Why would you accuse a black woman of throwing other black women under the bus just for making an observation tho? The comment in the op isn’t even disrespectful. She didn’t throw black women under the bus.
You’re projecting. This is about black women appropriating other people’s looks while whining about other people appropriating looks associated with them. So the question is, why do black women think that they’re allowed to “experiment” but whine when other women experiment?
histrionics aside, If you prefer wearing your hair straight on a regular basis when your natural hair is kinky then yea, you’ve got self hate issues.
If you like dying your hair blonde on a regular basis and it’s not naturally blonde then yea, you’ve got self issues.
I’m telling you that as a black woman who has not a self hate cell in my body these generalizations y’all place on Black women are harmful.
Well as a black man who’s only being critical out of love, I think the way that blacks like you constantly deflect from real problems in our community is very very harmful. Again, this was a comment that was originally made by a black woman. You’re trying to discredit her and all those who agree with her instead of just acknowledging the truth in what she said and dealing with it. Your whole argument here seems to be “not all of us tho”. Even if you want to say not all black women wearing weave have self hate issues, most do. That’s what you’re deflecting from.
I think you’re telling on yourself here. You’re basically saying that straight hair is superior to kinky hair. I’m not even entertaining that “it ain’t that we think straight hair looks better, it’s just for logistical purposes” excuse. That’s laughable. We know good and we’ll that when 95% of black women get ready to look their best(to them), they’re wearing straight hair in some form or fashion. The overwhelming majority of black women think that straight hair looks better than kinky hair. I don’t even know what you’re blatantly lying. Like the term “good hair” hasn’t been a thing in our community for centuries.
White people tan naturally in the sun. Tanning beds are used to replicate what happens to them naturally in the sun. A tanned white woman doesn’t look like a black woman. You cant equate white woman tanning to black women wearing European/Asian textured weave. The white chics on social media with skin bronzer and African textured wigs/weave are tryna look black but not just white girls who tan. You’re just trying to deflect from valid criticisms by whining about black men.
I didn’t even mention IR dating. I made a point about black women longing for white male validation and how that correlates to y’alls insecurity about hair and other phenotypical features. Black women DO secretly lust after white men and seek their acceptance/validation. I don’t need to studies to tell me about black women when I’ve been around them all of my life.
I used Viola Davis as an example because she recently made comments proving my point. She’s been in movies for years but until recently she’s never appeared on screen without a weave/wig. She’s clearly a black woman who has insecurity issues with her hair and appearance but if you would’ve questioned her on it before, she would’ve denied it like you’re doing now. Of course, most black women aren’t going to readily admit that they wear weave because they have insecurity and self hate issues.
I’m not caping for anyone and I don’t give a fukk about white girls. I’m talking to black women. Again, this thread is based on a comment posted by a black woman. She’s the one who called y’all out for being hypocrites. I was reiterating the point of the thread because the person I was responding to was deflecting.
Now, my point here is that y’all are full of shyt for even denying that the weave/wig/perm issue is rooted in self hate. We can’t even deal with the issue because y’all won’t even cop to it being a problem.
Yes, there are lot of black men on the colorism shyt who put light skin women on a pedestal over darker skinned women. I would never deny that. Here’s the thing tho, black women are just as colorist as black men. Black women put lighter skinned black women on pedestals above darker skinned black women too.
This is a deflection tho because that’s not what this topic is about.
This is a damn lie. Why do you think that white women spend so much on tanning and all that? White boys don’t generally like that pale shyt and white women know that. Black men are a lot more lenient on black women than white men are on white women(to our detriment). Now part of that is because we have less power/control, but it’s still true.
You’re just telling on yourself here. You’ve clearly got white men on some kind of pedestal.
Ok, now you’re just in full bedwench troll mode lashing out at black men because your feelings are hurt. I’m not going to do the gender war thing and start dissing black women in general just to get back at you.[/QUOTE]
No it's not a lie lol. Give me one example where a yt dude said he's not attracted to a yt women who has the same skin color as him. I can name famous black dudes who did tho thats a fact lol.
My man is black so not true lol! All that bendwench this bedwench that talk is old and played out lol. NEWSFLASH not every black women who disagrees with is dating out get a grip lol.
Oh btw Come on with something else. Stop being sensitive bruh.
Wait, wait, wait. Fake AA women and two groups of men? Then how is this thread, shytting precisely on AA women based on contextual clues (Mary J, etc), a response? Shouldn't yall be coming for the groups you named directly?
This is really bad deflecting ... how many black Americans have seen naturally green haired women? ... or purple hair women .. etc etc
