Candace Cameron Bure Defends Her "Submissive Role" With Husband: "I Want Him to Lead"

[Chesirecatdaddy]

yes sir. dudes in here need to take notice of the KIND of men who are being "submitted to" with ease as well. like attracts like. righteous dude attracts righteous chick 9/10.

Bure is a devout christian along with Candice...despite being a hockey player and having puckbunnies throw p*ssy at him on the daily back in the day.... he's always been know as being an upstanding and loyal dude who puts his family above all. any woman worth her weight in gold would be HONORED to get behind THAT and submit to a man who can exercise such discipline and self control.

i'm about as conservative in my relationship as it gets.my husband barks...... i jump. he runs the home...bills...family ...you name it. as a proudly traditional woman i can say this.... if you dudes in here really think you're gonna run around "smashing" everything in site like y'all like to fantasize about till your 40... wearing being a manwhore as some kind of badge of honor and then suddenly try to lock down a loyal submissive wife that's honored to let you lead you need to think again. most of us won't be checking for you or will already be off the market. you've got to BE what you want to attract. let that marinate for a min.

wow I actually agree with this

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

shhhhh

...they're here

 

[dax]

Oh dear no submissives are treated very well by their husbands or boyfriends, not like animals. Subs also do not have to do anything they don't want to do. Ordering them around is not the point. Subs are treated well by their master. If you have seen Secretary you would understand that is how it is.

I don't believe Candace Cameron is a sub, but it's near to the same thing when a woman says she's submissive.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

yes sir. dudes in here need to take notice of the KIND of men who are being "submitted to" with ease as well. like attracts like. righteous dude attracts righteous chick 9/10.

Bure is a devout christian along with Candice...despite being a hockey player and having puckbunnies throw p*ssy at him on the daily back in the day.... he's always been know as being an upstanding and loyal dude who puts his family above all. any woman worth her weight in gold would be HONORED to get behind THAT and submit to a man who can exercise such discipline and self control.

i'm about as conservative in my relationship as it gets.my husband barks...... i jump. he runs the home...bills...family ...you name it. as a proudly traditional woman i can say this.... if you dudes in here really think you're gonna run around "smashing" everything in site like y'all like to fantasize about till your 40... wearing being a manwhore as some kind of badge of honor and then suddenly try to lock down a loyal submissive wife that's honored to let you lead you need to think again. most of us won't be checking for you or will already be off the market. you've got to BE what you want to attract. let that marinate for a min.

you guys still…have not…not once….described a specific event that displays submission in a relationship

 

[dax]

you guys still…have not…not once….described a specific event that displays submission in a relationship

What kind of submission would you like to know of? Sexual submission or daily submission?

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

Women think that being submissive is "beneath" them. They've been raised that it should be 50/50 or they lead. Yeah the man needs to be in charge, but so often the women makes the guy's life hell if he tries to be in charge that it isn't worth it to them. So now she's in charge, she can't handle it, and the relationship fails.

 

[dax]

frankly i am one of those women who is gladly submissive.So.... not all women think that way.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

no, because you nor any woman who says "I want to submit" ever do a good job of EXPLAINING THE SPECIFIC SITUATIONS THAT CAUSE FOR SUBMITTING

you submit all the time without even knowing it in life breh... or brehette whichever one you are. Just because I do half the chores in my home and decided to cook 3 nights out of 7 doesn't mean my wife isn't submissive to me. If I'm usually the one who takes charge with the direction the relationship will go in, I don't have to announce that my wife is submissive to me, things will just fall into place if it's a healthy relationship. I'm sure she will also excel at things that I suck at and I will look to her for insight or help in those areas... this still doesn't mean I'm submissive to my wife in the relationship. We are talking aobut the relationship, relationship duties,etc. We're not talking about slavery and nobody is talking about forcing anything on anyone.

 

[dax]

Well first you have to define what you mean by situations that are cause for submission.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

They said *mr. somebody, we like men that cook * as if somehow i was getting over on my wife and winning.

I was like. "I dont cook because i feel its a womans job, i dont cook because im not good at it"

They were like.

