Omggggggg this is so me lol.
Your really right! It's not that black women don't know how to take care their hair, it's mostly because of how long it takes!
ESPECIALLY if you have thick big 4C hair.
My hair literally looks like this it takes foreverrrrr to detangle. I literally can't leave my hair like this UNLESS it's in a protective style.
They truly don't understand how easy it is to for hair like this to get matted and tangled which result in breakage.
You CANNOT go to bed like non black women do and leave your hair unseparated lol. IT WILL get matted period lol.
When I wear my natural hair out I leave it like this
Or I wear box braids or crochet braids, either or.
I really want to these Passion twists. They're so pretty but yeah lol