love is possibly the most complex thing on this earth, and we all define it differently
i know dudes who will cheat on their girl, but will take care of their kids, and take a bullet for their fam. do they not love their girl???
another crazy thing about love (and semi-related) is that if you really love someone you have to know how and when to lie to them. now doesn't that blow your mind?
cheating is wrong, but there's a different between "wrong" and loving someone
unless we're going to start getting into the "love" vs. "in-love" debate
taking a bullet ONCE, can actually be easier then living with your spouse for 50 years never cheating on her.
imagine that for a moment. imagine the hot pieces that will be going by your way between 2012 and 2062. or take a bullet. see there. taking a bullet is actually easier.
There's a reason these muslim fanatics or any religious fanatics like to go the way of doing something crazy then offing themselves. and say "its for GOD." sure it is. you do that because you're trying to escape the tough parts of life. its hard loving God properly EVERYDAY. to do that, it takes EXTREME sacrifice....DAILY. you ever heard that church saying "you have to die daily." well that applies to your spouse as well. every single time you see a hot piece. that you have to pass on you. you're dying to self. let that die, let that feeling go and go home and tell your spouse you love them for real. cause now you actually do. you're willing to sacrifice self pleasure for them.
and for the record dipping on your wife and being a great father doesnt exist either. you can be a pretty good father. but never great if you dip on your wife. cause your kids see you too. they willl grow up with a warped idea of what a husband and wife should be. when that happens. you have just changed the course of their dating life forever possibly based on you wanting a nice personal feeling from some other chick outside of your house. that goes both ways for the ladies too.
yall need to stop fooling yourselves into believing nonsense.
just admit when you do wrong. even if you dont feel like changing. admit it.
this will give you the ability to find your way back to the right path when you come to grips with all the wrong you have done and now you are prepared to get right. but if you keep lying to yourself about whats right and whats wrong. you wont know which way to go to find the right path. cause you have deluded yourself so long.
its like scribbling on a map saying this way is home. even though it isnt. you do that long enough. you will actually believe the wrong way is the right way home.
