Dating after 30.

[Goat poster]

who is claiming dimes? A 35 yr old man that can pull attractive women that are 20-25 is winning. I'm 33 and I still pull young women. I went out friday night and bagged a cute 21 yr old Jamaican chick. She is coming over my condo during the week to cook brown stew chicken.


I dont even talk to women that are 30+

I'm not saying it's not possible, hell I'm 33 and my wife just turned 26.....

I just don't agree with the narrative around here that Nikkas can just play the field their whole life and pull attractive young women forever.

Cause that is NOT the case for most people.

Any Nikka that believes that is gonna run into the same harsh realities that they claim women run into, it might take longer, but it's real.

 

[Goat poster]

You dont wanna be the old dude at "singles lounge" either. Basically by 35-36 you should know what you want.

This is what I'm trying to tell Nikkas...

That shyt ain't cool...

 

[b_priest9mm]

If you're good looking, you can bypass most of this "creepy, old dude" shyt.

Then again, if you're good looking, pretty much any "limitation" that men have can be tossed in the bushes. JMO.

 

[Jahmal]

I'm not saying it's not possible, hell I'm 33 and my wife just turned 26.....

I just don't agree with the narrative around here that Nikkas can just play the field their whole life and pull attractive young women forever.

Cause that is NOT the case for most people.

Any Nikka that believes that is gonna run into the same harsh realities that they claim women run into, it might take longer, but it's real.

If you keep yourself in shape you can bag young women well into your 50s.

Hell Will Smith is 45 years old and even if he was a regular 9-5 dude making 60,000 a year he could still bag young women because he is in good shape for his age. If you are a 45 yr old man in good shape, have a nice condo/house, a fly car and dont dress like a grandpa you will have no problems getting young women.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This is what I'm trying to tell Nikkas...

That shyt ain't cool...

Cats wont listen....its simple when you think about it.Age is just a # but after 30 it gets real in everything.The room for error is slim.So with that being said here is what will happen to most straight brothas after 30

A) Have a kid with a woman (shack up,etc)

B)Get married and have a kid with a woman between 25-30

C)Live a bachelor life,no wife,just young women

 

[Rocket Scientist]

If you keep yourself in shape you can bag young women well into your 50s.

Hell Will Smith is 45 years old and even if he was a regular 9-5 dude making 60,000 a year he could still bag young women because he is in good shape for his age. If you are a 45 yr old man in good shape, have a nice condo/house, a fly car and dont dress like a grandpa you will have no problems getting young women.

Average dude aint Will Smith,in this "paycheck to paycheck era" his options would be limited.Even if he has $60,000 there are women who probably prefer $100,000 dude.$ can get you women,but it wont buy quality.There is a reason women leave high status men and go after the poolboy

 

[Jahmal]

These guys are in their 40s and 50s and they could still pull more chicks than most the young cats here just based on their physique. Stay in the gym and you will have success with young women.

 

[Jahmal]

Average dude aint Will Smith,in this "paycheck to paycheck era" his options would be limited.Even if he has $60,000 there are women who probably prefer $100,000 dude.$ can get you women,but it wont buy quality.There is a reason women leave high status men and go after the poolboy

Lets be real. 97% of black women arent messing with dudes that make more than 60,000 a year. Plus 60,000 a year for a man with no kids is a come up for most black women. In cities like Atlanta, 60K a year can have a man in a fly ass 5 bedroom house and nice luxury ride.

 

[marcuz]

Average dude aint Will Smith,in this "paycheck to paycheck era" his options would be limited.Even if he has $60,000 there are women who probably prefer $100,000 dude.$ can get you women,but it wont buy quality.There is a reason women leave high status men and go after the poolboy

bruh, do you know the % of black men making over 50k?

 

[Jahmal]

bruh, do you know the % of black men making over 50k?

I'm assuming the men in this thread who are considering living the bachelor lifestyle are making over 50K. If they are making 30K a year then the lifestyle isnt for them. All of my playa partnaz in ATL are over 30 and make 60K+ a year and we are running thru chicks.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Lets be real. 97% of black women arent messing with dudes that make more than 60,000 a year. Plus 60,000 a year for a man with no kids is a come up for most black women. In cities like Atlanta, 60K a year can have a man in a fly ass house and nice ride.

Keyword is "mess" my brotha.They will date the I.T. guy but that poolboy who makes her laugh has the real shot.Notice how most women always talk about what ther man does for a living.They stress that more then anything because face it if he was a Walmart bagger she wouldnt look his way.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

bruh, do you know the % of black men making over 50k?

I dont stress stats so i aint gonna guess

 

[MikelArteta]

Most Americans are living paycheck to paycheck

Average dude aint Will Smith,in this "paycheck to paycheck era" his options would be limited.Even if he has $60,000 there are women who probably prefer $100,000 dude.$ can get you women,but it wont buy quality.There is a reason women leave high status men and go after the poolboy

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Also looks or a "woman being out of your league" have nothing with anything.If you dont have confidence your done.Some women can find the dustiest looking cat attractive reason why confidence.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Most Americans are living paycheck to paycheck

Exactly so women cant be that picky.I say this from experience.I have dated women who were lawyers,went to med school and who worked for some top notch companies.