Dating outside your race: Prepare for the ENVY and HATE.

PeridotPuss

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Nope, but I bet they know each other. They all know each other.

The asian community is big is northern virginia. They are very culturally tight knit so i could imagine you felt shaded. The DMV can be pretty judgmental in general
 

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It's not hate and it's definitely not envy. Usually when black people stare at folks who date out, it's usually cause they think they are a lame sell out :yeshrug:.

Nah breh, I've had so many friends and random dudes ask me how I pull that.


Maybe with a white woman is not hate, but with a bad asian or Spanish chick. It's envy.
 

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When I first moved to DC, I was going to Northern Virginia Community College (Alexandria and Woodbridge campuses) Lawd have mercy, the perfect place to meet women. I use to tell my boys to take a class or two. They wonder how I kept a bad chick. Them fools aint listen tho smdh. Anyway, there was this Asian (Laos) chicks in my class that was so bad. She sounded like a Cali girl but she rocked Jordan 1s with nice jeans, so I was very intrigued so was this married CAC man. Anyway, I was getting As and Bcs easily, she was struggling. She found out and asked if I would study with her. She start coming over to my house every day but we never studied, not for one minute. Actually the first time she came over, we end up at the DC zoo. It must have been some type of Asian reunion there, we got so many looks. Asians looking envious and hating. Lol. I was somewhat uncomfortable, but she didn’t trip at all. So I was like fukk it too. We would leave school together on our breaks and every time we got back this CAC always starring and had some cornball shyt to say. “where yall go, he he he” Smh. The last day of school CAC comes up to me grinning and asks, “ you better try and get her number. “ I said, “maybe when she sleeps over again tonight I’ll get it.” CAC almost threw up. Lol.



Ive been kicking with this girl for 10 years now, she’s 28 now. I always joke with her about giving her the R.kelly loving. :yes: Over the years we’ve experience a lot of hate. Some of my female friends get jealous, wonder why I wasn’t dating a good black women. I tell them she’s a good Asian woman that love me, do I suppose to throw her in the bushes for no reason? Called me a hypocrite, bcuz I’m pro-black. I need went seeking to date out my race. The girls has been down for me for 10 years. Cooking for me, rides to and from the Airport. Trips to NYC. Whatever I need she’s been there. We aren’t together, but she always hits me up to see how I’m doing. I don’t have any other ex’s like that. She’s coming down here to Louisiana to visit me, I wish someone would say something crazy to her. I’ll ride for her any day, cuz that’s my rider.


People see brothers with another race and hate, but they don’t know what the chick has done for the man. You know how many white women be waiting for dudes outside those prison gates for when I brother gets out? Helping to get him on his feet.



So Shut The Fukk Up when you see em !!! Cuz you don’t know what’s they've been thru. :birdman:


10 years and not married? :what:
 
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