"Learn "

When i take my wife to the gun range, show her offensive knife techniques and try to teach her some BJJ she doesnt like it, even though, it could protect our home from demons.

We should all cater to our strengths. Thats just my opinion though.

u tried to compare cooking to fighting? lol yeah, as I thought, you have personal issues that express themselves as hyper masculinity

Not being good at it isn't even a credible excuse. You could've just manned up and said you ain't feel like it. You're 30 years old fam. Thirty. Not 18. Not 21. At no point in your life did you learn how to cook at least one quality breakfast, lunch and dinner meal? The fukk What did you do before your wife? Tv dinners?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

how is it a fantasy? We are not all born alike some men are even stronger in some areas than others and vice versa. shyt is very much a reality.

Exactly, we are all different so why then do we all need the same type of relationship?

 

[Mr. Somebody]

great, now answer the part where I ask you to list specific examples that cause for a woman to submit

you have a wife, so you should be able to easily list the times in which she submitted to you/for you. you shouldn't have to use hypotheticals.

and I'm still confused about the guidance issue? Guide them to what? To be better individuals? How? In what way? And what makes that guidance so significant, that it's only a one way street? Because really, as you see, the word you're looking for isn't guidance *ye shrug*

I dont use the word submit because that would allude to my woman being wild, which she is not but to assist you, friend id say its knowing when to choose your battles, controlling your temperment and knowing that as it concerns alot of issues the man has veto power in the home.

This isnt to say that women dont have say but the mans final judgement should be trusted up until the point its proven to be wrong consistently. If hes a man of understanding that knows his strengths i doubt it will come to that. (most times)

A few pages back i outlined the things that i have taught my wife and she has taught me. What she teaches me is more intimate, sentimental and emotional and what i teach her is how to carry herself in a way that brings glory to our house within the confines of angelicness, friend. There are alot of teachers out there that women try to emulate that do not bring glory to their homes. This is why my wife and I dont watch television. We prefer reality.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

you submit all the time without even knowing it in life breh... or brehette whichever one you are. Just because I do half the chores in my home and decided to cook 3 nights out of 7 doesn't mean my wife isn't submissive to me. If I'm usually the one who takes charge with the direction the relationship will go in, I don't have to announce that my wife is submissive to me, things will just fall into place if it's a healthy relationship. I'm sure she will also excel at things that I suck at and I will look to her for insight or help in those areas... this still doesn't mean I'm submissive to my wife in the relationship. We are talking aobut the relationship, relationship duties,etc. We're not talking about slavery and nobody is talking about forcing anything on anyone.

Someone read this post and see if you notice a specific example of a woman submitting in a relationship. Because that's what I asked for. I think, I'm not 100% sure, his example of a woman submitting has to do with the direction of the relationship. But from this paragraph, I see that's his ONLY example of a woman submitting in a relationship. Because if that's true, thats not the definition of submission.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

u tried to compare cooking to fighting? lol yeah, as I thought, you have personal issues that express themselves as hyper masculinity

Not being good at it isn't even a credible excuse. You could've just manned up and said you ain't feel like it. You're 30 years old fam. Thirty. Not 18. Not 21. At no point in your life did you learn how to cook at least one quality breakfast, lunch and dinner meal? The fukk What did you do before your wife? Tv dinners?

I have a few meals under my belt that i cook to my liking. They arent up to my standards. My wife is an excellent cook across a variety of cultures and Enjoys cooking so thats her bag, not mine. You havnt made a point yet though, friend. Maybe where you're from women are more aggressive so i can see how these types of women would sound foreign to you. Like aliens.

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

You guys are acting like men don't want to lead. It's that they've been taught their whole lives that that thinking is sexist, that they should just do what their wife wants and be happy you even have her. If you as a male get on TV and say "I'm the leader of my marriage and my wife is number 2" you will get CRUCIFIED by the public. The "correct" answer is to say that the wife wears the pants or that she is in charge.

There's a reason a lot of guys don't want to get married, it means being servile to a female that is just a pain. She doesn't want to be in charge, but society has told her that she is in charge, so she has to do all this shyt and isn't even happy.