Damn I missed the story… what happened
Damn. Yeah so after all it wasn’t the age difference that was an issue. It was that she found someone else.
Attention span of attractive 21 year old is like 2scYou're 38 and she's 21 and IG and Tik Tok RAISED
You should have kept it CASUAL and played up to the Sugar Daddy aspect (THAT is WHAT she saw you as) more.
As in booking luxury hotels and vacations, then getting some threesomes and foursomes out of her.
You could have done all that while looking for a woman 26+ who would be more serious about a relationship and more emotionally mature.
It’s not dikk policing. We would wonder why a 38YO woman was wasting time with a young man who is obviously going to drop her for a young woman when he gets some money in his pockets (if not before)
It’s about practicality. If men ultimately want someone young and cute they’re going to find that and hold on to it when they can.
If women ultimately want stability and provision we’re going to find it and hold on to it when we do.
An older woman can’t give that to a younger man, and an older man who isn’t taking care of you/some of your needs isn’t giving you what you need either. TF is the point if being with you is no different than what I could experience with a guy closer to my age? That’s all we’re saying.
People are going to fall back to whatever is a better deal for them.
Good pointYou're 38 and she's 21 and IG and Tik Tok RAISED
You should have kept it CASUAL and played up to the Sugar Daddy aspect (THAT is WHAT she saw you as) more.
As in booking luxury hotels and vacations, then getting some threesomes and foursomes out of her.
You could have done all that while looking for a woman 26+ who would be more serious about a relationship and more emotionally mature.
NO- he was 17 years older than her.
How old are you big glo? What’s your age range?NO- he was 17 years older than her.
Lemme tell you what— if you can’t comfortably go to a young woman’s parents without them looking at you with a side eye because of the age gap —you’re at the point where you need to be breaking her off with tangibles.
You go to some girl’s father and act like you’re casually dating his daughter who is 17yrs younger than you, you might get shot.
This wasn’t 3, 4, 5 years. Y’all want to play like 10, 20 yr age gaps aren’t a big deal when you’re dealing with young people.
She’s 21 years old running around her campus with other 21yr old men, while DATING a man who is the same age as her fukking professors.
You think a 21YO is looking at a 38YO with the same lust and desire as she would a 21-25YO? Y’all ain’t operating in logic. She’s with the older guy because she’s trying to see if she can get the sugar baby lifestyle.
He’s not some slightly older grad student on campus. He’s almost 40. He’s almost twice her age. He’s supposed to change her life. Lmao
I knew 18YOs getting their rent and car note paid by guys in their early/mid 20s when I was in college— and their parents actually made it clear they couldn’t date those guys if those guys weren’t doing something for them. WE thought the parents were weird, but looking back we realized that their parents were being practical. Some dude who was slightly older was in their daughter’s face during her “prime” and they said if you going to be here bothering her while she could be meeting some other young man on campus, you’re going to provide something or get out of my daughter’s face.
Those girls never had to pay for a thing between their parents and their significant others.
Yet an almost 40YO man wants to date a woman 17yrs his junior and not break her off?
Nah. You’re taking advantage because she’s a young girl who doesn’t understand the game.
Another man in his position would be opening that wallet and she’d have a much harder time walking away. THAT is reality staring you in the face.
As @Coco Loco said, we aren’t hating- we’re telling you what makes a younger woman stick around with an older man.
Like, she could date a 26YO accountant or systems admin and get more out of that situation than she did with a 38YO
That’s standard treatment when dating a woman
While tracking her location on a phone plan that’s being paid by her parents.NO- he was 17 years older than her.
Lemme tell you what— if you can’t comfortably go to a young woman’s parents without them looking at you with a side eye because of the age gap —you’re at the point where you need to be breaking her off with tangibles.
You go to some girl’s father and act like you’re casually dating his daughter who is 17yrs younger than you, you might get shot.
This wasn’t 3, 4, 5 years. Y’all want to play like 10, 20 yr age gaps aren’t a big deal when you’re dealing with young people.
She’s 21 years old running around her campus with other 21yr old men, while DATING a man who is the same age as her fukking professors.
You think a 21YO is looking at a 38YO with the same lust and desire as she would a 21-25YO? Y’all ain’t operating in logic. She’s with the older guy because she’s trying to see if she can get the sugar baby lifestyle.
He’s not some slightly older grad student on campus. He’s almost 40. He’s almost twice her age. He’s supposed to change her life. Lmao
I knew 18YOs getting their rent and car note paid by guys in their early/mid 20s when I was in college— and their parents actually made it clear they couldn’t date those guys if those guys weren’t doing something for them. WE thought the parents were weird, but looking back we realized that their parents were being practical. Some dude who was slightly older was in their daughter’s face during her “prime” and they said if you going to be here bothering her while she could be meeting some other young man on campus, you’re going to provide something or get out of my daughter’s face.
Those girls never had to pay for a thing between their parents and their significant others.
Yet an almost 40YO man wants to date a woman 17yrs his junior and not break her off?
Nah. You’re taking advantage because she’s a young girl who doesn’t understand the game.
Another man in his position would be opening that wallet and she’d have a much harder time walking away. THAT is reality staring you in the face.
As @Coco Loco said, we aren’t hating- we’re telling you what makes a younger woman stick around with an older man.
Like, she could date a 26YO accountant or systems admin and get more out of that situation than she did with a 38YO
That’s standard treatment when dating a woman
You're 38 and she's 21 and IG and Tik Tok RAISED
You should have kept it CASUAL and played up to the Sugar Daddy aspect (THAT is WHAT she saw you as) more.
As in booking luxury hotels and vacations, then getting some threesomes and foursomes out of her.
You could have done all that while looking for a woman 26+ who would be more serious about a relationship and more emotionally mature.
