Coli men: What does your ideal woman get from you?

[WHIPPEDCream]

What he is saying makes perfect sense. The ideal and most successful relationships are balanced. A man and a woman should be able to provide and not depend on each other.

I do not want a trophy wife, i want a partner so i have no need or desire to impress or spend lavishly just to woo her.

There is nothing wrong with a balanced relationship,I support balanced relationships.But this "I'm not doing sh*t for no woman," attitude comes off as selfish and is a turn off.Imagine if you heard your girlfriend say "I'm not doing sh*t for no man that's not my husband," that's not exactly what you want to hear as her boyfriend.

look a woman telling a man that he can't simp in a relationship

So if a man has a gf hes only been with for two weeks and takes out that cc while you go shopping at nordstorm and pays for all your expenses that ain't simping?



the mind of a poster named whipped cream y'all

Well I'm going to assume if she is his girlfriend there was a period of them being in the "talking," stage.Something led up to them officially being together, so no I have no problem with him spoiling his girlfriend.If he can afford to & he's doing it because he wants to and he thinks it will make her happy,then what is wrong with that?Now if there are other motives (like he's spending money on her to keep her around) then that's a problem.

 

[KinksandCoils]

What is it

You have a vagina and you can open your legs

Congratulations

You're still not "worth" more than me

what does that have to do with bringing something to the table? Are you special in the head or something?

 

[marcuz]

Breh...whats going on with you right now?

i'm trying to figure out the same thing. feminism and matriarchy has done DAMAGE to black men

 

[MikelArteta]

Please tell me where I said I'm not doing anything?

I said I'm not providing monetary! Ala I'm not paying any of her bills, covering rent, phone bill, gas groceries.

There is nothing wrong with a balanced relationship,I support balanced relationships.But this "I'm not doing sh*t for no woman," attitude comes off as selfish and is a turn off.Imagine if you heard your girlfriend say "I'm not doing sh*t for no man that's not my husband," that's not exactly what you want to hear as her boyfriend.


Well I'm going to assume if she is his girlfriend there was a period of them being in the "talking," stage.Something led up to them officially being together, so no I have no problem with him spoiling his girlfriend.If he can afford to & he's doing it because he wants to and he thinks it will make her happy,then what is wrong with that?Now if there are other motives (like he's spending money on her to keep her around) then that's a problem.

 

[marcuz]

Please tell me where I said I'm not doing anything?

I said I'm not providing monetary! Ala I'm not paying any of her bills, covering rent, phone bill, gas groceries.

if its your ideal mate, why would you cover rent? why wouldnt she live with you?

this would be funny if it werent so sad. this mentality spills right over onto the children, where black men ignore the benefits of passing down generational wealth.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

I aint even mad but that made me laugh...just the implication that you made tho.
Dudes gotta trick on you, girl? Go on and get yours.


Man this thread entertaining as hell on both sides.

Still waiting on him to answer to.

& I don't mind going dutch or even paying for my boo but when it comes to the first date, he will be paying (& he did).

 

[KinksandCoils]

Please tell me where I said I'm not doing anything?

I said I'm not providing monetary! Ala I'm not paying any of her bills, covering rent, phone bill, gas groceries.

so even if she was in desperate need of it and you were the only one she could go to plus you had the money to give you still wouldn't help her? This wouldn't be just any woman but the woman that is special to you.

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

what does that have to do with bringing something to the table? Are you special in the head or something?

What do you bring to the table?

 

[MikelArteta]

so even if she was in desperate need of it and you were the only one she could go to plus you had the money to give you still wouldn't help her? This wouldn't be just any woman but the woman that is special to you.

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nope I wouldn't, go to your parents, go to the bank, take out a cash advance.


I've learned my lesson in life already lending money to people.

Now if she is my wife and something comes up then yesof course, but just some random chick whose my girlfriend?

yeah right.

And before you get on your high horse and ish, I actually opened up my basement rent free for three months when my cheating ex was about to be homeless and got her a new job.

So don't come at all at me in terms of helping people out.

 

[KinksandCoils]

What do you bring to the table?

nikka you are in my thread and you aren't even answering the damn question but yet you turn around and ask me the question

Stop making excuses for not answering it please.

And yea I can answer the question. I will wait for you to try and say I can't answer it

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Please tell me where I said I'm not doing anything?

I said I'm not providing monetary! Ala I'm not paying any of her bills, covering rent, phone bill, gas groceries.

Does this also include holiday gifts,treatings,just because gifts,etc?

& Back to my other question, are you paying for that first date?

 

[KinksandCoils]

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nope I wouldn't, go to your parents, go to the bank, take out a cash advance.


I've learned my lesson in life already lending money to people

I just said those options were out of the equation. Yet you got the nerve to say I don't comprehend.

You're supposed to be a Christian yet look at how you value money. Someone in desperate need that you would care about can't even get your help even when you got it

Materialistic money hungry ass nikka

 

[Rich Spirit]

Doesn't matter what a woman gets from us because she will leave you anyway because it's never enough

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

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nope I wouldn't, go to your parents, go to the bank, take out a cash advance.


I've learned my lesson in life already lending money to people

LMAO. I salute your "future wife."

 

[DarlingNikki]

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