Stamina strength hp are your friends. Upgarade at least 2 weapons to similar striking stats. Upgrade as much as u can before u need large titanium. dont use effigies if you are getting owned by a boss until you figure out his pattern and are confident u can beat him. Get dranglaeic armor in fallen giants and increase strength till u can wear the set. Buy ring of giants in warf for poise. Dont be ashamed to run away from enemies to regroup. Learn to dodge and fight bosses head upIm running with the swordsman too, Im a beginner any tips?