That goes for women too.
dealing with modern women is unbearable
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If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son.....
It's 2015 breh. Adapt or die.
It's 2015 breh. Adapt or die.
I think she was trying to imply that women were often (and perhaps unseen) catalysts for change within relationships and within other areas of society. Sometimes I don't understand the full weight of her little gems until I get more experience....so interpret that as you see fit
Along with women...men did not build and design every aspect of this modern world, despite their oppressive political legislation towards women...but it's somewhat beside the point right now
I agree. There are men who take the role and commitment seriously. I think the devauling language however only mirrors many people's experiences while in relationship (from either the male or female side) and that is quite sad that that's how things are for too many....the negative female/male relationships are very damaging for all involved and any subsequent offspring
Not "achievements" but "achieved rights". Was not society changed and forced to slowly change many years after blacks were freed? Or how about how society is evolving in the face of new gay marriage legislation or trans rights? The point is, whenever a major group obtains a freedom it once did not have - society and the families within must respond - once women fought and won the right to vote and work....the family was going to adjust....and this wasn't even that long ago that these rights were afforded actually.....
I think it's interesting that female "achievement" here is once again painted in a negative light IF her family unit suffers. My issue is the dynamic of the woman being devoted to her family first and herself second while the man is devoted to himself first and his family second (as a reality) while preaching a "family man" image/dream to women to aspire to is a false set-up (the sold belief). If women CHOOSE to forgoe financial independence and/or romantic faithfulness or any other number of choices/sacrifice to enter into a marraige where her primary responsibilities are child rearing and housework - great I support that choice! What I don't support is promising girls if they build themselves up in every way, physically, conversationally, sex appeal, etc. under the idea with these traits they will get this great guy (as long as they aren't a whore, too old, overweight,too needy and don't have any kids) who will love them and be devoted to their family and I just don't think that reflects the REALITY of male choices in family units or relationships as we experience them. Yes, its a generalization but I don't think its way off the mark. Many many many women are cheated on, abandoned later in life with children, abused, neglected, lied to and any other variety of emotional and physical pains that are deemed "part of the game" or "how men are".
Because men will always be the top right?
lolStickStickly
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she described personality traits that speak to you as a PERSON, a human being with a soul to offer.
you describe superficial traits of a robot that literally any woman or hired help can fill. what's your need for her? what's her role in your life? where is your connection, your purpose for LIVING? what is your purpose on earth other than eat and fukk? don't you want to feel connected some how in some way? your relationship as described sounds boring and meaningless. may as well add "doesn't take the expensive kind of antidepressants" to your list lol.
god don't want anything deep in life?
DemureNatural
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My grandparents have been married for 55 years (they don't make men like my grandfather anymore, sadly) and they don't have a traditional marriage at all; what they do have is shared values, respect for one another, and real love (and not the disney fantasy kind). I honestly think couples can define relationships anyway they want and as long as both parties are in agreement of the terms.
I think she was trying to imply that women were often (and perhaps unseen) catalysts for change within relationships and within other areas of society. Sometimes I don't understand the full weight of her little gems until I get more experience....so interpret that as you see fit
Along with women...men did not build and design every aspect of this modern world, despite their oppressive political legislation towards women...but it's somewhat beside the point right now
I agree. There are men who take the role and commitment seriously. I think the devauling language however only mirrors many people's experiences while in relationship (from either the male or female side) and that is quite sad that that's how things are for too many....the negative female/male relationships are very damaging for all involved and any subsequent offspring
Not "achievements" but "achieved rights". Was not society changed and forced to slowly change many years after blacks were freed? Or how about how society is evolving in the face of new gay marriage legislation or trans rights? The point is, whenever a major group obtains a freedom it once did not have - society and the families within must respond - once women fought and won the right to vote and work....the family was going to adjust....and this wasn't even that long ago that these rights were afforded actually.....
I think it's interesting that female "achievement" here is once again painted in a negative light IF her family unit suffers. My issue is the dynamic of the woman being devoted to her family first and herself second while the man is devoted to himself first and his family second (as a reality) while preaching a "family man" image/dream to women to aspire to is a false set-up (the sold belief). If women CHOOSE to forgoe financial independence and/or romantic faithfulness or any other number of choices/sacrifice to enter into a marraige where her primary responsibilities are child rearing and housework - great I support that choice! What I don't support is promising girls if they build themselves up in every way, physically, conversationally, sex appeal, etc. under the idea with these traits they will get this great guy (as long as they aren't a whore, too old, overweight,too needy and don't have any kids) who will love them and be devoted to their family and I just don't think that reflects the REALITY of male choices in family units or relationships as we experience them. Yes, its a generalization but I don't think its way off the mark. Many many many women are cheated on, abandoned later in life with children, abused, neglected, lied to and any other variety of emotional and physical pains that are deemed "part of the game" or "how men are".
Because men will always be the top right?
Exactly...ive known too many women that were everthing that the coli said a woman should be but still left high and dry.
Non American women>>>>>>>
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So unbelievably corny
Nobody believes that bullshyt, especially a nikka who been in the game for a minute. Y'all mahfukkas don't operate that way. Let some of them eggs start to spoil and watch all that bullshyt go straight to bushes. I've seen it happen too many times to count
Almost all these "feminists" give it up by 35. Feminism can't keep your hairy legs warm at night
If as a man you can't provide leadership, support, protection and u don't have some kind of self-sustaining financial situation, why should u have an attractive woman who will clean for you and fukk you any time you wish? What exactly are you bringing to this exchange?
You say you feel you are a valuable asset.... what is valuable about you? You are entitled, your personality seems wack and it sounds like you don't have your shyt together. If anything you are probably a liability. You want a woman to be perfect, and also overlook all your shortcomings.... how is that reasonable?
It's two fold. Many married women are miserable and play the role and would rather have the child and career without taking care of an man-child. Can't judge by appearance which is why many couples divorce after the child finishes high school/college. Most divorces are filed by women. Also, notice most widows do not want to remarry, opposite of widowers. Feminism is a Western White woman's movement. Prior to outside intervention, traditional African, Native American, Aborigine, and East European women always worked and held key/equal roles in society and men did not have full control over their bodies and finances.
We are now in the age of the 50 year old glam-ma who is happy looking good and doing as she pleases, no reversing it, unfortunate as it seems to men. Hardly ever see 60 year old women chasing dikk but I have seen plenty of men, married and single, chasing puss and paying for companionship. Not everyone wants to be married anyway. Kind of interesting to see women put their goals and selves first for a while.
Almost all these "feminists" give it up by 35. Feminism can't keep your hairy legs warm at night
They be hanging 35 and hairy legged and hanging out with other 35 year old divorced ladies sending their kids off to middle school orientations and to visit their father and his new (much younger) girlfriend every other weekend
they also occasionaly do brunch with their 40 year old still-married homegirl who has slept in a different room than her husband every night for 11 years...but she can't stand their man bashing over spinach omelets
.....just saying old head life....
I wish the world wasn't fukked up....but it often is....women need to be developing themselves (spiritually, emotionaly and mentally) and if you see the way yall even just talk about women throughout this forum
women would be wise not to build their lives, futures or identities around the bullshyt come on now 
...if a lady finds a man and they wanna marry awesome!....otherwise 
life goes on
Lol you nikkas are just writing lame nikka fan fics at this point.
Bruh, don't give up. You are correct many women are just attention whores but there are still some good ones out there. Maybe not be a lot but they are still out there. You are just going to have to put in the work to find them and be up to par yourself so you actually have something to offer a quality woman.
