dealing with modern women is unbearable

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

@Strawberry

@Malta maybe you are on to something. I don't even think she know's homeboy's name

 

[KinksandCoils]

That's what's happening this thread, did you see @CeeMeWork's thread asking what they offer their ideal woman? It was pathetic. Even some of the dudes on here were appalled at the worthlessness of these dudes.

I'll ask these nikkas on here a basic ass question and next thing I know I'm a bitter bytch that hates black men

 

[Bless't]

@Strawberry

@Malta maybe you are on to something. I don't even think she know's homeboy's name

I was going to say.

 

[Ashley Banks]

If your point and doing what your doing, then no one here is addressing you.

Out of curiosity, what does your dude bring to the table that made you think hes worth while?

He's willing to work with me, I told him I have no problem doing most of the cleaning and cooking if he's willing to help me and he said we'll just split it. He cooks some nights, I'll cook the others, we clean up together, we split bills, we buy each other things, we take care of each other so no one feels unappreciated. If he's too tired, I'll do it, If I'm too tired, he'll do it, if we're both too tired order pizza and clean up another day.

It's really one sided with most of the weight on the female with the guys on here, they don't realize that that's why women don't want to do anything. If they were just a bit more understanding, they would get a better reaction.

 

[philmonroe]

It's an ego boost that's what its designed for. That's why they coined the term "thirst trap".

Yeah you sounding like that old out of touch person you said you were a few post back. Thirst trap and regular pictures are two different things to me lol. Somebody that has pictures of babies and food aren't thirst trapping unless they "thirst trapping" fat folks and pedos. Come on fam learn how to use the words right don't go out like our parents incorrectly using terms.

That's what's happening this thread, did you see @CeeMeWork's thread asking what they offer their ideal woman? It was pathetic. Even some of the dudes on here were appalled at the worthlessness of these dudes.

Exactly I get called put because I say people male/female on this bullshyt don't usually have shyt to offer and just want to water down stuf so they can get quality at cheap rates. That's cool for material stuff but in a relationship its not going to work like that and you're going to get called out on it offline if you hanging around people that are getting girls/guys. I so,grimes tell my boys stuff cats say on here and they cracking the fukk up like them dudes(females included) can't be serious. People need to work on bettering themselves and they'll be ok. That shyt works otherwise you'll be here still speaking on how the world is soo harsh and you have to leave the country just to get a date.

 

[freetroit]

My presence

 

[The ADD]

@DrX

I just wanted to give you a recap/play by play & update from the story with the dude that randomly approached me at the liquor store.

-dude randomly says hello to me as I'm leavin the liquor store

-I stop and talk with him for a minute

-He gives me his # & tells me to call him later

-I got busy, never called, forgot about it for a minute and then was like I never called that dude...I wonder what he's sayin?

-I still don't call

-I make a run to a convenience store in my hood. As I'm on my way out dude from the liquor store walks in with some friends. I don't recognize him right away but made very suggestive and deliberate eye contact with him cuz I was attracted to him. Turns out he was in my way, so I apologize and then he's like hey, do you remember me and I'm like the liquor store dude that I was just thinkin of earlier!

-I had to run to a friend's and he told me to link up with him after

-He calls, Im busy. I call back, he's busy. I shoot him a late night booty call style text, no answer

-When I wake up he texts back asking me what I'm up to. I tell him I gotta do a few things but that I'll be tanning on my roof in the afternoon & invite him over

-He comes by with a friend, knocks on my door, I answer wearing a bikini, ready to go tan on the roof

-We smoke a spliff, friend leaves, we immediately start whinin & daggering to dancehall

-Within about 5min we start making out. 5min later, we're on our way to my apt.

-We have a quality sex session, that I can honestly say was the best sex I've had all summer

-I tell him I'm so glad that we met & bumped into each other again and he tells me it was meant to be

See what I'm sayin? shyt is meant to be. You gotta learn to pick up on this stuff and stop brushing off what you might consider to be "coincidences". I'm telling you yo, this shyt is very real!

