Dating outside your race: Prepare for the ENVY and HATE.

[Raye82]

Nah breh, I've had so many friends and random dudes ask me how I pull that.


Maybe with a white woman is not hate, but with a bad asian or Spanish chick. It's envy.

So are you saying that you don't experience this when you are with a bad black woman?
Random dudes don't ask you how you pulled that fine ass black woman or if she got friends?

The envy only appears when you are with Chung Li or Princessa?

 

[thirdeye]

I really don't give shyt who you date as a black woman, just don't act like other races are better than black women, that's it.
The stares I get from WW with their black bfs, like bytch bye I'm trying to get to work.. I don't give a shyt about you or your man so quit it.

 

[PeridotPuss]

How so? Curious.

Very diverse so you get just general race clique-ishness.

Lots of high paying jobs so many are status oriented or materialistic.

Govt. And military connected deeply so most can be structured and dull.

I've heard from people who recently moved to DMV that they've never been asked "what do you do?" so often

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

Is it the same if the situation was reversed?

Hmmmm...

Don't let the internet fool you... We don't care... If you want a black woman live your life and do you...

 

[prince_peoples]

didn't read.

As a man why would you care what anyone else thinks?

 

[thirdeye]

Don't let the internet fool you... We don't care... If you want a black woman live your life and do you...

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Staring at anonymous people because they are in a relationship or out together is for Losers no matter how it's attempted to be rationalized. It's easy to tell who doesn't have anything going on in their life sometimes. I know where this thread is going though.

 

[Birnin Zana]

You two aren't together after all this years? Why not?

 

[dc007]

When I first moved to DC, I was going to Northern Virginia Community College (Alexandria and Woodbridge campuses) Lawd have mercy, the perfect place to meet women. I use to tell my boys to take a class or two. They wonder how I kept a bad chick. Them fools aint listen tho smdh. Anyway, there was this Asian (Laos) chicks in my class that was so bad. She sounded like a Cali girl but she rocked Jordan 1s with nice jeans, so I was very intrigued so was this married CAC man. Anyway, I was getting As and Bcs easily, she was struggling. She found out and asked if I would study with her. She start coming over to my house every day but we never studied, not for one minute. Actually the first time she came over, we end up at the DC zoo. It must have been some type of Asian reunion there, we got so many looks. Asians looking envious and hating. Lol. I was somewhat uncomfortable, but she didn’t trip at all. So I was like fukk it too. We would leave school together on our breaks and every time we got back this CAC always starring and had some cornball shyt to say. “where yall go, he he he” Smh. The last day of school CAC comes up to me grinning and asks, “ you better try and get her number. “ I said, “maybe when she sleeps over again tonight I’ll get it.” CAC almost threw up. Lol.



Ive been kicking with this girl for 10 years now, she’s 28 now. I always joke with her about giving her the R.kelly loving. Over the years we’ve experience a lot of hate. Some of my female friends get jealous, wonder why I wasn’t dating a good black women. I tell them she’s a good Asian woman that love me, do I suppose to throw her in the bushes for no reason? Called me a hypocrite, bcuz I’m pro-black. I need went seeking to date out my race. The girls has been down for me for 10 years. Cooking for me, rides to and from the Airport. Trips to NYC. Whatever I need she’s been there. We aren’t together, but she always hits me up to see how I’m doing. I don’t have any other ex’s like that. She’s coming down here to Louisiana to visit me, I wish someone would say something crazy to her. I’ll ride for her any day, cuz that’s my rider.


People see brothers with another race and hate, but they don’t know what the chick has done for the man. You know how many white women be waiting for dudes outside those prison gates for when I brother gets out? Helping to get him on his feet.



So Shut The Fukk Up when you see em !!! Cuz you don’t know what’s they've been thru.

I don't think too many people care all that much outside of the strangeness of it. But if its been 10 years and she down for you like you say she is, what is stopping you from locking it down?

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

No nikkas I fukk with or me can give a fukk less... Its your p*ssy... Do what you want with it...

 

[Queen]

Strangers don't care about your inferiority complex. But people who know you might.

 

[King Kreole]

She took a major L for dealing with you for 10 years and didn't get a ring. Also 28 minus 10 is 16. You sound dusty and full of stds. Don't tell me you one of those nights still a freshmen at 35?

you been hanging out with Terrence Howard?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

You nikkas imagine the hate because deep down you feel like shyt for even being with a woman who isn't black. Nobody give a fukk about y'all like that

Thank you.

Who the fukk cares.

If you like white women, get a white woman.
If you like black women, get a black woman.

This site is full of weirdos.

 

[Knuckles Red]

When I first moved to DC, I was going to Northern Virginia Community College (Alexandria and Woodbridge campuses) Lawd have mercy, the perfect place to meet women. I use to tell my boys to take a class or two. They wonder how I kept a bad chick. Them fools aint listen tho smdh. Anyway, there was this Asian (Laos) chicks in my class that was so bad. She sounded like a Cali girl but she rocked Jordan 1s with nice jeans, so I was very intrigued so was this married CAC man. Anyway, I was getting As and Bcs easily, she was struggling. She found out and asked if I would study with her. She start coming over to my house every day but we never studied, not for one minute. Actually the first time she came over, we end up at the DC zoo. It must have been some type of Asian reunion there, we got so many looks. Asians looking envious and hating. Lol. I was somewhat uncomfortable, but she didn’t trip at all. So I was like fukk it too. We would leave school together on our breaks and every time we got back this CAC always starring and had some cornball shyt to say. “where yall go, he he he” Smh. The last day of school CAC comes up to me grinning and asks, “ you better try and get her number. “ I said, “maybe when she sleeps over again tonight I’ll get it.” CAC almost threw up. Lol.



Ive been kicking with this girl for 10 years now, she’s 28 now. I always joke with her about giving her the R.kelly loving. Over the years we’ve experience a lot of hate. Some of my female friends get jealous, wonder why I wasn’t dating a good black women. I tell them she’s a good Asian woman that love me, do I suppose to throw her in the bushes for no reason? Called me a hypocrite, bcuz I’m pro-black. I need went seeking to date out my race. The girls has been down for me for 10 years. Cooking for me, rides to and from the Airport. Trips to NYC. Whatever I need she’s been there. We aren’t together, but she always hits me up to see how I’m doing. I don’t have any other ex’s like that. She’s coming down here to Louisiana to visit me, I wish someone would say something crazy to her. I’ll ride for her any day, cuz that’s my rider.


People see brothers with another race and hate, but they don’t know what the chick has done for the man. You know how many white women be waiting for dudes outside those prison gates for when I brother gets out? Helping to get him on his feet.



So Shut The Fukk Up when you see em !!! Cuz you don’t know what’s they've been thru.

Go back to that community college, OP.

 

[George's Dilemma]

Thank you.

Who the fukk cares.

If you like white women, get a white woman.
If you like black women, get a black woman.

This site is full of weirdos.

I think this site is just as if not more obsessed with interracial dating than st0rmfr0nt, however for completely different reasons. Ain't mad at the OP either as I like reading different folks' experiences, but the amount of interracial related threads on this forum is noticeable. Who cares who you choose to date.

Have to say though, something the OP mentioned that I always get a kick out of is, the "strong Black women." That phrase/description will always be hilarious to me. It's like something straight out of Amazon or CraigsList. A woman is a woman so far as I'm concerned.