Sexism isnt just systematic: look at domestic violence in our community for example .or colorism. Or even black media ( which black men gate keep)Just because it isnt systematic doesnt mean it not real.
But thats the barbaric ness of man though.
Thats not oppression, tthats wonton violence based of individual/selfish reasons. Not a grand scheme by men (in this case, black men) to keep women subjugated as second class citizens.