Anyway we end out hanging all day, drinkin, smokin, eatin...by evening he's callin me bae . He even takes a couple selfies of us cuddlin/kissin

We ended up fukkin 3 times and it hasn't even been 24 hours since we first chilled 1 on 1

All this because he took a chance and said hello to me. We were literally passing by each other and he said hello and that was it!

I ended up being attracted to him/interested so for sure that helped the situation but he didn't know this and took the random approach route and it worked like gold. Maybe not as immediately as it could have happened but life just randomly brought us back together and it was definitely worth the wait.

That's all it takes sometimes (random approach) and I challenge you to try this even though you're against it. Brush off any rejections you encounter (wasn't meant to be...NEXT!), keep your chin up & you're bound to hit a quality chick eventually.

Can you really live with yourself knowing you could have passed up a really awesome person (or even just awesome sex depending what you're after) just because you were too shy or stubborn to say hello to someone who attracted you?

I can't

Take more chances, trust me. Put yourself out there and follow your natural attraction. And pay attention to body language too...maybe you just assume she's not interested meanwhile you don't even notice what her body language is telling you.

Now get out there & report back!

I want play by plays, updates & all that!

*EDIT: It's very important to note the other lesson learned in my story: just because she doesn't call doesn't mean she's not interested! There are a percentage of girls like myself that are interested but get busy and forget about shyt.

Edit nevermind

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

My presence

How's that working for you?

 

[Malta]

I never said only IG thots are on these platforms... I'm just saying only they are the ones seeking validation or getting their egos built from it like that.

And yea, ultimately if you want something it's your responsibility to get it. Man or woman. If you want a quality mate then you have to put in the work to find one.

I'm just not seeing this huge drop in quality. All that has changed is the environment. Way way way back in the day women were obedient to men because they had no choice. When I was coming up there were thots. Regular women were gassed up by dudes getting at them on the street. So what's really changed? And even if it is so bad as you claim, how does sitting on a message board crying with other dry dikk dudes help the situation?

Only IG thots are seeking validation? So all those chicks who are posting their fitness pics aren't seeking validation? all the regular ass women that flood IG with pics of themselves day after day aren't seeking validation? Come the fukk on.

Here's the problem, you're nowhere to be found when women are saying there are no quality men, but let the thread be about there being no quality women and you're there shytting on dudes.


How does sitting on on a message board constantly talking about other dudes help their situation? You're always in these threads talking trying to high side these dudes, you're in the travel threads trying to talk from a high horse, meanwhile anyone from SOHH who remembers you can recall you getting caught up in that ugly broads PMs asking her all kinds of sexual shyt while you were married and talking about your dikk. Were you filtering when you were passive aggressively simping?

 

[Dwolf]

41 pages

Should I wade through this

No.

 

[Elle Driver]

Yeah you sounding like that old out of touch person you said you were a few post back. Thirst trap and regular pictures are two different things to me lol. Somebody that has pictures of babies and food aren't thirst trapping unless they "thirst trapping" fat folks and pedos. Come on fam learn how to use the words right don't go out like our parents incorrectly using terms.

Exactly I get called put because I say people male/female on this bullshyt don't usually have shyt to offer and just want to water down stuf so they can get quality at cheap rates. That's cool for material stuff but in a relationship its not going to work like that and you're going to get called out on it offline if you hanging around people that are getting girls/guys. I so,grimes tell my boys stuff cats say on here and they cracking the fukk up like them dudes(females included) can't be serious. People need to work on bettering themselves and they'll be ok. That shyt works otherwise you'll be here still speaking on how the world is soo harsh and you have to leave the country just to get a date.

I meant in general, that's the appeal of instagram. Most people are on instagram for validation/attention via popularity.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Dealing with modern day dating if you have some type of moral or Conservative attitude is borderline unbearable. As a man trying to be a gentlemen in a era of women wanting to be demonstration how independent they are and how sexually open they are its ruff, as a woman trying to find a guy that's not gonna try and have sex with every chick in sight when your back is turned, that wont abuse or treat you like BS in the name of love.... it can be hard.


If you dont have any of those reserves though, then I dont know what the big deal is. Women aint being women these day's and men aint really being men. I'll die single before I settle, and that's the truth.

