dealing with modern women is unbearable

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Who said anything about an IG thot? There are regular ass women on there with 1000 followers, bruh you're out of touch with these young women if you think a female has to be a "thot" to be on IG like that.

My ladies younger cousin goes to church, is in a fukking book club and still has 650 followers on there, just from taking normal ass pics. If you don't think that can lead to a bloated ego you're buggin.

Bruh I dated a girl from Southside (50's hood) who was a lead singer in her church. The night I met her she made it clap for me Those superficial attributes don't mean much with regards to the quality of character, no disrespect to your cousin

Ultimately if a dude wants a quality woman he is going to have to bring quality to the table and filter, filter, filter. Plus having an inflated ego doesn't mean shyt if you want a relationship and aren't able to attract the quality of person u want in real life.

 

[Elle Driver]

Who said anything about an IG thot? There are regular ass women on there with 1000 followers, bruh you're out of touch with these young women if you think a female has to be a "thot" to be on IG like that.

My ladies younger cousin goes to church, is in a fukking book club and still has 650 followers on there, just from taking normal ass pics. If you don't think that can lead to a bloated ego you're buggin.

That's actually true.

I'm not on there cause I'm too old and I don't get instagram and stuff cause you're not actually exchanging thoughts you're just taking pics. There is no appeal lol. But my brothers wife who's a Ethiopian immigrant that came here like 5 years ago is on that shyt. She's about a year or two older than me. She's so innocent she thinks its harmless because all she does is post pictures of her new born. But even then she has 1k followers off that. Suffice to say, she'd have way more if she posted actual pictures of herself but she's one of those Orthodox broads like my mom.

 

[Ashley Banks]

This thread has gone on too long.

Everyone just in defence mode.

The brehettes ain't listening so this is futile.

The phase 'but black men also..' is probably the most used.

Funny because there defending women that they personally wouldn't fukk with.

Honestly we are listening, it's you guys that aren't listening. You guys think we're saying we don't want to cook or clean, no we don't want to do it for a man that's unwilling to help us. Everything is much easier when two people are doing it. and you have to admit that most men don't offer anything, just look at that response to my post, dude went off calling me a bytch and worthless when I cook, clean, buy my fiance shyt all the time, and more but dude said he offers him being a man but somehow I'm the worthless one.

 

[philmonroe]

That's actually true.

I'm not on there cause I'm too old and I don't get instagram and stuff cause you're not actually exchanging thoughts you're just taking pics. There is no appeal lol. But my brothers wife who's a Ethiopian immigrant that came here like 5 years ago is on that shyt. She's about a year or two older than me. She's so innocent she thinks its harmless because all she does is post pictures of her new born. But even then she has 1k followers off that. Suffice to say, she'd have way more if she posted actual pictures of herself but she's one of those Orthodox broads like my mom.

Whats true that you get slot of attention for being a girl? No shyt when dudes trying to fukk (even though they aren't) you think they aren't going to have followers? I don't think that means your ego is blown to high heavens though in every case(hell not even most cases esp offline). Also I still don't think its hard to find quality women if you're quality but a lot of people of both genders like to overvalue themselves and hence why we have these problems.

 

[Malta]

Bruh I dated a girl from Southside (50's hood) who was a lead singer in her church. The night I met her she made it clap for me Those superficial attributes don't mean much with regards to the quality of character, no disrespect to your cousin

Ultimately if a dude wants a quality woman he is going to have to bring quality to the table and filter, filter, filter. Plus having an inflated ego doesn't mean shyt if you want a relationship and aren't able to attract the quality of person u want in real life.

Must have missed the part about "normal pics" as in just regular ole pics.


How are you trying to flip this on dudes the vast majority of young women have FB, IG or Twitter, you tried to imply that only "IG thots" were on there like that when in fact IG has 300 million active users with half of that being women. If the women population of IG were a country it would be the 9th most populated country in the world, that's more than just "thots" bruh.

You can keep going back to men need to be this that and the third, but there are less quality women today, and I'm sure if you asked women they'd say the same about men. Would you agree with them, or say they need to filter

 

[Bless't]

Indeed

That said, if I have to go back into the dating game in the future

Dont do it! Hold on to the one you have.

 

[Action Mike]

Honestly we are listening, it's you guys that aren't listening. You guys think we're saying we don't want to cook or clean, no we don't want to do it for a man that's unwilling to help us. Everything is much easier when two people are doing it. and you have to admit that most men don't offer anything, just look at that response to my post, dude went off calling me a bytch and worthless when I cook, clean, buy my fiance shyt all the time, and more but dude said he offers him being a man but somehow I'm the worthless one.

If your point and doing what your doing, then no one here is addressing you.

Out of curiosity, what does your dude bring to the table that made you think hes worth while?

 

[Elle Driver]

Whats true that you get slot of attention for being a girl? No shyt when dudes trying to fukk (even though they aren't) you think they aren't going to have followers? I don't think that means your ego is blown to high heavens though in every case(hell not even most cases esp offline). Also I still don't think its hard to find quality women if you're quality but a lot of people of both genders like to overvalue themselves and hence why we have these problems.

It's an ego boost that's what its designed for. That's why they coined the term "thirst trap".

 

[The ADD]

Dont do it! Hold on to the one you have.

