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So unbelievably corny :russ:

Nobody believes that bullshyt, especially a nikka who been in the game for a minute. Y'all mahfukkas don't operate that way. Let some of them eggs start to spoil and watch all that bullshyt go straight to bushes. I've seen it happen too many times to count :heh:
 

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That happened to my mother not only was she working but she was taking care of us and even doing stuff that my dad was supposed to be doing. My dad was a pampered housewife and had the audacity to beat his chest and say that i am the man with his african inflated ego.

I really dont know how my mom never divorced him. I am never going to let a man guilt me that for not being a perfect housewife if i am working outside the home just as much he is. You pitch in around the house or you get dropped.
He was unable to get a job?
 

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there's nothing with a man helping out with dishes or helping out with the little ones. I did all of that. But today's women dont have their priorities straight. They would rather go shopping than cleaning the house. I always say two ways you can tell if your house is clean. 1) if someone knocks and needs to use the restroom or any reason? do you let them in or say hold on just a second over and over? 2) Can you take a pic and put it on fb or instagram right away or do you have to stop and clean first. It's a shame when the only time you wanna clean is when you wanna take pictures.
 
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No, not at all. That part is sad....I think a lot of women base what they think they want from a man upon movies, what friends and fam swear they deserve and society's ideas about romance. Men follow instinct. Which is why after 3 years when you need to simplify your girl to other men on the Internet is sex and food...

but then in society if a woman not offering sex and food she's rigid and will die alone an angry feminist:russ:....if she offers sex and food then she's a thot who should die alone because she is no longer worthy of lifetime commitment from a male :ohhh: being a woman like living on the twilight zone sometimes if your goal is in any way to try to impress or gain acceptance from men.....which is why it shouldn't be. Ever.

The reality is now that we have our own money we don't need you :lolbron: we can choose you....and that makes insecure men uncomfortable because they have to prove their leadership and desirability now when in reality you just want bytches to show up and get naked. ...:shaq:and of course cook after... not realizing many were doing that because women were at one point limited in society as to how they could support themselves. Marriage was the equivalent of a job. Yall nikkas mad we found better companies that are less controlling with better benefits :russ: no fukking required!

My point is this. ... not personal on u...just your post was an example of a casual male attitude imo...u had a million options to simplify your girl....she glow? She bright? She fun? She wild? She bring you happiness? She smart? She pray?

But u talking bout her skin tone and breasts or thighs or whatever :stopitslime:

I AM SO HAPPY TO HAVE YOU HERE!
To the bolded portion of your comment, I am reading a book called "The Best Kind of Loving: A Black Woman's Guide to Finding Intimacy"...the bolded portion of your comment echoes exactly what the author says about how we choose or not choose mates; we consider everyone's opinions but what is ultimately good for us and we basically expect soap opera type of lives, which isn't realistic.
 

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I AM SO HAPPY TO HAVE YOU HERE!
To the bolded portion of your comment, I am reading a book called "The Best Kind of Loving: A Black Woman's Guide to Finding Intimacy"...the bolded portion of your comment echoes exactly what the author says about how we choose or not choose mates; we consider everyone's opinions but what is ultimately good for us and we basically expect soap opera type of lives, which isn't realistic.
Lessons learned the hard way :mjcry: but thank you - the book sounds interesting...imma google it
 

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He was unable to get a job?
Didnt want to work for "the man" and didnt care that his family would starve. My mom would plead him to find a job like anything to help financially....they would argue about it nonstop. Thought it was beneath him...my mom was raised well off but she humbled herself when she came ro north america doing jobs she never did back home because her focus was to keep a family together.

Selfishness in a relationship or marriage is the biggest reason why people divorce today.

My mom is a good woman she just married too young and to the wrong person but thats life.
 

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SHOULDA NEVER LET THEM BIITCHES VOTE.....ONCE THEY GOT THAT RIGHT, IT WAS ALL DOWNHILL FROM THERE. NOW THEY THINK THAT MEN WEARING THE PANTS IS A BAD THING WHEN IT'S SIMPLY THE LAWS OF NATURE. FEMINISM DONE FUCCED SOCIETY.
 

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So unbelievably corny :russ:

Nobody believes that bullshyt, especially a nikka who been in the game for a minute. Y'all mahfukkas don't operate that way. Let some of them eggs start to spoil and watch all that bullshyt go straight to bushes. I've seen it happen too many times to count :heh:

:dead:internet humor not my thing but ya'll wondering why women started an entire political movement to avoid being socially and financially under the thumb of nikkas who think this way :childplease:

Yeah, you keep trashing and gaming hoes and watching them get desperate and lonely and want some peanut head babies but can't have none because don't no man want them now :to: you know the game.
 

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@Strawberry don't cry for me Argentina,weep for the fate of the world,cause the time is nigh,Anpu got the feathers ready at hand..

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Come get drunk with me, silly!

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how do u know i make a valid effort or not?...i dont do the random approach thing...I talk to women that show signs of interest

Because you scoff at the idea of randomly approaching a woman.

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. :ufdup:

You're afraid of rejection and possibly lazy. Dust yourself off & try it again :umad:
 
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That's because most of you all chase thots and expect them to act like housewives when they are attention seeking ho*s. A good woman who wants to be a wife, be loyal, and take care of home is looked over because her booty ain't big enough, she's not light enough, her tittes ain't big enough. A lot of your men are taking preferences and making then dealbreakers in finding a wife, instead of looking at a woman's heart and determining if she is wife material, you all are looking at her ass.

I agree. I admit my standards for a woman's looks are hella high. But it goes both ways because the superbad instagram type beezies usually have shytty personalities, hella baggage and are looking for a rich man to take care of them. And depending on their circumstances, they can find a rich simp. :manny:

Everybody standards are too high nowadays in terms of relationships. Men and women don't see potential in each other. There might be a girl who can cook, clean and has a great personality BUT she is visibly overweight with a belly and a slight double chin who could go to the gym for a few months and come out looking dimed out because she always had tiddies and ass and was always beautiful. :sas1: There might be that dude who is good looking, smart and college educated but is grinding out making $10 in a warehouse driving a bucket who could be making six figures next year. But no, in America, everything has to be perfect or we don't even want it, just like ordering food at a restaurant.
 

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I agree. I admit my standards for a woman's looks are hella high. But it goes both ways because the superbad instagram type beezies usually have shytty personalities, hella baggage and are looking for a rich man to take care of them. And depending on their circumstances, they can find a rich simp. :manny:

Everybody standards are too high nowadays in terms of relationships. Men and women don't see potential in each other. There might be a girl who can cook, clean and has a great personality BUT she is visibly overweight with a belly and a slight double chin who could go to the gym for a few months and come out looking dimed out because she always had tiddies and ass and was always beautiful. :sas1: There might be that dude who is good looking, smart and college educated but is grinding out making $10 in a warehouse driving a bucket who could be making six figures next year. But no, in America, everything has to be perfect or we don't even want it, just like ordering food at a restaurant.
Are you a 10 looks wise?

When you say high...how high? Anything less than 8 is a no go?
 
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