Any woman that quotes that filth is an automatic bird and not worth the time and effort
Dam even women are out here saying having children lowers they value
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SleezyBigSlim
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Women don't care about you having kids, but we do care if they have kids. For example an independent woman with kids can still get a good breh. Those ratchet moms who still gotta live with they folks are lonely nobody wants them
Plenty if single men and women with a child who has their situation in order.. Everyone that has a child and single isn't your typical ghetto love story, on affordable housing with trifling BM/BD drama..
Wouldn't lower their dating value if people chose their better partners and stopped having unplanned kids while their relationship isn't solid.
BlaccSunrise
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That's not what she said. Regardless of how stable you are, if we're together and you have kids, that's still food off of my table going to someone else. Time away from me devoted to another. End of story. And if you're not spending enough time/money with your kid that's even more of a negative. There are no upsides to me being childless and dating a man with kids. I can admit, I'm selfish and don't want to deal with it. I don't even look at married men (do y'all really want women who go after these types?!) or those with kids.
My friend is a single mother and she is doing better than me honestly. She used to not date single fathers! I used to think that was insane. I talked to her about it and she gave it some thought and has opened up her dating pool. She's gone on more dates and has more suitors that accept her lifestyle and more importantly, understand it.
I'm 31, no kids and in a relationship. If it doesn't work out, I may have to make some adjustments. At a certain age it just becomes more difficult. But let's not pretend having a kid gives you a premium on the dating market. It's a demerit whether you're a man or a woman.
Single parents of the Coli coming together like Voltron to straight up lie dapping each other up about how being a single parent is somehow attractive or a benefit when it comes to dating
it doesn't.. I've personally just seen single people with dating and getting married with kids make it work out fine.. If you don't see it working out for you, thats fine as well.. Everyone doing what works for them is fine..
That's cool breh, but while it is pretty easy to avoid having children - I'm not going to obsess about social morals connected to our biological imperative to have kids.
Once the kid is there, I want as much support being there for the parents and children as possible, there's no "cautionary tales" that have any real reach.
Saying this as a man with no kids who is in great shape
That's why u have ur children' with only 1 man that is capable of co parenting.
The only thing my children take is my time. I can get in 2 a relationship rn and the man would have no obligation to my children and most of my communication with thier dad is in writing. They spend so much time with their father.
The only thing my children take is my time. I can get in 2 a relationship rn and the man would have no obligation to my children and most of my communication with thier dad is in writing. They spend so much time with their father.
Saysumthinfunnymike
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Some do.. some don't... People in general are terrible with their shot selection. That's why they end up single moms and single dads in the 1st place.
Saysumthinfunnymike
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Some single Moms had all that to begin with because they were in a normal relationship/marriage but it just fell apart..
NaijaProdigy Redux
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Where do you all live where it’s hard to meet 30 year old women with no kids? I don’t know one single mother.
Saysumthinfunnymike
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there's a difference between having a man/woman and keeping one. Attractive people can always get looks. it's the long game that's more difficult.
if i wanted to walk away what's to stop me? Not my kids so there's no obligation.