No doubt.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Whats true that you get slot of attention for being a girl? No shyt when dudes trying to fukk (even though they aren't) you think they aren't going to have followers? I don't think that means your ego is blown to high heavens though in every case(hell not even most cases esp offline). Also I still don't think its hard to find quality women if you're quality but a lot of people of both genders like to overvalue themselves and hence why we have these problems.

That's what's happening this thread, did you see @CeeMeWork's thread asking what they offer their ideal woman? It was pathetic. Even some of the dudes on here were appalled at the worthlessness of these dudes.

 

[Action Mike]

In female words: Take of your priorities/responsisbilities as a man, cultivate yourself as person and the right woman will come along with whom you can build a solid foundation.


I agree

Not that its a bad thing, but that sounds like hopping on while the train is moving not building a foundation.

Think someone before mentioned women dont want to win but want a winner.

hmm.

 

[Barnett114]

You nikkas talking and whining about less quality been doing this for thousands of years

The young people of today think of nothing but themselves. They have no reverence for parents or old age. They are impatient of all restraint... As for the girls, they are forward, immodest and unladylike in speech, behavior and dress.

Peter the Hermit

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Must have missed the part about "normal pics" as in just regular ole pics.


How are you trying to flip this on dudes the vast majority of young women have FB, IG or Twitter, you tried to imply that only "IG thots" were on there like that when in fact IG has 300 million active users with half of that being women. If the women population of IG were a country it would be the 9th most populated country in the world, that's more than just "thots" bruh.

You can keep going back to men need to be this that and the third, but there are less quality women today, and I'm sure if you asked women they'd say the same about men. Would you agree with them, or say they need to filter

I never said only IG thots are on these platforms... I'm just saying only they are the ones seeking validation or getting their egos built from it like that.

And yea, ultimately if you want something it's your responsibility to get it. Man or woman. If you want a quality mate then you have to put in the work to find one.

I'm just not seeing this huge drop in quality. All that has changed is the environment. Way way way back in the day women were obedient to men because they had no choice. When I was coming up there were thots. Regular women were gassed up by dudes getting at them on the street. So what's really changed? And even if it is so bad as you claim, how does sitting on a message board crying with other dry dikk dudes help the situation?

 

[Strawberry]

@DrX

I just wanted to give you a recap/play by play & update from the story with the dude that randomly approached me at the liquor store.

-dude randomly says hello to me as I'm leavin the liquor store

-I stop and talk with him for a minute

-He gives me his # & tells me to call him later

-I got busy, never called, forgot about it for a minute and then was like I never called that dude...I wonder what he's sayin?

-I still don't call

-I make a run to a convenience store in my hood. As I'm on my way out dude from the liquor store walks in with some friends. I don't recognize him right away but made very suggestive and deliberate eye contact with him cuz I was attracted to him. Turns out he was in my way, so I apologize and then he's like hey, do you remember me and I'm like the liquor store dude that I was just thinkin of earlier!

-I had to run to a friend's and he told me to link up with him after

-He calls, Im busy. I call back, he's busy. I shoot him a late night booty call style text, no answer

-When I wake up he texts back asking me what I'm up to. I tell him I gotta do a few things but that I'll be tanning on my roof in the afternoon & invite him over

-He comes by with a friend, knocks on my door, I answer wearing a bikini, ready to go tan on the roof

-We smoke a spliff, friend leaves, we immediately start whinin & daggering to dancehall

-Within about 5min we start making out. 5min later, we're on our way to my apt.

-We have a quality sex session, that I can honestly say was the best sex I've had all summer

It was some real Goldilocks shyt, that D felt just right. I dunno if it's the same for guys with girl's pussies when sometimes it just feels so good/so right? You guys must be able to feel that too...anyway

-I tell him I'm so glad that we met & bumped into each other again and he tells me it was meant to be

See what I'm sayin? shyt is meant to be. You gotta learn to pick up on this stuff and stop brushing off what you might consider to be "coincidences". I'm telling you yo, this shyt is very real!

Anyway we end out hanging all day, drinkin, smokin, eatin...by evening he's callin me bae . He even takes a couple selfies of us cuddlin/kissin

We ended up fukkin 3 times and it hasn't even been 24 hours since we first chilled 1 on 1

All this because he took a chance and said hello to me. We were literally passing by each other and he said hello and that was it!

I ended up being attracted to him/interested so for sure that helped the situation but he didn't know this and took the random approach route and it worked like gold. Maybe not as immediately as it could have happened but life just randomly brought us back together and it was definitely worth the wait.

That's all it takes sometimes (random approach) and I challenge you to try this even though you're against it. Brush off any rejections you encounter (wasn't meant to be...NEXT!), keep your chin up & you're bound to hit a quality chick eventually.

Can you really live with yourself knowing you could have passed up a really awesome person (or even just awesome sex depending what you're after) just because you were too shy or stubborn to say hello to someone who attracted you?

I can't

Take more chances, trust me. Put yourself out there and follow your natural attraction. And pay attention to body language too...maybe you just assume she's not interested meanwhile you don't even notice what her body language is telling you.

Now get out there & report back!

I want play by plays, updates & all that!

*EDIT: It's very important to note the other lesson learned in my story: just because she doesn't call doesn't mean she's not interested! There are a percentage of girls like myself that are interested but get busy and forget about shyt.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You nikkas talking and whining about less quality been doing this for thousands of years

The young people of today think of nothing but themselves. They have no reverence for parents or old age. They are impatient of all restraint... As for the girls, they are forward, immodest and unladylike in speech, behavior and dress.

Peter the Hermit

!!!!!!