt. Everybody else I mentioned that to was on some "Great, good for you. Let's celebrate!" type shyt. Then they'd usually follow it up with some good shyt that happened to them that week.
Thirdly, you know, she asked what I did that week. And I led off with the fact that I was on a yacht earlier this week. She was on some "Why didn't you invite me?" type shyt, then I honestly didn't know what to say. Like, it wasn't really a situation that was on some "Bring every girl you mentioned this situation to" type shyt. So I briefly paused and then I said something to the effect of "I closed over 30k this week. It was a long time coming. I felt like LeBron James." And I didn't say this with some smug look on my face. I said it with the same zeal and zest as I did in the voicemail I left my parents and all the other people I told that night. I mean, I was really happy about the whole thing.
You know what I should have said? I should have said "I watched LeBron James win the championship with my friends." Then she and her gerl would have been "Oh, I love me some LeBron James. nikka, you ain't LeBron James." type shyt for like 20 - 30 minutes. Good God.
You know, in the future, I'll just speak more cryptically about my affairs and not say ANYTHING about what I'm doing. "Oh, I was just really enjoying the weather this week. How about you?" No conversation of substance. Nothing too revealing. Just flavorless small talk.
First of all, this wasn't a date situation. She texted me to come thru to some lounge she and her people were chillin at. Me and my people were just out and about a block away so it was what ever.
Secondly, I didn't know what she did exactly until that conversation. I assumed she was on point for all these accounts that she was dealing with. I didn't roast her until she started trying to ace me on some "oh, ONLY" type bullshyt. Everybody else I mentioned that to was on some "Great, good for you. Let's celebrate!" type shyt. Then they'd usually follow it up with some good shyt that happened to them that week.
Thirdly, you know, she asked what I did that week. And I led off with the fact that I was on a yacht earlier this week. She was on some "Why didn't you invite me?" type shyt, then I honestly didn't know what to say. Like, it wasn't really a situation that was on some "Bring every girl you mentioned this situation to" type shyt. So I briefly paused and then I said something to the effect of "I closed over 30k this week. It was a long time coming. I felt like LeBron James." And I didn't say this with some smug look on my face. I said it with the same zeal and zest as I did in the voicemail I left my parents and all the other people I told that night. I mean, I was really happy about the whole thing.
You know what I should have said? I should have said "I watched LeBron James win the championship with my friends." Then she and her gerl would have been "Oh, I love me some LeBron James. nikka, you ain't LeBron James." type shyt for like 20 - 30 minutes. Good God.
You know, in the future, I'll just speak more cryptically about my affairs and not say ANYTHING about what I'm doing. "Oh, I was just really enjoying the weather this week. How about you?" No conversation of substance. Nothing too revealing. Just flavorless small talk.
Mist why are u repeating urself??? U repeat this same shyt like twice a week
Idgaf about abc specials or the black fem movement in the 70s to be frank.
No matter what race you are or sex you are....u dont have to be an arrogant a$$hole all because u got a fukking degree and yo black ass aint end up in jail/prison.
Also I've been admitted that black women can have horrible attitudes but I dont make excuses for black women like ure trying to do in here. U failed.
Mountain
All Star
I was basically estimating but I was right though.
In other words you were bullshytin, its all good though, i'll let you slide this time
are u married to a non black woman? Do you love her? Are u with her for her and not because of a grudge u holding against black women?
If u answered yes to these questions.....yall gone last B.
No doubt
Sierra Mist
Banned
Who said I was arrogant? People need to get this idea that I'm defending myself or my situation when I make my posts. I grew up farrrrr away from the black community. I didn't experience all the fukked up shyt I'm talking about, and quite frankly I don't need to touch a hot stove to know it's hot.Mist why are u repeating urself??? U repeat this same shyt like twice a week
Idgaf about abc specials or the black fem movement in the 70s to be frank.
No matter what race you are or sex you are....u dont have to be an arrogant a$$hole all because u got a fukking degree and yo black ass aint end up in jail/prison.
Also I've been admitted that black women can have horrible attitudes but I dont make excuses for black women like ure trying to do in here. U failed.
It's not even an excuse. Black men have dropped the ball with black women, both historically and presently. (Why black women keep picking degenerate losers is a question no one has ever answered for me however.) Because of the bad things black men have done, I can understand why black women have fukked up attitudes. Does that mean I think it's ok? Do I think it's right? Do I agree with it?
NO. And the same can be said about arrogant black men. I can UNDERSTAND why they are that way but I don't condone it. If I DID condone it THEN you could say I was making an excuse. But I'm not.
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I aint read that shyt
But I bet I can summarize it in one sentence: The black community blah blah blah, black women pick thugs blah blah blah,and why wont black women change their blah blah blah blah.
And u were making an excuse. Do u know the definition of an excuse?