 

[freetroit]

Is charity

 

[DrX]

@DrX

I just wanted to give you a recap/play by play & update from the story with the dude that randomly approached me at the liquor store.

-dude randomly says hello to me as I'm leavin the liquor store

-I stop and talk with him for a minute

-He gives me his # & tells me to call him later

-I got busy, never called, forgot about it for a minute and then was like I never called that dude...I wonder what he's sayin?

-I still don't call

-I make a run to a convenience store in my hood. As I'm on my way out dude from the liquor store walks in with some friends. I don't recognize him right away but made very suggestive and deliberate eye contact with him cuz I was attracted to him. Turns out he was in my way, so I apologize and then he's like hey, do you remember me and I'm like the liquor store dude that I was just thinkin of earlier!

-I had to run to a friend's and he told me to link up with him after

-He calls, Im busy. I call back, he's busy. I shoot him a late night booty call style text, no answer

-When I wake up he texts back asking me what I'm up to. I tell him I gotta do a few things but that I'll be tanning on my roof in the afternoon & invite him over

-He comes by with a friend, knocks on my door, I answer wearing a bikini, ready to go tan on the roof

-We smoke a spliff, friend leaves, we immediately start whinin & daggering to dancehall

-Within about 5min we start making out. 5min later, we're on our way to my apt.

-We have a quality sex session, that I can honestly say was the best sex I've had all summer

-I tell him I'm so glad that we met & bumped into each other again and he tells me it was meant to be

See what I'm sayin? shyt is meant to be. You gotta learn to pick up on this stuff and stop brushing off what you might consider to be "coincidences". I'm telling you yo, this shyt is very real!

Anyway we end out hanging all day, drinkin, smokin, eatin...by evening he's callin me bae . He even takes a couple selfies of us cuddlin/kissin

We ended up fukkin 3 times and it hasn't even been 24 hours since we first chilled 1 on 1

All this because he took a chance and said hello to me. We were literally passing by each other and he said hello and that was it!

I ended up being attracted to him/interested so for sure that helped the situation but he didn't know this and took the random approach route and it worked like gold. Maybe not as immediately as it could have happened but life just randomly brought us back together and it was definitely worth the wait.

That's all it takes sometimes (random approach) and I challenge you to try this even though you're against it. Brush off any rejections you encounter (wasn't meant to be...NEXT!), keep your chin up & you're bound to hit a quality chick eventually.

Can you really live with yourself knowing you could have passed up a really awesome person (or even just awesome sex depending what you're after) just because you were too shy or stubborn to say hello to someone who attracted you?

I can't

Take more chances, trust me. Put yourself out there and follow your natural attraction. And pay attention to body language too...maybe you just assume she's not interested meanwhile you don't even notice what her body language is telling you.

Now get out there & report back!

I want play by plays, updates & all that!

*EDIT: It's very important to note the other lesson learned in my story: just because she doesn't call doesn't mean she's not interested! There are a percentage of girls like myself that are interested but get busy and forget about shyt.

Lol that's cool...but I'm not looking to get laid...I'm looking for a spouse that I can built with...I'm looking for a future wife...I'm at that age

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Only IG thots are seeking validation? So all those chicks who are posting their fitness pics aren't seeking validation? all the regular ass women that flood IG with pics of themselves day after day aren't seeking validation? Come the fukk on.

Here's the problem, you're nowhere to be found when women are saying there are no quality men, but let the thread be about there being no quality women and you're there shytting on dudes.


How does sitting on on a message board constantly talking about other dudes help their situation? You're always in these threads talking trying to high side these dudes, you're in the travel threads trying to talk from a high horse, meanwhile anyone from SOHH who remembers you can recall you getting caught up in that ugly broads PMs asking her all kinds of sexual shyt while you were married and talking about your dikk. Were you filtering when you were passive aggressively simping?

What the fukk are you so mad about breh???

Telling dudes to take responsibility and control of the results in their life is solid advice, period. Lot of these brehs have been crying about the same shyt for years. Nothing has changed. So how is what they are doing helping?

I don't give a damn about the 6 or 8 women here.... brehs will run them all off soon enough anyway. I just hate seeing dudes assuming the roles of victims and spiraling deeper and deeper into lameness. Is that so wrong?