I've never ran into or known any Black women who have such sensitive dispositions in real life. I only see it online.
That's because the most vocal black women online have bought fully into white feminism. This is the problem. I'm not even going to get mad at them because they may genuinely feel pushed away from black men for some reason, and then white people come in to co-opt their anger and fold them into the white feminist movement. These same black women (minus the outrage-pushers like the woman in the tweets posted here because she's just in it for money, another Joel Osteen except pious about gender instead of religion) go harder at defending white women than white women do in defending themselves, but they never get that same reciprocity back.
This is why I won't say a bad word about black women or black LGBTQ folks (and for the latter, I could never go against people who are represented by elite black thinkers and activists like James Baldwin and Bayard Rustin, just like I could never go against the former who are represented by Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth, etc.).
Every bad word we say to them is seen as an opportunity for white feminists or white LGBTQ activists to hide behind their activism, which is a front for promoting and upholding white supremacy, and invite these disaffected black folks over to their side.
I've seen black gay men and trans women saying that old "black people have been more hateful to me than white people," and I don't get mad, but I do understand their confusion. Their white friends butter them up and point out the perceived failings of black men as a people while also separating themselves from the legions of white people who are more hateful than the most hateful black person...like all those pedophile-supporting racists in Alabama who voted for a guy who wanted to openly criminalize homosexuality.
It's a shell game that many white liberals are playing, and these people are so hurting and desperate for support that they are susceptible to it.