Coli men: What does your ideal woman get from you?

KinksandCoils

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you want to bet?
no woman of any quality is going to stay with you. You don't do shyt but provide your looks and dikk. So you are no better than Tyrone who is at his baby mamas house not providing but yet eating up all the food from the kids.

You think having a nice job in a car makes you any better? Ugh no it actually makes you even more shytty cause you can do more but you rest on having a job and car like that's something special. You will not be able to keep a woman acting like this. I suggest when you want a woman you change up your damaged attitude.
 

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In fairness it's tough to answer that one for both sexes. The top of mind stuff should be fairly standard. The reality is that what you provide is going to be largely based on your partners needs real or perceived.
 

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no woman of any quality is going to stay with you. You don't do shyt but provide your looks and dikk. So you are no better than Tyrone who is at his baby mamas house not providing but yet eating up all the food from the kids.

You think having a nice job in a car makes you any better? Ugh no it actually makes you even more shytty cause you can do more but you rest on having a job and car like that's something special. You will not be able to keep a woman acting like this. I suggest when you want a woman you change up your damaged attitude.

:mjlol:
look at this :heh:

because I don't give a woman money I'm the scourge of the earth thecoli.com y'all
 

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what's the purpose of this thread?
why do you want to know these things from complete strangers?
 

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I see both sides of it.

Why be just another fool in a long line of men spending their time and money on women who don't deserve it? Women who just game men to fill a void or fill up their boredom for a short while?

On the other hand, why should women give up their bodies and tie up their emotions in men who wanna hit and run and can't expand her horizons and mind?



The shyt that made me laugh about that Whipped Cream comment about Reincar supposedly demanding a woman pay her part for a 1st date is....she's kinda trying to suggest that if Reincar is single, it's because he doesn't trick/simp on women for the traditional niceties like paying for a 1st date. It's funny to me because so many women today work so hard to shatter traditional gender roles but want to cherry pick and keep the things they do like.

The shyt is just repetitive man.
Men want women.
Women want material.

The only difference to me is that I feel men are more upfront about what they want.
Women refuse to acknowledge what they want. Because I think they're afraid of how it looks.

There's no shame if you just want the p*ssy. Or the loyal housewife. Or whatever.
There's no shame if she wants the 70k a year man, the Friday Flowers and the Caribbean Vacation.

Just own it.
and let's just cut the bullshyt.


:coffee:

I was in no way suggesting that he was single because he doesn't "simp."I'm saying if a man asks me out on a date,then he needs to have the funds to pay for that first date. If a man approaches me on some "Hello, blah blah,I would love to take you out to so & so," he needs to have the coins.It's common courtesy

Maybe it was the way I was brought up?:yeshrug: My dad was a military man & knew how to court a woman.
 

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no not just that this is on all of the stuff you said.

because I said I won't provide for a woman if she's not my wife
because I said if a woman I'm dating is struggling i'm not going to open up my wallet and help

you attacked me.

YOu know what when I was paying 800 a month for car insurance, paying my mortgage, paying maintenance, paying gas, buying my groceries, paying my life insurance policy, investments etc. struggling I never asked for nothing, so why the hell would I open up my wallet to some woman I'm dating because she "desperately needs" it.

Go run to your parents, your not my wife
 

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Let's say you have your ideal woman, whatever that may be to you. She is ride or die, does not cheat etc.

What are the things you're bringing to the table?

Besides sex and a job:upsetfavre:
:dahell:....What else is left?
 

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because I said I won't provide for a woman if she's not my wife
because I said if a woman I'm dating is struggling i'm not going to open up my wallet and help

you attacked me.

YOu know what when I was paying 800 a month for car insurance, paying my mortgage, paying maintenance, paying gas, buying my groceries, paying my life insurance policy, investments etc. struggling I never asked for nothing, so why the hell would I open up my wallet to some woman I'm dating because she "desperately needs" it.

Go run to your parents, your not my wife
you must have been used by a gold digger because you associate a woman needing money from a man as gold digging.
and you wont have a wife by being selfish.
 

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I'm not gonna lie, that's a good question Teedot.

See, I used to be one of those dudes that would go the extra mile in all my relationships. Take them out on dates, genuinely care, etc. I don't mean simping either, I'd have my standards and requirements, and if they hit them, it'd be a mutual thing from there on. But the thing is, over time, people wear you down. People change you. You start off first dating wanting to do everything for your girl because seeing her happy made you happy. Then that falls through. And the next one does. And the next. Then you don't want to pour as much of yourself anymore. Things don't move you as much anymore. You start raising the bar higher and higher, subconsciously knowing that nobody will be able to clear it. And suddenly, you stop bringing things to the table.

I'm somewhere in that cycle right now, and I think that a lot of posters here are too. So to be honest, no. I don't know what my ideal woman would get from me right now.
 
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