Dating outside your race: Prepare for the ENVY and HATE.

Houston911

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When I first moved to DC, I was going to Northern Virginia Community College (Alexandria and Woodbridge campuses) Lawd have mercy, the perfect place to meet women. I use to tell my boys to take a class or two. They wonder how I kept a bad chick. Them fools aint listen tho smdh. Anyway, there was this Asian (Laos) chicks in my class that was so bad. She sounded like a Cali girl but she rocked Jordan 1s with nice jeans, so I was very intrigued so was this married CAC man. Anyway, I was getting As and Bcs easily, she was struggling. She found out and asked if I would study with her. She start coming over to my house every day but we never studied, not for one minute. Actually the first time she came over, we end up at the DC zoo. It must have been some type of Asian reunion there, we got so many looks. Asians looking envious and hating. Lol. I was somewhat uncomfortable, but she didn’t trip at all. So I was like fukk it too. We would leave school together on our breaks and every time we got back this CAC always starring and had some cornball shyt to say. “where yall go, he he he” Smh. The last day of school CAC comes up to me grinning and asks, “ you better try and get her number. “ I said, “maybe when she sleeps over again tonight I’ll get it.” CAC almost threw up. Lol.



Ive been kicking with this girl for 10 years now, she’s 28 now. I always joke with her about giving her the R.kelly loving. :yes: Over the years we’ve experience a lot of hate. Some of my female friends get jealous, wonder why I wasn’t dating a good black women. I tell them she’s a good Asian woman that love me, do I suppose to throw her in the bushes for no reason? Called me a hypocrite, bcuz I’m pro-black. I need went seeking to date out my race. The girls has been down for me for 10 years. Cooking for me, rides to and from the Airport. Trips to NYC. Whatever I need she’s been there. We aren’t together, but she always hits me up to see how I’m doing. I don’t have any other ex’s like that. She’s coming down here to Louisiana to visit me, I wish someone would say something crazy to her. I’ll ride for her any day, cuz that’s my rider.


People see brothers with another race and hate, but they don’t know what the chick has done for the man. You know how many white women be waiting for dudes outside those prison gates for when I brother gets out? Helping to get him on his feet.



So Shut The Fukk Up when you see em !!! Cuz you don’t know what’s they've been thru. :birdman:

Sounds like a good woman bro

But if you were TRULY pro black you wouldnt be in a position to be with a non black woman

Sorry but those are the facts

Do what makes you happy though
 

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Man..... smh. Isn't dating about basically kicking it with someone that you like and share a common bond with? The fukk should ethnicity and skin color matter when it comes to that. It kills me to see how folks make a big deal about that shyt too like dating someone who is white or black means that they'll be a better lover or whatever the fukk. You know preferences and all this shyt but yet half of them are single, being picky as fukk and literally limiting themselves acting like they got the world at their feet. shyt is lame.

fukk what other people think. As long as you and her are happy and a good fit for each other, you guys are good. At least you two found love as there's way too many people that don't know how to find that shyt and are blaming the whole world for that shyt.
 

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Thank you.

Who the fukk cares.

If you like white women, get a white woman.
If you like black women, get a black woman.

This site is full of weirdos.

I agree. I know how The Coli is with pro-blackness and there's nothing wrong with that, in fact I encourage it, but if you happen to fall for someone outside of your race, then you fell for someone outside of your race. I don't think that inherently means that you're a c00n or sell-out unless you're making disparaging comments about black men/women... Then we have a problem. :ufdup:Some people will also make a big deal out of interracial dating, and that's what kills it for everybody.

That being said though, it really depends on what your values are. :manny: If you're pro-black, then you're most likely sticking to only black partners. If you're more willing to broaden your horizons, then you'll probably date out. That's just how it goes.
 

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Isn't dating about basically kicking it with someone that you like and share a common bond with? The fukk should ethnicity and skin color matter when it comes to that.

Is the coli growing up??? :lupe:
 

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Man..... smh. Isn't dating about basically kicking it with someone that you like and share a common bond with? The fukk should ethnicity and skin color matter when it comes to that. It kills me to see how folks make a big deal about that shyt too like dating someone who is white or black means that they'll be a better lover or whatever the fukk. You know preferences and all this shyt but yet half of them are single, being picky as fukk and literally limiting themselves acting like they got the world at their feet. shyt is lame.
But its usually the people in the IRR making a big deal about it. I don't hear anybody bytching about seeing IRCs in real life or online. Its always these lames whining about how "hard" it is to deal with people looking at them. :comeon:
 

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I think this site is just as if not more obsessed with interracial dating than st0rmfr0nt, however for completely different reasons. Ain't mad at the OP either as I like reading different folks' experiences, but the amount of interracial related threads on this forum is noticeable. Who cares who you choose to date.

Have to say though, something the OP mentioned that I always get a kick out of is, the "strong Black women." That phrase/description will always be hilarious to me. It's like something straight out of Amazon or CraigsList. A woman is a woman so far as I'm concerned.

That's because when Black women do something, it's always related to being strong/independent/angry/bitter. I do agree the Coli has this strange obsession with dating out, unless it's a Black women doing it.
 

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But its usually the people in the IRR making a big deal about it. I don't hear anybody bytching about seeing IRCs in real life or online. Its always these lames whining about how "hard" it is to deal with people looking at them. :comeon:
Right. The biggest complaint is that "people look at me funny". Oh the horror...:mjlol:
 

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I think this site is just as if not more obsessed with interracial dating than st0rmfr0nt, however for completely different reasons. Ain't mad at the OP either as I like reading different folks' experiences, but the amount of interracial related threads on this forum is noticeable. Who cares who you choose to date.

Have to say though, something the OP mentioned that I always get a kick out of is, the "strong Black women." That phrase/description will always be hilarious to me. It's like something straight out of Amazon or CraigsList. A woman is a woman so far as I'm concerned.

What western is that harmonica dude from?
 
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