I'm getting at the main theme of his argument with that question.
He said he is not spending any money on someone who is not his wife, a girl whom he asks out on a date is not his wife.& Awww,that was sweet of your girl.
However,I feel that if you asks me out on a date & you pay that is very polite and shows me that you know how to be a gentlemen.Paying on the first date, holding doors,etc shows me that you have some kind of home training & I value that.I remember going out with this one guy & not only did he pay for our date, he held the door opened for me & when we were at the movies he told me to sit on the inside because I'm the lady.It's not necessarily about the money,it's about do you know how to treat a woman?I can tell alot about your character from that first date.
your a idiot where did I say that?
I said I am not PROVIDING MONETARY
ala im not paying for trips, im not paying for rent, im not lending money, im not paying her cell phone bill that was cut off, im not paying for her car to get fixed.
be dumb brehettes