Coli men: What does your ideal woman get from you?

[Supercoolmayo]

I think the scariest part of this thread is the fact that dudes are giving these types of answers for their IDEAL woman. We're so entrenched in "these bytches ain't shyt" mentality that you can't even imagine what you'd be willing to give to someone who is worthy of everything you got.

It's all bravado and an unwillingness to be vulnerable b/c we're scared we won't be enuff for one another.
I think some dudes only deal with bytches and thots b/c they're afraid they don't have anything to offer other types of women. It's easier to pretend that there are virtually no good women out there , rather than think about why you keep missing them. To be perfectly honest, it's the same with a lot of black chicks as well.
We resent people having expectations of us due to fear of not bein able to live up to them. So the biggest defense mechanism we have is to talk shyt to the people asking us to live up to our full potential.

You've been having some quality posts

 

[marcuz]

I think the scariest part of this thread is the fact that dudes are giving these types of answers for their IDEAL woman.

yep, thats wha's tripping me out. the thread title is clear, yet dudes trying their best to turn the girl into a stranger, jump off, an uncommitted gf, etc.

Its somewhat dishonest to be mad at black men for not having the same economic position as a white man in a country who has worked to disenfranchised the black man since its inception

i dont want to create an dishonest argument, i understand the wealth disparity and a lot of BM not being in the position to provide at the same level. but men AND women will try to flip the script to fwhere money doesn't matter. then BM turn providing into tricking/simping, and women become gold diggers simply for desiring the bare necessities. then we're left with a bunch of men that have completely role reversed themselves, yet want to demand submission (see @Blackking's thread)

 

[Seto]

Hm, good thread.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

No diss to OP These threads usually are trap threads,they go in circles.Some people are gonna have a long lonely life.

 

[88m3]

she gets me

 

[feelosofer]

A financially stable man, a gentle yet firm demeanor, a supportive partner, a sounding board, deep reddish brown eyes, a genuine smile, if we have children, I am a good father, an advisor, a listening ear, a physically strong frame to hug away the pain, a friend, a lover (a generous one at that), a teacher, a student, an open mindstate, a clear conscience, a high pain threshold, an animal lover, a partner for life, should you accept.

But far from perfect,

Yet I try as hard as I hope you would.













Otherwise,























You get nothing from me.

 

[The Mad Titan]

After making it to 30 I can say, my views and thoughts on this has changed a lot.

In my early 20's it was money and a good time
Mid 20's pretty much the same thing with a hint of dedication
Late 20's it was loyalty, money and friend.
32 It's finalize at Loyalty, love, understanding, friendship, dedication and compassion

 

[LadySimone]

This

A black man with all those things in this society is the prize and does not have to settle or put up with bullshyt.

So how did this become about you?

 

[LadySimone]

these exact same nikkas will turn around and praise chicks that come from communities where men provide (simp) for them. dudes wanna complain about black womans attitudes, black women being masculine, black womens weight, all the damn single mothers; but they refuse to connect that to BW being out here alone to fend for themselves, with no men (fathers, brothers, husbands) offering them provisions.

i mean, the thread will speak for itself.

Its what I always say. If you think those women have better attitudes, thank their men.

 

[LadySimone]

You comes across as incredibly arrogant with an extreme "macho," attitude.

In order for a woman to become your wife she has to start somewhere.So you expect her to be in relationship with you & in the meantime you don't "do sh*t,?" for her until you put a ring on it?I'm telling you now,no woman is going to put up with that.

This dude Is a self fulfilling property. Damaged .

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

This dude Is a self fulfilling property. Damaged .

Prophecy*


Answers in the first 2 pages suck

A financially stable man, a gentle yet firm demeanor, a supportive partner, a sounding board, deep reddish brown eyes, a genuine smile, if we have children, I am a good father, an advisor, a listening ear, a physically strong frame to hug away the pain, a friend, a lover (a generous one at that), a teacher, a student, an open mindstate, a clear conscience, a high pain threshold, an animal lover, a partner for life, should you accept.

But far from perfect,

Yet I try as hard as I hope you would.

After making it to 30 I can say, my views and thoughts on this has changed a lot.

In my early 20's it was money and a good time
Mid 20's pretty much the same thing with a hint of dedication
late Late 20's it was loyalty, money and friend.
32 It's finalize at Loyalty, love, understanding, friendship, dedication and compassion

These two though

 

[LadySimone]

Prophecy*

thanks my love.

 

[FTBS]

Knowledge, support, stability, guidance, openness, protection, provision, fun, a vision for the future, seeds, a thorough dikking while passing those seeds along, male guidance for that seed aka what a man is supposed to do.