Coli men: What does your ideal woman get from you?

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I'm getting at the main theme of his argument with that question.:mjlol:
He said he is not spending any money on someone who is not his wife, a girl whom he asks out on a date is not his wife.& Awww,that was sweet of your girl.

However,I feel that if you asks me out on a date & you pay that is very polite and shows me that you know how to be a gentlemen.Paying on the first date, holding doors,etc shows me that you have some kind of home training & I value that.I remember going out with this one guy & not only did he pay for our date, he held the door opened for me & when we were at the movies he told me to sit on the inside because I'm the lady.It's not necessarily about the money,it's about do you know how to treat a woman?I can tell alot about your character from that first date.

your a idiot where did I say that?

I said I am not PROVIDING MONETARY

ala im not paying for trips, im not paying for rent, im not lending money, im not paying her cell phone bill that was cut off, im not paying for her car to get fixed.

be dumb brehettes
 

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Giving money to a woman in need doesn't strengthen a relationship, it only leads to being taken advantage of. Plus a women in need of money probably doesn't make sound financial decisions and is likely not a good mate. :scust:

just look at the mind of these females, these are the same women who :scust: at dudes who made 12 a hour and now we see why, they wnat you to empty out your wallet on them
 

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your a idiot where did I say that?

I said I am not PROVIDING MONETARY

ala im not paying for trips, im not paying for rent, im not lending money, im not paying her cell phone bill that was cut off, im not paying for her car to get fixed.

be dumb brehettes

Your name calling just shows your misery. :mjlol:

FIRST & FOREMOST MONETARY means anything relating of money.So YES,PAYING FOR THE FIRST DATE COULD VERY WELL INCLUDE BEING A "MONETARY FACTOR."

& I see your broke ass still didn't answer the question.
 

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Giving money to a woman in need doesn't strengthen a relationship, it only leads to being taken advantage of. Plus a women in need of money probably doesn't make sound financial decisions and is likely not a good mate. :scust:


You got that all wrong man. It's not simping to be supportive of your lady. For example, say the two of you are together and say all of a sudden her car breaks down. The majority of people don't have that kind of money laying around. If you have it to spare and she actually needs it, would you say no? If you're shopping and you spend whatever on yourself would you not bring something for her? Doesn't have to be extravagant or anything. Most females that are worth anything that I know would be willing to do just that. There's a difference between helping and being an enabler. You have to draw that line or help her become more responsible if being irresponsible is the issue.
 

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geee, ya think? :skip:

i dont know why everyone demonizes money & tangibles. the same wealth you'd need to be materialistic is the same wealth you'd need to provide for a family, or build a community
I'm not demonizing it, I just think this was the initial objective of the OP in a passive-aggressive way. I do feel women want to have their cake and eat it too though with "feminism".
 

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Your name calling just shows your misery. :mjlol:

FIRST & FOREMOST MONETARY means anything relating of money.So YES,PAYING FOR THE FIRST DATE COULD VERY WELL INCLUDE BEING A "MONETARY FACTOR."

& I see your broke ass still didn't answer the question.

look at teh shaming language, what misery :mjlol:

I said providing monetary and listed what I meant, and you know what I meant, yet your trying to go off tangent to try and get some warped thoughts across.

And now i'm broke? ok
 

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Your name calling just shows your misery. :mjlol:

FIRST & FOREMOST MONETARY means anything relating of money.So YES,PAYING FOR THE FIRST DATE COULD VERY WELL INCLUDE BEING A "MONETARY FACTOR."

& I see your broke ass still didn't answer the question.


like i said, dudes are telling on themselves. they make paying a few bucks for a date sound like a mortgage.
 

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like i said, dudes are telling on themselves. they make paying a few bucks for a date sound like a mortgage.

:mindblown: yeah breh how the hell do you even date like that? Any girl worth holding on to isn't going to go for netflix and dikk up front. That's what the girls that have nothing to add to any situation go for.
 

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:mindblown: yeah breh how the hell do you even date like that? Any girl worth holding on to isn't going to go for netflix and dikk up front. That's what the girls that have nothing to add to any situation go for.
yep, and any girlfriend thats content w/netflix and dikk will get snatched up by another bum eventually.



i prefer the alternative. where her quality of life would be lowered by stepping out.
 

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what does 2015 got to do with anything? What woman is going to marry a man that has BASIC limits to what he would do for her? Why would a woman marry a man who would not give her money in need when she can pick a man who would do that for her? you use the excuse that every woman asking for money is a gold digger cause you are selfish and materialistic.

:ohhh:

So until I got the dough :camby:
 

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I'm arrogrant? :heh:

You don't even know me

Your undeveloped mind just can't comprehend what I wrote.

so miss me with all that sh*t and let your mind develop
Stop with this shyt. It's embarrassing :snoop:
But I'm a good poster :mjcry:

Breh :russ:you may have started GMB but since I've joined 98% of your posts and threads have either been anti-women or anti-marriage.

Deny it if you want to :sas1:
You still a cool poster tho :manny:
Assume "get married, brehs" actually means get married, brehs :russ:
 
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